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Dogs Never Lie About Love: Reflections on the Emotional World of Dogs [Hardcover]

Jeffrey Moussaieff Masson (Author)
3.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (58 customer reviews)


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August 26, 1997
Americans have an intense love for their dogs: thirty-five percent of American households owned a dog in 1994, representing a dog population of more than 52 million.  "It hardly seems worth asking the question of why we love them," writes noted psychoanalyst Jeffrey Moussaieff Masson. "We love dogs because they love us, unconditionally.  No matter how we treat them, what we do to them, how little attention we pay to them, they are eager to please us, eager to be with us."  In Dogs Never Lie About Love, the New York Times best-selling author of When Elephants Weep shifts his attention from the jungle to the living room to explore the exotic and unchartered territory of dog emotion.

Why do dogs bark?
Why don't cats and dogs "fight like cats and dogs"?
Do some dogs commit suicide from despair?  

Drawing from scientific studies, legends and literature, and from the stories of dog trainers and lovers around the world, Dogs Never Lie About Love raises our level of consciousness to the rich and fascinating world of canine emotion.  The book demonstrates how our affection for dogs is similar to our love of children - how both live and feel in the present, and how children and (especially) dogs are eager to offer us unconditional love.  Most poignantly, however, Dogs Never Lie About Love, reveals that although dogs exhibit a wide range of observable emotions, love is their master emotion and is what guides and defines their existence.  In this provocative work, Masson  sweeps aside old prejudices on animal behavior and challenges scientists to resist dismissing the claim of canine emotion as anthropomorphism (assigning human characteristics to nonhumans) unless they are able to prove that dogs are emotionless animals.

Heartwarming, inspiring, and always entertaining, Dogs Never Lie About Love is a compelling journey into the lives of dogs, told eloquently through the observations and experiences of Masson's own three dogs Sasha, Sima, and Rani whose delightful and sometimes odd behavior provides the means to exploring a wide range of subjects:  from emotions like gratitude, compassion, loneliness, and disappointment to speculating about what dogs dream, how they perceive humans and other species, and how their powerful sense of smell greatly influences their memory and experience of reality (humans have about 5 million olfactory cells, whereas dogs have up to 220 million.)  Dogs Never Lie About Love discusses why dogs are not finicky at the dinner bowl, why no breed is aggressive by nature, and the emotional significance of tail wagging.

Dogs Never Lie About Love will captivate readers with its inquisitive, playful, and serious sides, giving readers a new understanding of the hidden world of dog emotion.  With compelling dog stories from around the world, Dogs Never Lie About Love offers long-overdue pause for thought about humanity's best and most loyal friend.

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Jeffrey Moussaieff Masson was, oddly enough, pet-free when he decided to write about their key role in his life. Not to worry, though. In a trice he acquired a troika of pups (a purebred and two mongrels) and a couple of kittens. (The pussycats, alas, play only cameo roles.) In Dogs Never Lie About Love, Masson finds plenty of new things to say about canines--not that there hasn't been a plenitude of pupper reportage in the '90s. Or at least he easily articulates what some of us might already think: "Dogs feel more than I do (I am not prepared to speak for other people)," Masson asserts. "They feel more, and they feel more purely and more intensely." Often, however, he seems to be writing less about animals than humans: "In searching for why we are so inhibited compared with dogs, perhaps we can learn to be as direct, as honest, as straightforward, and especially as intense in our feelings as dogs are." But this book is not just a cozy mix of navel gazing (bestial and human) and long, leash-filled walks. Masson offers several proofs that dogs do take the high moral road--one police pooch, for instance, refused to acknowledge his handler's attack command. A good thing, too, since Masson himself would have been the victim! In more ways than one, Dogs Never Lie About Love is a Milk-Bone masterpiece.--Kerry Fried --This text refers to the Paperback edition.

