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Why Don't They Just QUIT? DVD Roundtable Discussion: What families and friends need to know about addiction and recovery.

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My 18 year old grandson has been addicted to drugs and running amok for the past 4 years. The heartaches are huge. I feel it was divine guidance for me to "happen upon" Joe's book and Video discussion of Why Don't They Just Quit? The book and discussion was not only informative but so filled with hope that eventually anyone can quit if that is the choice they make. I gave the book to my grandson and he was inspired by the book. It brought comfort to me, Adam's Mom and others in the family who are struggling. It isn't over yet so this book provides us with a good roadmap from others who have travelled this road and have struggled with this issue before us.

There is a tug-of-war going on in the recovery community between those with academic letters behind their names and those who have walked through the tunnel of addiction. For example there are those who believe AA is a positive road to walk on, while others scorn AA for any number of reasons. Joe Herzanek writes and talks about addiction with a warmth and depth of understanding that so many others lack. "Why Don't They Just Quit" is superbly written, a straight-talking, no frills guide for people to follow. It's a great resource. Herzanek has walked through the tunnel of addiction and can relate to those who struggle. He understands families and what they go through. The book and DVD make a human connection, beyond the facts of addiction.

Through this outstanding book and accompanying dvd, our family was able to begin the healing process and move away from he horrors of living with an addict among us. The video discussions were meant to be catalysts, we felt, catalysts toward the process of opening a dialogue within our family, and our minds individually. When one family member falls ill from the disease of addiction, everything is seen through a shattered mirror from everyone. Joe Herzanek's exceptional book, his wisdom, and plethora of real life experiences were, for us, such a positive resource, along with the dvd roundtable discussions --- active and accurate learning tools and examples of the whats and how tos that parents and siblings need. His advice put us on the path to really help our son. Dealing with and recognizing the fact that one has this disease is a slow, and evolving process that calls for intense work, introspection, commitment, and more. It also requires that a family make a paradigm shift away from accusations to the addict and past unworkable behaviors, toward taking baby steps to forgiveness, a return to love, health and focus on one day at a time. We found it to be an invaluable reference, and have gone back to visit it many times. Keeping an open mind is vital to dealing with addiction. Reading, learning, listening, discovering, all are a part of the process. And, there is a need for a sense of reality and the inherent value of the Twelve Step Program for parents and siblings as well.

The best book ever to help addicts and their friends and families. It really can help you understand the insanity of it all. Addiction maybe one of the hardest things to wrap your mind around. This book helps in so many ways to clear up fact from fiction!!

I recently purchased the DVD and book on "Why Don't They Just Quit" by Joe Herzanek. Having a son with a severe alcohol/drug abuse problem, who has been through more than one treatment program, I was desperately looking for answers, not hype or glitter. I found the "roundtable" format on the DVD to be easy to follow. I consider "Why Don't They Just Quit" to be my "Bible" on drug abuse issues affecting the addict and the families. Mr. Herzanek lays it out in a straightforward way, using his and other's personal experiences to clarify the how and why of addiction and recovery. This is a must have tool for anyone that is impacted by a loved one's addiction.

"Why Don't They Just Quit" is a must have book, and DVD round table discussion combo. I know from experience watching a love one suffer from addiction, how painful this is for the addict and the family. Most of the times the family does not know much about addiction or what it looks like exactly, all they know is their family structure is in jeopardy. The roundtable opens up many avenues of discussion of what addiction looks like, how it affects the family, and there are solutions. Yes, there are solutions!!! The round table givens valuable advice on many other questions you may have. Questions dealing with relapse, intervention techniques, in addition to what works, and what does not work for addicts, and their families. Joe and the round table members do an excellent job at discussing all the issues of addiction and recovery. Did you notice I said "recovery?" There is hope and this book along with round table discussion will help you on the path to recovery. If you are having addiction issues, or you are a family member watching someone with addiction issues this is a must have. Very insightful and positive...

Length:: 1:26 Mins

Experts discuss and provide answers to over 35 tough questions dealing with these issues.
You will learn:
- What works, what doesn't, and why.
- Why a person doesn't have to hit rock-bottom.
- Why efective intervention doesn't have to be a surprise attack.
- Can a person just cut down?
- When helping is actually hurting.
- Is it okay to smoke weed in recovery?
- How to deal with relapse.

Book: Why Don't They Just Quit? What families and friends need to know about addiction and recovery.
Kindle Edition:Why Don't They Just Quit?

This is a truly important work... one that anyone affected by substance abuse either directly or indirectly should see.

When i was in art school years ago, one day a friend of mine who was also a classmate didn't show up for class. It was very unusual as he was always first there and one of the most talented and prolific artists - not only in the freshman class, but in the whole college. He was always drawing and, although very reclusive in his personal life, was well liked and admired. i learned quickly that he had overdosed. Sadness and deep grief do not even begin to describe the loss of Gary. i still feel empty when i think of him like when the wind blows, i feel like it can go right through me.

The reason i was so glad to have learned of this great book and of Joe's having been there realism, is that it has given me some closure on some level about my friend. No other work has come close and for that i am eternally grateful.

It's an honor for me to have a chance to write this.

respectfully and with deep regard and thanks,

russ

I have read many books and literature written on addiction and recovery, and the ones I find the most informative and helpful to those seeking knowledge and understanding are the ones written from individuals who have been there themselves. The school of hard knocks is I believe to be the best education and insights into how and what an addict thinks and acts comes from those who have been there from traditional education. I believe Joe Herzank's personal knowledge and insights. I recommend this DVD to anyone struggling with addiction. Thank God for those like Joe Herzank.

If you've ever wondered why a loved one or friend continues to destroy their lives (and/or others), and wished you knew what you can and cannot do, then watch this video over and over again - the answers are there if you're willing to hear them. Joe, and the round table members, do an excellent job at tackling the tough questions - and answers - on addiction. You'll get no dramatic enhancements here, just straight questions and REAL answers on what addiction is, why people don't stop, and what you can do to help them. There are many books, TV programs, and videos out there, but none that match the straightforward truth you'll find here. If you need help, then watch this video with your family - and then follow its suggestions. You'll be happy you did.