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The Taoist "Habits of Highly Effective People", September 27, 2002
This review is from: Do Less, Achieve More: Discover the Hidden Powers Giving In (Paperback)
Taoist concepts to bring our modern go-go-go life back into a more natural rhythm. 1) "Everyone seems to be doing more and despite their best efforts, there is always more to do." 2) Busy is not necessarily always good. In Chinese, the two characters that mean busy are "heart" and "death". 3) Effort and ease are not opposites, but compliments. Think of a champion runner: Although they train mercilessly, when they run in a competition, they are trying to find their own internal tempo. When their effort becomes easy, then they really perform. 4) Don't try to manage time and fight it. Time is always the same, it is only the difference of our perception about time. Time is only a series of NOWs. So the way we spend NOW will determine our destiny. 5) Success does not necessarily mean more. Life is like a full glass. To put more in, you have to pour some out. Prioritize and do what is REALLY meaningful to you. 6) Be willing to walk away from negative relationships. 7) There is wisdom in irritation. It is a sign telling us to change our lives. Enjoy the game of life, and the challenge to find the real you. 8) There is no failure, only re-direction. We keep failing as we progress towards success. 9) Believe that there is a divine plan for you. Give into this spiritual guidance. 10) Accept death. It helps us to focus on what is most important, gives us fearlessness. Don't live a fearful life. "Thrive, not just survive."
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15 of 15 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
Life lessons, disguised as a business book, October 9, 2005
This review is from: Do Less, Achieve More: Discover the Hidden Powers Giving In (Paperback)
I love this book. Have read it at least four times, usually on long flights above the ocean or across a country. Here are its five principal lessons:
Desired outcome after reading:
Accomplish more by finding a better balance between effort and ease.
1. Trade what you have for what you want
"At any moment, your life is completely full... You had twenty four hours yesterday, and I guarantee that you used every minute and second of it." To make your life today different than it was yesterday, you have to give up something to make room for activities that will bring you what you desire. "Often, the greater the reward, the larger the adjustment you will have to make in your life."
2. Change your dreams, change your life
"Your dreams are like a movie projector reflecting your conscious and unconscious thoughts. If you want to know the quality of your life, examine the quality of your dreams." Do whatever you can to push your dreams to new levels: cut out pictures from magazines, imagine that you are (not will be, but are right now) wildly successful. Take long, imaginary rides in your yacht or Ferrari.
3. Surrender, and see your destiny
Giving into destiny does not mean doing nothing. It means "accepting life as you find it. It means using your given ability, talent and strength to do all you can to bring about a better life for yourself and others." She believes destiny reveals itself in three stages: first, you are dissatisfied with life; next, you come to some dramatic turning point - be careful not to get stuck here, as many do; finally you recognize that no one can take away what is destined to be yours, and then you have much in common with other great men and woemn.
4. Be willing not to survive
Once you turn to face the worst of all consequences, fear disappears. Death can actually become your protector. Once you accept death and turn to face it, daily stress and frustration drifts away. You gain the freedom to recognize what is truly important, rather than what you feel compelled to do.
5. Put your mind at ease
"The only reality that exists for you is in your own mind." Grant yourself grace. You can choose to enjoy or dread your ride through life; this is a choice that happens in your mind, not in the world around you.
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12 of 12 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
Excellent, inspirational, very readable, July 8, 1999
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This book is titled 'The Secrets of the Rainmaker' in Australia, which I reckon is a title more reflecting the style of the book. It is so logical, the thinking... that I wondered why I didn't see...but at the same time reading the book has increased my confidence because, on another level, I realised that it was exactly how I thought. I know that the best things happen to me when I am cruising along with life and not trying to force it. This book explains why it is so. I would recommend it and have recommended it to anyone wanting to connect the spiritual with the day to day. I love Chin Ning Chu and am amazed at the depth of her writing ability. I have read all her books and I never do that (read more than two books from the same author). I even read Rainmaker twice and keep picking it up and letting it fall open where it may. Get it, read it and relax into life!!
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