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Dreaming in Chinese: Mandarin Lessons In Life, Love, And Language [Hardcover]

Deborah Fallows
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Book Description

August 31, 2010

Deborah Fallows has spent much of her life learning languages and traveling around the world. But nothing prepared her for the surprises of learning Mandarin, China's most common language, or the intensity of living in Shanghai and Beijing. Over time, she realized that her struggles and triumphs in studying the language of her adopted home provided small clues to deciphering the behavior and habits of its people,and its culture's conundrums. As her skill with Mandarin increased, bits of the language—a word, a phrase, an oddity of grammar—became windows into understanding romance, humor, protocol, relationships, and the overflowing humanity of modern China.

Fallows learned, for example, that the abrupt, blunt way of speaking that Chinese people sometimes use isn't rudeness, but is, in fact, a way to acknowledge and honor the closeness between two friends. She learned that English speakers' trouble with hearing or saying tones—the variations in inflection that can change a word's meaning—is matched by Chinese speakers' inability not to hear tones, or to even take a guess at understanding what might have been meant when foreigners misuse them.

In sharing what she discovered about Mandarin, and how those discoveries helped her understand a culture that had at first seemed impenetrable, Deborah Fallows's Dreaming in Chinese opens up China to Westerners more completely, perhaps, than it has ever been before.


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Editorial Reviews

From Booklist

Fallows manages to take the relatively dry subject of translation and create a warm and witty memoir. Dwelling less on her own feelings then on the intricacies of language mastery, she shares experiences after she and her husband moved to China that taught her just how complex Mandarin can be. Such as the fact that there are 400 syllables in Mandarin as opposed to 10 times that number in English, making tone crucial in conversation. Fallows makes all this fascinating by writing in a thoroughly engaging manner that not only invites readers into her experiences, but also delights them with her discoveries. There is confusion with a Cantonese cab driver, the manicurist who envisioned “almost perfect happiness,” and the employee at Taco Bell who thought Fallows wanted to hug him (she was inquiring about takeout). From observations about maps, naming children, and the struggle over one language for a nation where over 300 million speak something other than Mandarin, Fallows takes readers on a ride through Chinese culture that is as entertaining as it is informative. --Colleen Mondor

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“You don’t have to know Mandarin to be captivated by Deborah Fallows’s Dreaming in Chinese…. Forget Berlitz – that just teaches words. Deborah Fallows shows us that the cultural implications of those words teach us about each other.” —Sara Nelson, O: The Oprah Magazine

“While it isn’t necessary to know the language of a foreign country when you live abroad, studying that language can infinitely ease and illuminate your entrée there. Deborah Fallows underscores this lesson again and again in this compelling account of her own trials and triumphs with studying Mandarin while residing in Shanghai and Beijing. A linguist by training, Fallows shows how even small advancements such as mastering a single word or phrase can unlock grammatical and cultural secrets…. Over the course of her three-year immersion, her ever-deepening insights immeasurably enrich her engagement with China—and ours as well.” —Don George, National Geographic Traveler

“Fallows manages to take the relatively dry subject of translation and create a warm and witty memoir…. [taking] readers on a ride through Chinese culture that is as entertaining as it is informative.” —Colleen Mondor, Booklist

“Any traveler who shudders at the prospect of deciphering Chinese should be armed with a copy of this book.”—Evan Osnos,  The New Yorker

“China seems an impossible mountain to climb, yet Deborah Fallows takes a less traveled path, climbing the mountain from the inside. She recounts her journey with a perfect balance of wise observation and wit. To follow her climb yields startling insights about the Chinese people and culture, the kind of insights lugubrious China essays rarely yield. "Dreaming in China" is both vital and a joy to read.”—Ken Auletta

Dreaming in Chinese is a little gem, sparkling with wonderful tales about China, its language and its people.”—Rob Gifford, former NPR Beijing correspondent, and author of China Road

“In Dreaming in Chinese, Deborah Fallows opens up a window onto Chinese urban life through its notoriously difficult language. A charming and insightful book.”—Susan Shirk, author of China: Fragile Superpower

“While all too many books on China try to make sense of this infinitely provocative country from the top down, Deborah Fallows looks at it from the bottom up, trying to figure out what makes the place work through personal encounters, the language and everyday occurrences. She has written a refreshing and insightful book.” —Orville Schell, director of the Asia Society’s Center on U.S.-China Relations

"Dreaming in Chinese is original, entertaining, gracefully written and provides important insights into life and culture in contemporary China. Deborah Fallows is a gifted linguist who helps her readers understand the complexities of the Chinese language.  But she does much more.  She is an astute observer and through simple yet compelling anecdotes she helps her readers experience everyday life in China. This is a terrific book for anyone who wants to improve their understanding of this extraordinary country. " Laura D. Tyson, Professor of Global Management, Haas School of Business, University of California at Berkeley

“Deborah Fallows' sparkling memoir of her three years in China makes us feel we are on the streets with her in Shanghai and Beijing--haggling with merchants and cops and learning to be rude and friendly, Chinese-style. The joy of this book is its sense of humor and adventure: Deb decided to live outside the expatriate ghetto: learning the language, drinking the water, living the real Chinese life like a laobaixing (ordinary person).Whether it's learning not to say "please," or understanding why Chinese hate the number "4" or ordering take-away at a Chinese Taco Bell, Deb jumps in head-first and makes us laugh at her often comical embrace of this culture. I can't think of a better book for someone who wants to understand the lovable, infuriating and hilarious country that is China.” —David Ignatius, columnist for The Washington Post and author of Body of Lies


Product Details

  • Hardcover: 208 pages
  • Publisher: Walker & Company; First Edition edition (August 31, 2010)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0802779131
  • ISBN-13: 978-0802779137
  • Product Dimensions: 8.1 x 6.6 x 0.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 9.6 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.3 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (69 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #293,086 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Deborah Fallows has lived in Shanghai and Beijing and traveled throughout China for three years with her husband, writer James Fallows. She is a Harvard graduate and has a PhD in Linguistics. She most recently worked in research and polling for the Pew Internet Project and in data architecture for Oxygen Media. When in the U.S., she and her husband live in Washington, DC. They have two sons and two daughters-in-law.

