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35 of 35 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
New parents can easily find answers to hundreds of questions,
By Judith Binder (Albuquerque, NM USA) - See all my reviews
This review is from: Dr. Spock's Baby and Childcare (with Slipcase) (Paperback)
"Dr. Spock's Baby and Child Care" (1997 Ed.) is as good as it gets and is still the right book for new parents. Clearly outlined, it's a snap to find answers to the hundreds of questions that trouble new and re-newed parents alike. Explanations are carefully drawn in a straightforward manner that doesn't belittle parents seeking basic information about how to tell the difference between measles and a reaction to a new food. Spock was the first to understand that caring for young children according to strict time schedules was as unpopular with sensitive parents as it was unpleasant for newborns. Each parent has always been encouraged to use his/her own judgment while at the same time keeping ahead of the child. The newly initiated parent is searching for the right technique, a balancing act that becomes even more difficult when a parent must return to the workplace. Spock and Rothenberg have included insights about this transition period in the life of a young family. Still a 10 on my scale.
35 of 36 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
After 50 Years Still the Best Book On Child Development Ever,
This review is from: Dr. Spock's Baby and Childcare: Seventh Edition (Mass Market Paperback)
This book, originally published fifty years ago and revised a number of times, remains the classic in the field just as Benjamin Spock remains the dean of published pediatric authorities. Yet no book has been more misunderstood and misinterpreted. The truth is that Spock's ideas, controversial when originally published, have become so mainstream that one would be hard pressed to find a book on baby and child care that does not incorporate or utilize Spockian theory.The book is a guide to the care and development of children from birth to five years. While it is chock full of useful information, such as methods of feeding infants, sleep issues in babies and toddlers and toilet training, the real value of the book is it's discussion of the psychological development of children. At the time the book was published, the prevailing theories of childcare focused almost exclusively on methods of parental control, that is to say discipline. The experts of the day sought to teach parents how to control their children's behavior but not how to understand that behavior. Spock changed all that. By couching his Freudian approach to child development in folksy and simple language, Spock brought the theories of Freud to the entire nation. Certainly parents would have been horrified to read straightforward Freudian ideas about the Oedipal complex and such things. Spock simply asserts that girls learn to be women by imitating their mothers and flirting with their fathers and vice versa. In this manner, Freud's child development theories were accepted into the mainstream. The first sentence of the book states "Relax. You know more than you think you do." This sums up Spock's common sense approach to the role of parents in caring for and guiding the behavior of their children. This is more true today than when the book was published. So many parents are caught up in trendy ideas and theories that they fail to step back and observe what is really going on. Spock's discussion of child psychology, while Freudian based, is not so narrow. His book is filled with numerous examples of the behavior of babies, toddlers and young children and parents' appropriate or inappropriate responses. Contrary to popular myth, Spock does not ignore the necessity of discipline. Indeed, throughout the book, he urges appropriate discipline. He demonstrates, through example, why young children after the first birthday misbehave. Sometimes, it is an attempt to manipulate the actions of the parents. More importantly, as Spock demonstrates, in the period we call the "terrible twos" and also for children approaching the age of 3 and a half, disobedience is usually an attempt by children to discover the boundaries of their own autonomy. As such it is a vital and necessary part of human development. Spock's great innovation is accepting this as natural. He does not call children who disobey naughty or bad. But at the same time, he urges parents to set appropriate boundaries and enforce them. The failure to enforce the limits of a young child's autonomy is what leads to spoiled children. As Spock points out in his characteristically folksy way, even the children know something is wrong when they are allowed to get away with such actions. As I stated above, Spock's approach to childcare is virtually universal. No modern child psychologist or pediatrician would argue that the meaning and reason for child behavior is unimportant to the effort to raise healthy adults. Doctors like Stoppard and Brazelton are full fledged Spockians. Even the super-famous Dr. Ferber lifts his complicated method straight out of Spock's simple idea that a little crying will not harm a baby. Indeed, a point Spock often makes is that happy and sane parents are the most important factors in raising happy children. This book is extremely valuable and makes fascinating reading. It should be read by all parents and parents to be. It should be read first cover to cover and then re-read as one's children approach the various ages covered in the book. It remains one of the signature influential works of the 20th Century and I can't imagine it ever going out of vogue. Read this book!
10 of 10 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
Nothing else as thorough and easy to read,
By Amy Hines (Austin, TX United States) - See all my reviews
This review is from: Dr. Spock's Baby and Childcare: Seventh Edition (Mass Market Paperback)
As a second-time mother who's read Dr. Spock, Dr. Brazelton, and Dr. Sears' baby care books, I still reach for Spock whenever I have a question, or an uncertainty about something. This book is extensive in its coverage of both big and little issues, from diapering to feeding, and on into adolescence, ecompassing details as well as emotional aspects of what you're doing, if applicable. I find his philosophies and techniques to be a terrific common sense, middle ground, and reassuring resource. Even if you enjoy other parenting books, this one is a must- sort of an encyclopedia of infant/child issues, as the index is detailed and thorough. Keep this one in your library!
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