The Dilemma [Paperback]

Tina Goss (Author)

Product Details

• Paperback: 142 pages
• Publisher: Pentland Press (NC); 1 edition (July 1999)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 1571971610
• ISBN-13: 978-1571971616
• Product Dimensions: 8.5 x 5.5 x 0.4 inches
• Shipping Weight: 8 ounces
• Average Customer Review: 4.3 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (3 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #5,492,454 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars A "must read" for those lives touched by Manic Depression!, October 5, 1999

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Colleen Sullivan "Collie" (Sault Ste. Marie, ON, Canada) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: The Dilemma (Paperback)

Title: The Dilemma

Author: Tina Goss

ISBN: 1571971610

Publisher: Pentland Press, Inc

Published: 1999

Tina writes a compelling memoir of growing up with a father diagnosed with Bipolar Affective Disorder (Manic Depression), a major mental disorder. Tina's dad spent a large part of his life in institutions, at a time when there was no real treatment for the illness. Patients at that time (in the 60's and 70's) were treated mainly by the use of restraints...either chemical (heavy anti psychotic tranquilizing medications) or physical (being bound to the bed by straps or strips of cloth). Tina's dad suffered both of these denigrating and humiliating circumstances.

The Dilemma is a story of unabridged love and support. It is a story of how Tina and her mother coped with his illness. Parts of it will bring tears to your eyes and other parts will have you laughing at the humor they employed to maintain their own sanity. They tried everything and remained ever hopeful that the next thing they tried would prove to be the answer to their prayers.

Yet Tina's Dad deteriorated. Physical illness in the form of severe emphysema entered the picture and he spent more and more time in hospital. Throughout it all, Tina was going through the normal trials and tribulations of growing up...surely enough for a young person without the added stress of a mentally ill parent.

Tina was writing college exams, her mother had just had surgery and her father was dying. What was Tina to do? Tell her mother? Keep it from her? It was the biggest dilemma Tina had ever faced

Read "The Dilemma" to find out more, a book I highly recommend to anyone looking for a personal glimpse of a courageous family living with a severe mental illness.

Note: Personally I strongly related to "The Dilemma". I grew up with a mother diagnosed Manic Depressive from 1950 until her death in 1974. Tina and I share many common bonds of feelings and experiences, though no two stories are ever the same. In 1979 I myself was diagnosed with the same disorder. Fortunately for me I am one of the lucky ones. Although there is no cure as yet, effective treatment is available. My psychiatrist told me from the beginning that in earlier years I would have spent my life institutionalized.

5.0 out of 5 stars Life with a seriously ill manic-depressive parent., June 13, 1999

By A Customer

This review is from: The Dilemma (Paperback)

The Dilemma is an excellent depiction of life with a severely ill manic-depressive parent, and the adaptations necessary for the family to survive as a unit.

Ms. Goss' attention to detail, her wit, and the story she shares with us make for a spellbinding book. Brew a pitcher of iced tea and get comfortable, because you won't be able to put this book down!

Treatment of manic-depression, or bipolar disorder, has improved by orders of magnitude in the last few years. But abuses by hospital staffers like the ones described in The Dilemma still continue.

0 of 1 people found the following review helpful:

3.0 out of 5 stars Well written, but misplaced anger, March 11, 2000

By A Customer

This review is from: The Dilemma (Paperback)

I found the method of writing was quite talented and well written. Though I do not agree with her misplaced anger. It is obvious that the Catholic Church had sustained her family through this difficult time that the war, chain smoking, addiction to valuum, etc. had brought upon their family. I fail to understand why her anger was not directed toward these aspects that were the real culprits in their miserable lives, NOT the church.