To learn more about Deborah Fallows, please visit www.deborahfallows.com.

Customer Reviews

A recommended reading if you like to learn Mandarin, learn Chinese culture or/and visit China. M. Mariba  |  27 reviewers made a similar statement
Although the book is VERY interesting, it is frankly too short. Joseph D. Seckelman  |  13 reviewers made a similar statement
It's a book you can read in a few hours. Steve  |  4 reviewers made a similar statement
Most Helpful Customer Reviews
51 of 54 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Superb Insight and a Great Read September 2, 2010
Format:Hardcover|Amazon Verified Purchase
Ms. Fallows does an admirable job breaking down and explaining what learning Chinese is all about - and does this in a very engaging fashion. Her skill as a linguist gives her the skill to provide insight covering not only the language aspect of learning Chinese, but more importantly into the cultural aspect of learning Chinese, which I think is even more valuable and much rarer. For example she discusses the ramifications of using a single spoken word "Ta", but different characters to mean he, she, it and the history of the word. Her chapter on direction, orientation and maps is especially interesting because of the difference between how the Chinese arrange maps and the Western world arranges maps.

I could continue talking about the specifics, but her book overall provides valuable insight and is a great foundation for anyone trying to learn Chinese, understand Chinese culture or is planning a visit to China. I wish Ms. Fallows book had been written five years ago when I started learning Chinese - it would have vastly shortened my learning curve. Get this book today - you'll be glad did.
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58 of 64 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Great book; don't read it on your Kindle October 8, 2010
By Emily
Format:Kindle Edition
I quite enjoyed this book. Like the author, I am a linguist who has studied Chinese, though I've only had the opportunity to make one short visit to China. This book was a chance to vicariously visit China with someone whose perspective I very much admire.

However, the type-setting in the Kindle edition was VERY disappointing. About half of the Chinese characters show up as little boxes. Another 25% are weirdly big and pixelated. It's as if they weren't aware that the book had non-Roman characters in it, or didn't proof-read. I expect better from the Kindle experience.
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41 of 49 people found the following review helpful
3.0 out of 5 stars Chinese for Beginners. September 7, 2010
Format:Hardcover
Dreaming in Chinese is a the story of how learning the Chinese language gives one a glimpse in the the Chinese way of life. It is written in a very straightforward style but is not without charm. Fallows can back the rather whimsical look at one of the world's hardest languages for western language learners with the poignant knowledge of a trained linguist. Her stories, which might seem to be light on content, are actually quick revealing and she chose each chapter's focus well as taken together, they do a decent job illustrating several key points of the Chinese mindset.

While language learners and linguists will enjoy the book, it might seem to others that the book is somewhat shallow. The author's life abroad, while a definite challenge, can come off sounding rather privileged. Learning a language is not easy and Fallows doesn't portray it as such, but she constantly references their travels and multiple homes which can make the trials of learning Mandarin seem like a luxury rather than a necessity.

As another reviewer mentioned, her presentation of Chinese varies and the lack of consistency can be disruptive to the flow of the text as well as the whole of book. If possible, the Chinese should be presented with the character, pinyin, and translation.

The book is very readable, mostly enjoyable, and well thought out.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
4.0 out of 5 stars Memories
I loved it because, having lived in China for four years as an English teacher, it reminded me so much of my own experience. In fact I could have added to it... Read more
Published 6 days ago by Pamela SEGEV
5.0 out of 5 stars Love it
I enjoyed this look into the Chinese culture. Very surprising, quite informative, and helpful in my understanding of this culture.
Published 24 days ago by Peggy A. McCright
2.0 out of 5 stars too short
Not bad, but hardly worth the price for being such a tiny book. Some good insights on China, but probably better as a magazine article.
Published 2 months ago by Michael S. Sacks
5.0 out of 5 stars Even if you don't know Chinese.....
Perhaps I loved this book because I was born in China, and I feel like I am partly Chinese. I know about some of the problems my parents had learning the language and... Read more
Published 3 months ago by Susan
4.0 out of 5 stars Charming but pretty light weight
This likely will be a useful and interesting book for neophytes on China, but it was disappointingly thin in insight into Chinese "life, love, and language. Read more
Published 3 months ago by C. M. Clarke
5.0 out of 5 stars Great view of a very different culture from a different angle
Interesting read, most especially if you are not Chinese but have had some direct experience with Chinese culture. Read more
Published 3 months ago by Glen Scroggins
5.0 out of 5 stars Delightful book
I read this in one sitting, and look forward to visiting China. This is not how to learn Mandarin, but how to enjoy using the language in China. Read more
Published 4 months ago by Joanne
5.0 out of 5 stars Very nice mix of language lessons and illustrations from her personal...
One of the main takeaways for me was the helpful description of how to pronounce the diacritically-accented syllables in the <em>pinyin</em> system. Read more
Published 4 months ago by D. C. Toedt
5.0 out of 5 stars Must read for anyone traveling to China
I bought it for my grandson who is an expat living in Taiwan. He is in school learning Mandarin and loved the book also. Says it is spot on!
Published 5 months ago by Roberta Thistle
5.0 out of 5 stars the best book I have ever read about China
the author is really a good writer, she get very close to normal Chinese daily life, her view can make foreigers know that country more deep.
Published 5 months ago by lily
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