Of Different Minds: Seeing Your AD/HD Child Through the Eyes of God [Paperback]

Maren Angelotti (Author)

Book Description

Publication Date: January 2, 2009

Parents of children with learning differences such as ADD/ADHD and Dyslexia have a unique and exciting road ahead of them. This phenomenon may have been perceived as a burden when their child was first diagnosed with these learning differences, but know that God does not make mistakes. Therefore, parents must refocus their personal expectations of what their child should be and find out where God is guiding this child. It is time to become God’s helper in raising His child. In Of Different Minds, readers will learn why their child is wired a little differently and how to cope with and educate this incredible person. The book also addresses parental denial and the mystery and fear surrounding ADD/ADHD, Dyslexia and related disorders; the toll on marriage; how to parent these children; the future of the family and the future for these children. Can a learning different child be successful? Of course, says Maren Angelotti, and here are the tools to set parents and their children on the path to success.

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From the Back Cover

There is good news for parents of children with ADD, AD/HD, dyslexia and other learning differences: God has a special purpose in mind for every person created in His image, and that includes each one who is learning-different! If you are unsure about how to help your child succeed with his or her particular challenges, Of Different Minds will become an indispensable guidebook of practical tips and expert insights offered with the unshakeable belief that God doesn’t make mistakes. In addition to easy-to-understand clinical information and summaries of the latest research, you’ll find out how to:Communicate so that your child can understand you, Promote good behavior at home and at school, Make educational choices based on what is best for your child, Strengthen your family to weather inevitable storms,  And much more! God has big plans for your child, and the challenges he or she faces are a part of that plan. Learn to see your precious child through God’s eyes . . .eyes that see a life full of potential, possibility and promise!

About the Author

Maren Angelotti has a B.A. in Sociology and Theology from Loyola Marymount University and a M.A.T. (Masters of Arts in Teaching) for the Learning Different student from Dallas Baptist University. Maren has her own practice in Dallas, Texas, working with children and adults with learning differences. She also travels across the U.S. speaking on learning differences to various educational groups. She has four children, two of which have learning differences. They are currently completing their college careers and are looking forward to bright futures. Her husband, Bob, runs a successful public relations firm.

Product Details

• Reading level: Ages 18 and up
  
• Paperback: 272 pages
• Publisher: Regal (January 2, 2009)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0830747206
• ISBN-13: 978-0830747207
• Product Dimensions: 8.4 x 5.5 x 0.8 inches
• Shipping Weight: 8.8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 4.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (3 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #981,381 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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16 of 17 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Of Different Minds was perfect for my situation, February 20, 2009

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This book was an answer to prayer. My 14-year-old was finally diagnosed ADD after six years of struggling in school with several learning differences. I picked up this book right after my daughter started medication and before I met with all of her teachers to discuss her difficulties in school. The book spoke to my mind and heart on so many levels. It's reassuring and even lists benefits of ADD; it offers practical advice; it includes countless ideas and resources; and it is written to span the lives of young children through college and on to adulthood. I can relate to so much in this book, and it has helped me through a tough time. My husband now wants to read the book because of what I've shared with him. We're a five-hour drive from Dallas, but we may consider consulting with Dr. Angelotti if the need arises. In the meantime, thank you, Dr. Angelotti! PS We can tell after two weeks that medication is making a difference in my daughter's ability to focus. Her grades are much improved!

11 of 11 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Has helped us understand ADHD like never before, June 10, 2009

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This is the most informative source on ADHD that we have seen, and we've been dealing with it for 15 years. Angelotti has LIVED what she writes. They have multiple children with learning disorders.
* First, it is well researched. They have "gone to the moon and back" searching for answers in helping their kids.
* Second, it is personal. She shares many first-person examples of issues and how they learned to handle them. She's frank about what worked and what didn't.
* Third, she has developed good connections with top-of-the-line medical resources and excellent home school products that she has used to great advantages.
* And fourth, she writes well. When we got into sections that especially addressed some of our challenges, we just couldn't put it down. Although it's a book primarily for parents of ADHD children, professionals should read it as well. Our psychologist had not heard of some of the recent innovations described in the book, but he has now! For the price, you can't go wrong. We think you'll be very pleased.

2 of 2 people found the following review helpful:

2.0 out of 5 stars Wish I Could Recommend, August 9, 2011

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As a special education teacher, I wish I could recommend this book to my parents, but I can't. It's not the religious viewpoint that I object to, it's the worldview.
I felt that this book was written by and targeted to a very narrow demographic: upper-middle-class happily-married Christian stay-home moms who have the privilege of choosing whether or not they will go back to work after they become parents, and who can afford four-year university educations for their children with average or above-average IQs.
I was initially surprised by the subtle (and not-so-subtle) put-downs of "selfish" (p. 12) working mothers who consign their children to daycare, which the author equates with third-world orphanages, where children are subjected to sensory and cultural deprivation (pp. 30-31).
Then, I was disappointed by the insensitivity to cognitively-impaired and developmentally delayed students. Dr. Angeloti takes pains to emphasize that the appropriate term for her own children is learning difference, not learning disability, but then she has no qualms about referring to developmentally delayed children as "mentally retarded" (pp. 33-34), which many special education professionals, parents, and students would find offensive.
Early in the book, Dr. Angelotti also seems clearly biased against what she calls "learning a trade," and relegates this to "mentally retarded" students and students who are "bitter and angry" (pp. 16, 34, 60). Much later in the book, Chapter 5 to be exact, she comes around to discussing "trade school" as an option for some students,and she assures us that "others have chosen trade school and gone on to be very successful in their lives" (p. 121), but she has already made it clear that she feels college is the best and most desirable placement for all students, which in my professional experience simply isn't true.
There is much useful information in this book, but it is significantly overshadowed by its shortcomings. If you are an upper-middle-class happily married Christian stay-home mom whose children are average to above-average intelligence and college-bound, this is the book for you. If not, I would recommend looking elsewhere.