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Does Anybody Else Look Like Me?: A Parent's Guide To Raising Multiracial Children [Paperback]

Donna Jackson Nakazawa
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Book Description

March 30, 2004
"Am I black or white or am I American?" "Why don't my eyes look like yours?" "Why do people always call attention to my 'different' hair?" Helping a child understand his mixed racial background can be daunting, especially when, whether out of honest appreciation or mean-spiritedness, peers and strangers alike perceive their features to be "other." Drawing on psychological research and input from over fifty multiracial families, Does Anybody Else Look Like Me? addresses the special questions and concerns facing these families, explaining how we can best prepare multiracial children of all ages to make their way confidently in our color-conscious world. From the books and toys to use in play with young children, to advice on guiding older children toward an unflappable sense of self, Does Anybody Else Look Like Me? is the first book to outline for parents how, exactly, to deflect the objectifying attention multiracial children receive. Full of powerful stories and counsel, it is sure to become the book adoptive and birth parents of different races alike will look to for understanding as they strive to raise their children in a changing world.

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The author, a freelance writer, is from a western European background, while her husband is Japanese American. Although Nakazawa initially hoped to raise her son and daughter to be "color blind," they couldn't ignore the many comments made by both adults and children concerning Christian and Claire's appearance. When Christian was a toddler he was asked if he spoke Chinese, and the author was assured that little Claire didn't "even look Asian." Nakazawa decided to develop strategies to ensure that her son and daughter would be proud of their heritage and confident about their multiracial identity. Finding no useful book on the subject, she decided to write her own. Based on personal experience and interviews conducted with 60 other multiracial families, Nakazawa has skillfully combined anecdotal research with a strong knowledge of childhood and educational development philosophy to provide this useful guide for raising multiracial children in a color- and race-conscious world. Nakazawa believes that, although most three-year-olds are not racially aware, it is important to deflect insensitive comments from strangers about appearance. As a child grows older, this early dialogue should deepen, so that children will feel safe and comfortable discussing their racial identity with parents and be able to bring up any racially charged experiences that have occurred at school or with friends. Included are suggestions for the special problems that may arise during adolescence.
Copyright 2003 Reed Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

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"A well-researched, readable and user friendly guide...[Nakazawa] writes with refreshing candor...She includes many practical suggestions for parents." -- Pacific Reader January 2004

"Illuminate[s] the mindset of the multiracial adolescent...offers readers, concerned or simply curious, a comforting guide to the unfamiliar." -- Duke Magazine February 2004

"Provides parents with the tools to instill in their children an appreciation of their multiracial heritage..." -- Hispanic Outlook in Higher Education, March 13, 2006

Product Details

  • Paperback: 240 pages
  • Publisher: Da Capo Press (March 30, 2004)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0738209503
  • ISBN-13: 978-0738209500
  • Product Dimensions: 5.5 x 0.6 x 8.3 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 12 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (11 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #198,044 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Donna Jackson Nakazawa

Donna Jackson Nakazawa is an award-winning science journalist and public speaker. In her newest book, The Last Best Cure (Hudson Street, February 2013), she chronicles her year-long journey investigating the groundbreaking neuroscience on how mind-body therapies such as meditation, yoga and acupuncture awaken the healing potential of our brains, change our biology, and revitalize our cells and our health.

Along the way, Nakazawa unveils a little known branch of research showing the profound link between "adverse childhood experiences" and chronic illness in adulthood; a discovery that helps to turn her own life around. Critics call Nakazawa's "story-telling art" "masterful" and The Last Best Cure "a genuine page-turning science/non-fiction thriller;" a book that will not only "change lives; it may even save some."

She is also the author of The Autoimmune Epidemic (Touchstone/Simon and Schuster, 2008, 2009), an investigation into the reasons behind today's rising rates of autoimmune and related diseases. In The Autoimmune Epidemic, Nakazawa lays out the mounting evidence showing how our modern lifestyles, stress levels, chemical-laden environment and twenty-first century diet have created the ripest possible conditions for today's autoimmune epidemic to take hold.

Ms. Nakazawa lectures nationwide and has keynoted numerous events including the 2012 International Congress on Autoimmunity; Johns Hopkins Annual Women's Health Conference, "A Woman's Journey;" and New York's 92nd Street Y's To Your Health Lecture Series. She has also moderated panels for national symposiums including the American Association of Autoimmune and Related Diseases (AARDA) 2010 Summit.

She is also the author of Does Anybody Else Look Like Me? A Parent's Guide to Raising Multiracial Children (Perseus 2003), as well as a contributor to the Andrew Weil Integrative Medicine Library book, Integrative Gastroenterology, (Oxford University Press, April 2010).

Ms. Nakazawa has appeared on The Today Show, National Public Radio, and ABC News. Her work has been featured on the cover of Parade, in Time, USA Today Weekend, Parenting, and Psychology Today. She has been a regular contributor to More, and her work has appeared in The Washington Post, Glamour, Ladies Home Journal, and AARP the Magazine.

She is the recipient of numerous awards, including the 2012 AESKU award, presented to those who have made a lifetime contribution to the field of autoimmune disease, and the 2010 National Health Information Award, recognizing the nation's best magazine articles in health.

Ms. Nakazawa has received writing in residence fellowships from the Corporation of Yaddo and the MacDowell Colony. She received her Bachelor of Arts degree in English and Public Policy from Duke University and is a graduate of the Radcliffe Publishing Procedures Program.



