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The Divorce Mediation Answer Book [Paperback]

Carol A. Butler (Author), Dolores D. Walker (Author), Dolores Deane Walker (Author)
4.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (4 customer reviews)


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Book Description

January 30, 1999
Though we all enter marriage hoping for "forever," nearly half of American marriages end in divorce. But divorce no longer has to mean pain, exhaustion, or suffering. Today, you can choose to mediate your separation or divorce and save yourself time, money, and aggravation. Mediation enables couples to create custom-made agreements that work for everyone and that pave the way for an amicable future relationship.
In this accessible question-and-answer guide, two experts offer solid advice and cover all the bases. Among the hundreds of entries inside you'll find answers to your most basic questions:
o How do we find a mediator?
o How does court-ordered mediation work?
o What are fault and no-fault grounds for divorce?
As well as your most confusing issues:
o We have children but we never married, and now we're splitting up. Can we use mediation to provide for our children in the future?
o Our baby is still nursing. How does that affect custody and visitation?
o Does child support include medical bills? Health insurance?
o How do we decide who gets the frequent flier miles? Who gets the dog?
o If we sell our home, how do we divide the proceeds?
o Am I entitled to a portion of my spouse's Social Security benefits?
o When we complete our separation agreement, do we need new Wills and any other new documents?
An invaluable resource section, with a listing of mediators around the country as well as other sources of information, makes this book an essential tool for any couple about to separate.
Whether you're contemplating separation or are in the midst of a complex divorce, this book will empower you, will provide you with a base for entering into negotiations, and will offer support and guidance throughout the process, from both a legal and emotional perspective. Most importantly, it will provide you with immediate, straightforward advice for all your questions.


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Amidst the plethora of divorce mediation material now available, this book by psychotherapist Butler and attorney Walker helps simplify the issues. Organized in a no-nonsense question-and-answer format, it is meant to be used as a starting point for those considering mediation over a traditionally litigated divorce. The authors touch upon major issues such as parenting and financial decisions but also address special situations including unmarried and gay/lesbian relationships. Although information is pared down to concise, easily digestible sections, readers are given ample resources for further guidance, including a list of web sites and a state directory of qualified mediators and organizations. Other useful books on this topic are Diane Neumann's Choosing a Divorce Mediator (LJ 12/96) and Paula Jones's The Divorce Mediation Handbook: Everything You Need To Know (LJ 7/97). Highly recommended for public libraries.AAnnette Haines, Central Michigan Univ. Libs., Mount Pleasant
Copyright 1999 Reed Business Information, Inc.

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"...Highly recommended... helpful insights into unmarried, gay, and lesbian relationships...a useful and helpful book." -- William Neville, Academy of Family Mediators

"It deserves to be on the bookshelf of every divorce professional..." -- Forrest Mosten, author of The Complete Guide to Mediation

"[the book] will save you time, money, and emotional strength as you create a win-win agreement." -- Dan Couvrette, publisher, Divorce magazine

Product Details

  • Paperback: 274 pages
  • Publisher: Kodansha America (January 30, 1999)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1568362528
  • ISBN-13: 978-1568362526
  • Product Dimensions: 9.1 x 6.1 x 0.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1 pounds
  • Average Customer Review: 4.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (4 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #944,371 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Carol A. Butler is a psychotherapist, a mediator of divorces and family or business disputes, and a divorce coach in private practice in Manhattan. She is Adjunct Assistant Professor at New York University in the Department of Applied Psychology, and a docent in the Butterfly Conservatory at the American Museum of Natural History. She has co-authored 5 Q&A books about animals for a general adult audience. She also co-authored Salt Marshes: Natural and Unnatural History and The Divorce Mediation Answer Book.
In the summer of 2004,Carol found herself in a tent full of butterflies while helping out at a festival in Central Park on a Sunday morning. She was intrigued by the butterflies, and volunteered as a docent at the AMNH's butterfly conservatory. Her interest grew as she learned more in response to the questions asked by visitors, and she began photographing butterflies in the conservatory as well as on trips with the Lepidopterists' Society to Florida, California, and New Mexico. This led to the first book in the series, Do Butterflies Bite?, and the others soon followed and were well received.

* Do Butterflies Bite?
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"This new book is a fascinating read, packed full with information that is properly referenced, something that I always like to see in books that are attempting to interpret complex matters for non-specialists." - Robin W. Woods, MBE, Fellow Linnean Society of London

 

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6 of 6 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars Eminently usable, January 4, 1999
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Extremely helpful. I needed to know more about divorce to help clients in my agency. It gives details on how to get a divorce and all the aspects that need to be covered in a settlement -- children, property etc. It explains the mediation process and also emotional issues people are bound to experience when they divorce. It also deals with unmarried couples separating, which is very helpful.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars A tremendous information resource!, December 17, 1998
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I found this book a terrific resource -- it answered all of my questions about what I need to think about if I decide to separate from my husband. I also learned about divorce mediation as an alternative way to try to make a settlement without fighting in court.
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5 of 6 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars The Divorce Mediation Answer Book is a terrific book!, May 31, 1999
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It anticipates any and every question a prospective client or referral source may have about the Divorce Mediation process, and provides thoughtful and complete answers to each one.
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transmuted property, religious annulment, affect custody, child support guidelines, marital funds, private mediation, more alimony, parenting arrangements, separation agreement, child support agreement, dependent exemption, noncustodial parent, marital property, marital asset, divorce mediation, mediated agreement, parenting plan, fault grounds, mediation sessions, mediator help, former spouse
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