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Don't Be Afraid To Ask : How To Date A Beautiful Woman Paperback – March, 2001

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"All you have to do is get up, dust yourself off, get on your bicycle, and go find her, tiger!" -- The Tartan Newspaper: Carnegie Mellon University Pittsburgh, Pa. Sept. 22, 2003

Making more money is Not a required - not even a suggested - step on Lott's path to dating. -- Beach Magazine March 16,1999

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Power, money, fame, looks, aren't these the attributes wanted by most beautiful women in the world? Most of us unendowed as we think we are, have much substance to offer a woman, if we get the proper exposure. Glitz, glitter, and things that shine do offer initial distractions preventing the average man from auditioning for the part of "Knight in shining armour." How does Mr. Average compete with Mr. Perfect for equal time? Don't Be Afraid To Ask!! How To Date A Beautiful Woman answers that question. Never before has a manual been presented that provides the skills you need to capture the heart of a beautiful woman. Most of the time, we don't even compete for fear of rejection. No one likes to lose. Most of us don't try in order to avoid the disgrace. We settle for what we think we deserve rather than what we are entitled to. You are entitled to the woman you want. Don't love what you have! Have what you love! Amazingly, dating a beautiful woman is more of a mental feat than a physical one. Lack of confidence, fear of rejection, low self-esteem, and the belief you are unworthy have been your real disabilities in the endeavor to capture your prize. Don't Be Afraid To Ask!! How To Date A Beautiful Woman addresses these issues. Learn how to: Increase your confidence; Improve self-esteem; and Reduce your fear. Outlined in the book are simple steps proven to work. Extensive research discoverd that you can employ a pattern that is extremly effective in preparing you mentally for the dating scene. Don't Be Afraid To Ask!! How To Date A Beautiful Woman covers additional areas you'll need to know: Where to go to meet beautiful women, HOW to introduce yourself, How to ask and where to go on your first date, How to recover from a failed relationship, and a host of other facts, you can use to succeed.

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Product Details

  • Paperback: 76 pages
  • Publisher: Doveco Pubns; 2nd edition (March 2001)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0966363507
  • ISBN-13: 978-0966363500
  • Product Dimensions: 0.6 x 6.1 x 9.1 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 0.8 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 3.1 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (28 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #5,917,254 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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My name is Bob Lott and I reside in South Florida and have been enjoying fun in the sun for quite sometime. I've spent the past four years utilizing my books to prove to the World that they work. I was determined to find, meet and date some of the most beautiful women in the World. I teach men in my books how to have a mental, emotional and spiritual bond with beautiful women. This is the only real way to date them indefinitely. It works!! Being a player, gamer and pick up artist will only come back to bite you in the end. You have to be genuine and real with good intentions. Don't think that today's women are not on to this stuff. They know every trick in the book that a man tries to play on them. Why do you think that there are so many free women out there running around?

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35 of 37 people found the following review helpful By Mark McDonald on August 4, 2005
Format: Paperback
This book really just tells it like it is. I think that good men will agree with most of what he says. Bob Lott is really explaining how any decent man can have a really beautiful woman in his life, but it will take work and discipline. His first step is to really cast out fear of approaching beautiful women by making you understand that your beliefs that you will fail are not based in reality.

He makes it clear that women are creatures with intricate needs, and one of these needs is to associate with classy male companions. However, beautiful women have to protect themselves from the jerks that routinely approach them, and they need time to warm up. Furthermore, you must use the tool of indirection to get past her defenses, to make her feel safe, to let her know that you're different, and to let her imagine more than what is there. The central thesis of his book is to never worry about how a woman feels about you. You, as a male suitor, need only worry about how she feels about herself.

Bob Lott explains that love, romance, and intimacy go hand in hand with each other. He adequately explains that many beautiful women HATE alcohol and that ALL beautiful women LOATHE problem drinkers. And he directs you to stay away from bar women, very wisely. If you are a man of class, dignity, and integrity, then those traits literally repel barflies. And the jealousy that beautiful women have to deal with from divas at nightclubs really hurts. Good men and beautiful women are not to be found in bars. And beautiful women know this.

The other crucial point Bob Lott makes is that the death of a relationship with a really beautiful woman is predictability. This does not mean instability, but rather always taking initiative to do new, fun, interesting things, and never being lazy.
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51 of 57 people found the following review helpful By MISTER SJEM on June 28, 2001
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This is an all right book but there are better ones out there if you want to improve your dating skills.
That said, here are the pros and cons:
(1) gives you a pep talk to work on your image in asking a good looking woman out; (2) teaches you how to have the right date with her; (3) teaches you how to act towards her . .. honesty, love, appreciation . .. realize she will walk if she doesn't get some basic needs met; (4) having a future with her; (5) how to break up with one beauty for another; what to say; and (6) marrying her
(1) Too much for such a small book . .. price, that is. (2) Not enough details on asking her out. It basically says to go up and ask her out after asking a question but spends no time in detailing to be aware of her body language towards you. The author makes it sound like just your sincerity will get a date. Not true. (3) There's nothing about the whole dating game. Not every woman you date is going to be a good match but you won't find that out until later. There isn't anything about dealing with manipulations or certain actions that a good looking woman will try, knowing that men will put up with more from her because of her beauty. (4) Conflict resolution skills, which are vital to any relationship, aren't helpful. He basically suggests you take everything in stride which makes you sound like you're afraid of conflict or want her to walk all over you; and (5) There's very little about making yourself presentable to a good looking woman. Based on the reading, the author makes it sound that a good heart will land you with the girl. Again, not true. Look at biology and anthropology, as well as the men good looking women are involved with; while they aren't always good looking guys or guys with money . ..
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40 of 44 people found the following review helpful By A Customer on May 30, 2000
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From the editorial comments above, this book sounded like a really amazing book. I admit I was intrigued. But after a very quick reading (minimal insights, and no exercises), my conclusion is that the substance is just not there. With what seemed promised by the editorial, I thought this book would go through, step-by-step, HOW to accomplish the desired end-product, but instead gives a lot of common knowledge information and uses analogies which tend to confuse rather than clarify. It's a sort of romantic read...the analogies ARE quite poetic, but I expected more...perhaps something with real, tangible exercises that would actually get you MOVING in the direction that it talks about, and talks about, and talks about... I also didn't appreciate the referalls to get psychiatric help...not the help I was looking for in this book....
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30 of 32 people found the following review helpful By Harry on April 20, 2005
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If you want a beautiful woman in your life. You must show that your a good man that can be trusted. You could be the biggest snake on the face of this earth. Thanks to this book, you can be transformed into the love of her life. Love and hate is on a very thin line. You are only a heart beat away into becoming everything in a man thats she is looking for. Allow this book to make that happen for you.
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22 of 25 people found the following review helpful By A Customer on February 5, 2004
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The title is misleading as this book offers no insight that might help the average joe to meet women. Only one chapter is actually dedicated to approaching women and the only advice given is to think of a good question to ask upon meeting them. Nice, think of a question... great advice, now I know all I need to know about picking up women.
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