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Product Details

  • Library Binding
  • Publisher: Paw Prints 2008-03-01 (March 2008)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1435228782
  • ISBN-13: 978-1435228788
  • Product Dimensions: 0.8 x 7 x 9.2 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 13.8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (15 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #9,906,387 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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From School Library Journal

Grade 9 Up—As a sexuality educator at middle schools, high schools, and colleges, Pardes has had her share of the experience in the trenches, and shares some of the most commonly requested information. She is up-front and honest with her audience, not shying away from topics such as anal sex, masturbation, and readiness for a sexual relationship. She strives to give teens the information they need, without judgment, to make their own decisions. She freely discusses sex without love, reproductive anatomy, transitioning as a transsexual, and sexually transmitted diseases. Because she tries to do so much in one volume, some topics, such as STDs other than HIV, are mentioned but not covered in depth. The openness of this book will be a boon to teens looking for frank discussions of sexuality and making choices.—Lynn Evarts, Sauk Prairie High School, Prairie du Sac, WI
Copyright © Reed Business Information, a division of Reed Elsevier Inc. All rights reserved. --This text refers to the Paperback edition.

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Pardes is an HIV counselor who has led sex-ed classes in middle schools, high schools, and colleges, and she draws on her extensive experience instructing young people in this resource. An empowering, opening chapter sets the tone: "No matter what anyone tells you, what you do with your own body is up to you." Subsequent chapters, which often use a question-and-answer format based on teens' actual queries, delve into sexual anatomy, questions to consider before sex, contraception, safe-sex practices, homosexuality, masturbation, and sexual violence. Throughout, Pardes avoids a heterosexual bias, and her discussion of sexual activity is explicit and inclusive: dildos are briefly mentioned, for example. The facts are up-to-the-minute (there is a paragraph about the new vaccine against HPV), and the language is refreshingly clear, straightforward, and never judgmental. Pardes clearly defines the differences between emergency contraception (Plan B) and abortion pills as well as terms such as transvestite, transgender, and transsexual. Bolstered by excellent resource lists, this title stands out for its comprehensive, open coverage of teens' most urgent questions about sexuality. Gillian Engberg
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More About the Author

After years of teaching sex education in middle schools, high schools, and colleges in New York City, Bronwen Pardes has heard it all and blushes at nothing. "Doing It Right" offers down-to-earth, tell-it-like-it-is answer to the questions teens have been asking her for years. It's one of New York Public Library's "Books for the Teen Age," an American Library Association Quick Pick for Reluctant Young Adult Readers, and on the Voices of Youth Advocates Non-Fiction Honor List.

Pardes holds a Bachelor's degree from Vassar College and a Master's Degree in human sexuality from New York University. She has served as an expert for the websites TeenHealthFX.com and sexetc.com, which answer teens' questions about sex. She currently teaches human sexuality courses at Brooklyn College and LaGuardia Community College in New York.

Customer Reviews

Parents will find plenty they probably didn't know, and may very well learn ways to talk to their kids about difficult issues.
publish or perish
The question and answer format of the book is very useful and covers a lot of questions that teens would have and helps give a positive answer to all the questions.
Zack
This book is a well-written, practical resource for pre-teens, teenagers, parents and professionals, and I recommend it wholeheartedly.
Erica Seidel

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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful By M. B. Donnelly on April 20, 2007
Format: Paperback
Pardes (dubbed `The Sex Lady' by her students) has a superb "voice" for dishing sex advice to adolescents. As a middle school teacher, I know all too well how difficult it can be to strike the right tone in talking to pre-teens and teens. If you talk to them too simply, they think (rightly so) that you're patronizing them; if you talk to them as you would an adult, then their eyes glaze over and all is lost. It is a fine line. What is remarkable about Doing It Right is that Pardes achieves that delicate balance by talking to this age group in a way that is neither condescending nor complicated -- she just gives her readers the facts on sex matters in a manner that is down-to-earth, unbiased, and often funny. For young adults who read this book, not only will Doing it Right be an important source of information on some of the biggest issues they face today, but even more importantly, Pardes' accessible writing style will read like a candid conversation with the cool big sister they wish they had.
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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful By D. Reinhardt on March 7, 2007
Format: Paperback
What a breath of fresh air this book is!

