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Dirty Little Secrets: Breaking the Silence on Teenage Girls and Promiscuity [Paperback]

Kerry Cohen
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September 1, 2011

They have sex too early and for the wrong reasons.
They get STDs. They get pregnant too young.
They have "friends with benefits" but with no benefit to themselves.
They don't get called. They get dumped.
They hate themselves for being unlovable for being needy.
They are loose girls they are everywhere and they need our help.

In the provocative hit memoir Loose Girl, Kerry Cohen explored her own promiscuity with brutal candor and stunning clarity. Dirty Little Secrets is the eye-opening follow-up readers have been clamoring for, a riveting look at today's adolescent girls who use sex as a means to prove their worth. Cohen lays bare the hard truths about this dangerous life that reveals itself in girls you wouldn't expect and in ways you might not see-and that can seriously damage and hurt these girls. Featuring stories from self-admitted loose girls across the country, Dirty Little Secrets is an unforgettable wake-up call for our culture, ourselves, and our vulnerable daughters.

"Very few people can write about teen girls' sexual promiscuity with the candor, empathy, and intelligence Kerry Cohen does...I think any girl who reads this will recognize at least one girl she knows-and that girl may be looking back at her in the mirror."
-Rosalind Wiseman, new york times bestselling author of QUEEN BEES AND WANNABES and BOYS, GIRLS, AND OTHER HAZARDOUS MATERIALS

"As compassionate as it is enlightening, Kerry Cohen's Dirty Little Secrets argues for female safety and desire, and provides a road map for authentically healthy, vital sexuality."
-Jennifer Baumgardner, author of Look Both Ways, F 'Em, and Manifesta

"A must-read, for it sheds light on the truth behind the secrets and lies teens tell themselves... Women of all ages can relate and benefit from this book-I can't recommend it enough. Dirty Little Secrets is urgently needed."
-Amber Smith, model and star of Dr. Drew Pinsky's Celebrity Rehab and Celebrity Sex Rehab

"Kerry Cohen has 'been there'-and it shows in her empathy, her insight, and her remarkable ability to draw out the truth...Dirty Little Secrets busts the myths, breaks down walls, and takes us where we need to go to understand the private lives of so many young women today."
-Hugo Schwyzer, PhD, Pasadena City College, Coauthor, Beauty, Disrupted: the Carré Otis Story


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Editorial Reviews

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""[Cohen] seeks to identify the loose girl experience and help girls gain power over their own lives."" - Publishers Weekly

""Cohen (Loose Girl, 2008) returns to her signature subject: teenage girls and promiscuity...Smashing statistics, ferreting out falsehoods, and exploring a multitude of reasons behind why girls use sex to prove their worth, Cohen calls for us to "transform the culture when it comes to teen girls and sex"."" - Booklist

""Ms. Cohen's Dirty Little Secrets is a perfect catalyst for mother/daughter discussions. It is a safe place to start a scary talk about this issue so relevant to young women-and young men...At its heart, Dirty Little Secrets is a wake-up call. Settle in, relax, and embrace its shocking content."" - New York Journal of Books

""Serves as an engaging catalyst for discussions about a taboo issue."" - Kirkus

""Dirty Little Secrets is eye-opening, insightful, and definitely an exercise in self-reflection. Most importantly, it's a conversation starter for a talk that's been a long time coming."" - Slasher Chick

""A strong beginning to an important conversation. An important book for feminist and social science collections."" - Library Journal

""Includes first-hand accounts, discussion questions for school counselors and parents, behavior assessments, and resources for teens and parents about sex and relationships."" - Books News Inc

About the Author

Kerry Cohen is the author of the memoir Loose Girl: A Memoir of Promiscuity and three young adult novels. She received an MA in creative writing from the University of Oregon and an MA in counseling psychology from Pacific University. A psychotherapist who has focused her practice on adolescent girls and issues related to promiscuity, she lives with her family in Portland, Oregon.


Product Details

  • Paperback: 256 pages
  • Publisher: Sourcebooks (September 1, 2011)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 9781402260698
  • ISBN-13: 978-1402260698
  • ASIN: 1402260695
  • Product Dimensions: 5.5 x 0.7 x 8.5 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 11.2 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 3.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (3 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #128,930 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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3.0 out of 5 stars Not what I expected March 26, 2013
By ashbrk3
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I was hoping and looking for an actual novel and a story to read and this was more of a reference book to me. I didn't like it and didn't go any farther than about 20 pages before I shelved it for good.
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4.0 out of 5 stars Teen angst March 11, 2013
By ellison
Format:Paperback
After her own book Loose Girl the author has followed that up with this offering. She talked to 75 gals and has created a handbook of sorts for... Loose girls. She shares some of what girls shared with her such as accepting an invitation into the restroom by a fast food worker.

Some of the girls say they want to stop their behavior but do not know how. When a guy acknowleges their existance they obcess and become needy calling and texting until the guy doesn't like them any more.

A married loose girl grows restless and seeks out other rellationships. Girls at a slumber party make-up profiles, go on web sites and talk dirty, then laugh about it. Some send pictures on phones and the pictures get passed around, so they feel degraded. Others decide dirty text is alright.

There is talk as to weather a single parent family causes a girl to be loose, a girl says her dad is so focused on taking care of her that she thinks he is a loser, all he does is go to work and take care of her. It just seems nothing satisfies them.

Some drink to get past the first time. Then, when they are called 'loose' they say, "Oh, its the drinking, that's not me.

She claims that abstinance programs do not work. They are too busy telling a girl to say 'No' and don't tell them how to say 'Yes.' Mentions movies and compares how females see the stories and how that is different than reality.

A load of information, much of which is depressing. Informatiive. At the end it features work sheets on charting the Loose Girls behavior, what causes it, and what the response was. Additional books mentioned for further study. At Twelve: Portraits of Young Women.
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4 of 8 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Loose girls September 7, 2011
Format:Paperback
Kerry Cohen has followed up her book `Loose Girl' with this volume which analyses the reasoning behind young girls' promiscuity. The theme of this book and the girls' reasoning is "that if they got a man's attention it would mean they were worth something in the world".
The statistics are alarming 48% of new STDs occur among 15-24 year olds, 1 in 4 teenage girls has an STD. The author presents many more statistic and analyses, for example those about the growth of the human brain at puberty. The book is full of her study of this problem.
Despite the fact she interviewed 75 girls for the book, there are really not many case studies presented, except as bits here and there which would have made it much more readable. At times her statistics are just down right confusing.

Be prepared that her philosophy is that it is "perfectly honorable" for girls to want sex; but this is a subject no matter what your views are: that adults and yes young girls should be aware of. It is emphasized that most parents do not see this as a problem. The irony is that if girls have a lot of sexual activity it is perceived as a problem, but usually the opposite is true for the case of boys.
Much emphasis is given to the point of view of many females is that they must have someone to care about them to validate their worth.

This is not a pleasurable read, but everyone that has a daughter, works with girls, are close to them and even of boys should read this...it's a life lesson that too many are not aware of and or do not want to believe.
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