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Two years after his best-selling When Elephants Weep (LJ 5/15/95), controversial psychoanalyst Masson provides us with another blockbuster about the emotional lives of animals. Using "evidence" that he admits is decidedly anecdotal and speculative, Masson offers a thoroughly engaging discussion of what it means to think and feel as dogs do. Masson looks at the foundation of the human-dog bond, love, loyalty, heroism, submission, dominance, gratitude, fear, loneliness, dignity, humiliation, disappointment, sadness, and aggression. He also provides insightful chapters on dogs at work and at play, dog dreams, and dogs vs. cats. Whether or not you agree with Masson's conclusions, he is a skilled philosopher and accomplished writer. An extensive chapter-by-chapter bibliography is included, as well as the promise of a thorough index. This book is very different from Elizabeth Marshall Thomas's popular The Hidden Life of Dogs (LJ 4/15/93) in that it is more comprehensive and does more than follow the lifestyle of one person's pets. Highly recommended.
-?Edell Marie Schaefer, Brookfield P.L., Wis.
Copyright 1997 Reed Business Information, Inc.

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 304 pages
  • Publisher: Crown; 1st edition (August 26, 1997)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0609600575
  • ISBN-13: 978-0609600573
  • Product Dimensions: 9.1 x 5.9 x 1.1 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.3 pounds
  • Average Customer Review: 3.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (58 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #746,974 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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49 of 49 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars After reading this book I started treating Daisy much better, April 28, 2000
Daisy is our dog.

I grew up with a wild 65 pound beastie of a dog in the home of my childhood. When we adopted a 10 week old Sheltie (Daisy) I wanted a better experience. I wanted to learn how to really love dogs.

This book [and Daisy] helped me understand the depth and love and compassion within these gentle animals.

A prior reviewer said that Jeffrey Moussaieff simply created his dogs in his own image, but how can a pet live with us for a lifetime without picking up on our emotional vibes?

This book is filled with compelling anecdotes and stories about dogs and the unconditional love that is in their heart and soul.

One story from this book - (from memory) Many decades ago, a man decides he wants to get rid of his dog. He chooses to end the dog's life by drowning it. He rows out into a large river and pushes the dog out of the boat. The dog ducks under the boat and swins up on the other side and tries to crawl back into the boat. The man goes to the other side of the small boat and using the oar, pushes the dog back under the water. Dog again swims to the other side and tries to crawl back in. The man is losing his temper. He stands up and uses the oar to push the dog under and hold him under. In doing so, he loses his balance and falls into the water. The dog saves his life.

I shared this story with children I teach as an example of unconditional love.

I don't know that we humans have really mastered this unconditional love that bears no ill will, but just keeps pouring out love.

The book is full of these stories.

I highly recommend it.

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25 of 26 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Dog Lovers Know this True Love, July 9, 2002
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rodboomboom (Dearborn, Michigan United States) - See all my reviews
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Compassionately and with easy to read style, this author investigates the emotional state of dogs.

From his three to wide survey of literature on the subject, Masson puts forward observation after observation which this reviewer agress with that something very powerful, real and special goes on inside the dogs we come to cherish.

The sensitivity, the loyalty, the heart to give and receive love, its all here in this good read of the topic.

Particularly intriguing is his contention with some major dog training ideas, such as Alpha leader, wolf derivation, etc. He makes good points without being too dogmatic. Also, his analyis of dominance and submission is fascinating.

There is much for the dog enthusiast to relate to and ponder in this. Great read for any dog person.

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18 of 18 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars The most moving dog book I've read, September 20, 1999
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This review is from: Dogs Never Lie About Love: Reflections on the Emotional World of Dogs (Hardcover)
An early Christian desert monk said, "A dog is better than I am. He loves and does not judge." Masson does a masterful and moving job of fleshing out that statement, while at the same time providing tantalizing glimpses into the differences between dogs and wolves, dogs and cats, and dogs and humans. What is most remarkable is that inter-species communication and even love are possible, and that humans do not have a monopoly on the latter. In fact, as the desert saint said, we may well be behind the dog in our capacity to love and forgive. As one who has owned dogs (and cats) for decades and who is the proud owner of a Saint Bernard now, I deeply appreciate the insight that Masson has given me into the emotional life, indeed the soul, of my companion.
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