As a parent of a pre-teen girl, I'm concerned that the messages we give our teens about sex emphasizes the wrong things and omits critical information. The author does a remarkable job of cutting through the confusion around sex to expose some deep truths about making smart and satisfying choices.

The book is written for teens, but would be a valuable resource for any parent who wants to put honesty at the center of the conversations they have with their teens about sex.
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful By SN.Alper on March 29, 2007
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The age-old dilemna that has been the theme of so many comedy routines -- how the heck does one explain to teenagers who are discovering their own sexuality what it all means? -- is answered in this insightful, user-friendly guide. Parents who are not quite sure how to confront it? Buy this book. Teens whose parents aren't explaining, or whose friends are talking nonsense about sex? Buy this book. Make no mistake. The issue is not whether teens should have sex: they are, and they will. The issue is, when they have it, do they have any idea what it is, and how to protect themselves from harm? Important as well, Pardes conveys through her non-judgmental style that teens need not feel guilty about the fact that God has given them sexual feelings. They can then make their choices without guilt, and with full information -- a tremendous service.
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful By Erica Seidel on April 28, 2007
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As a clinical psychologist working with adolescent girls this book has been a life-saver. The book answers real-life questions teenagers have about sex in a non-judgmental, easy-to-understand way. The topics are broad and the book does not shy away from any issues. The author's respectful and supportive tone conveys a sense of confidence in the reader's ability to take control of his/her body and choices. This book is a well-written, practical resource for pre-teens, teenagers, parents and professionals, and I recommend it wholeheartedly.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful By publish or perish on July 25, 2007
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This exceptional book on teen sexuality should be the first book anyone with questions about sex or sexuality buys. Written for both boys and girls- with the belief that boys should know about girls and vice versa-it's ideal for a parent looking to buy a book for their teen or for a teen looking for something written specifically for them. Parents will find plenty they probably didn't know, and may very well learn ways to talk to their kids about difficult issues. Teens will find a warm, non-judgemental voice they can trust.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful By R on January 24, 2008
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Great factual information. What most kids are not going to ask about - but should know.
Leave out on your bookcase for the kids to pick up and read.
Might save your child from asking friend who may make up something instead of giving factual information.
Adults could learn a thing or two in most cases
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful By J. Marshall on May 10, 2007
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Knowing that I will have to talk to my daughter about sex makes me nervous. Where do you start? How do you present information in a way that is truthful and factual but also appropriate for a teen? How do you support her taking care of herself emotionally and physically as she enters into adolescence and beyond? How do you know that when she goes looking for answers to questions she is too embarrassed to ask you she will find clear, unpoliticized information that supports and respects her?

Well, I think the answers to all my questions are simple. Use this book.

I will use this book to find language that she will hear and understand. When I feel she is ready, I will give this book to her so that she can find information to questions that mabye she just can't ask me. I will rest easy knowing that she has information and support as she navigates one of the most challenging, most scary and most wonderful parts of being an adult.

I am relieved to find this book.
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3 of 4 people found the following review helpful By Robin Krestor on May 19, 2009
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I got this book for my 14 year old nephew. He loved it. It helped him get the information that he needed, and helped him ask the questions that he didn't know that he had. Good book, good facts, good presentation.
Several of his friends saw it in his room, and have asked to borrow it, and he has been asked to "bring it along" when he visits his friend's houses. I had got him a couple of other books on puberty, but this is the book that he liked best, (and that his friends like best.) 13-14 year olds need way more good information on Sex and Decision making than most people think. If you think that your child does "not need to know this yet" . . .you are wrong. They already know about it. Get them the facts. This book does that well.
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