Customer Reviews

4.5 out of 5 stars
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4.5 out of 5 stars
Great read for parents of multicultural children. A. Hill  |  5 reviewers made a similar statement
I was marking pages, taking notes & was proufoundly grateful that this book exsisted. Jenny M.  |  1 reviewer made a similar statement
This book was refreshing and helped me to realize others go thru the same. Jennifer Rucker  |  1 reviewer made a similar statement
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18 of 18 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Highly recommend May 16, 2006
Format:Paperback
As the mother of 4 beautiful biracial children, I was delighted to find this intelligent, realistic book. My children are often asked "What are you?" and attempts are made to label them as Arabic, Latin, Greek,Black, Italian, etc, etc. This makes it difficult for them when they are at ages where all of us were trying to "find ourselves". My daughter has also had a difficult time, often meeting women who instantly dislike her based on her appearance alone. This book was refreshing and helped me to realize others go thru the same. I was amazed at the amount of research and fact finding this author included. The everyday anecdotes was also most truthful, speaking from personal experience. great find for anyone who knows, loves, interacts with those of more than 1 race!!
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I've read all of the books that have been suggested by adoption professionals & adoptive families about how to support an interracially adopted child & I have never seen this book listed. I was given
"Does Anybody Else Look Like Me? A Parent's Guide To Raising Multiracial Children" by a friend who has multiracial birth children. The cover didn't lead me to think it would be a great source of information for us. Our youngest child is adopted from China. I've read a few other books on the topic of multiracial families & gleaned some useful information but most of the read was disjointed in application to our family. The book sat on my bedside table for awhile but one day I picked it up & couldn't put it down. I was marking pages, taking notes & was proufoundly grateful that this book exsisted. It is truly a great wealth of information about the experiences that children born and adopted interracially/multiracially experience with solid advice on how to support your child/ren throughout their childhood & into adulthood. This book should be a must read for parents of interracial/multiracial children--no matter if you choose to build your family through adoption, birth or both. I wish that the title or front cover would indicate that this book applies to both multiracial children & interracially ADOPTED children so that the adoption community would discover it on a greater scale and make it a must read. Until then I will do my part spreading the word about this amazing book. It is my favorite gift to give families that can benefit from its read.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Just what the doctor ordered February 5, 2009
By Nic
Format:Paperback
As a Multiracial teen this book helped me navigate the strange waters I found myself drowning in. It doesn't read like a unrealistic "turn that frown upside down" Dr. Seuss book; instead the subject is approached in a straight forward manner. This book contains IMO the most valid sense of what makes the difference between a healthy self identify and self hate/defensive racism (when you come to loathe/distance yourself from a group to protect yourself from further harm)in mixed race kids. All my friends now starting multi hued families that come to me for advice, receive this book as a gift. As I wish some kind soul would've done for my parents.

I strongly recommend this book to parents of multiracial children *especially if your child will garner a lot of (confusing/unwanted) attention based on their physical differences from their peers/ or physical comparison to their parents* You can't distract them with toys/games to keep them from processing incidents or procrastinate addressing the issue, forever. Children are more observant then we give them credit for and the questions that go unanswered speak volumes.

It's also a cathartic read for us mixed adults that had to figure it out on our own. It shed a lot of light on how I processed and internalized confusing/awkward events as a child and convinced me to let go of some of the child-like logic/hang ups still effecting me.

The only way to deal with some complications are to face them in the light of day for what they are. We do the best we have with the tools we have at the moment. Sometimes the quick fixes we use to cope, can become a larger problems in the future if we don't evolve our thinking and problem solving skills. This book prompted the catalyst that took me from tragic little mixed girl to the grounded multi ethnic woman I am today. Give the book a try, it'll be money and time well spent.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
3.0 out of 5 stars Some great research. But be cautious.
Being a multiracial woman myself (and mother to a multiracial child), I was very excited about this book. Read more
Published 7 days ago by risingsong
5.0 out of 5 stars Does Anybody Else Look Like Me?
Great read for parents of multicultural children. Biological and adopted families can learn a great deal about coping with being multicultural and grasping for an identity.
Published on June 25, 2010 by A. Hill
3.0 out of 5 stars Very deep
This book is good but goes very deep into the subject of muliracial children. I have not really found a lot of answer that I expected to get in this book.
Published on November 1, 2009 by Phillip Ocasio
5.0 out of 5 stars Wish this book was around when I was a kid..
I experienced extreme self-hate and lack of awareness as a multi-racial child in the 80's. I never really knew my father and I didn't "look black" so I got a lot of the "what are... Read more
Published on September 30, 2009 by Alsan Davis
4.0 out of 5 stars Good book, although not precisely targetted
This is a good, fairly basic book on children dealing with issues of racial difference. Topics such as how and when children start understanding racial differences, how peers begin... Read more
Published on August 27, 2008 by Arie Farnam
5.0 out of 5 stars great book
this book is, hands down, a great purchase for anyone raising or working with multiracial kids. What a great resource.
Published on July 30, 2008 by Jamie E
5.0 out of 5 stars Great for multi-racial families
Thsi book was easy to read and provided a lot of insight to being a muilti-racial family. I think it is an excellent resource for parents of transracially adopted children as well... Read more
Published on June 22, 2008 by Dudley Lamburt
4.0 out of 5 stars Well Written and Informative Guide
Being a member of a multi-ethnic family myself, I purchased this book to help teach some people in my life what it is like to grow up in such a family. Read more
Published on March 20, 2006 by Veronica
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