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Drop the Worry Ball: How to Parent in the Age of Entitlement [Paperback]

Alex Russell , Tim Falconer
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May 14, 2012
How to avoid being a helicopter parent—and raise well adjusted, truly independent children

In an age of entitlement, where most kids think they deserve the best of everything, most parents are afraid of failing their children. Not only are they all too willing to provide every material comfort, they've also become overly involved in their children's lives, becoming meddlesome managers, rather than sympathetic advocates. In Drop the Worry Ball, authors Alex Russell and Tim Falconer offer a refreshing approach to raising well-adjusted children—who are also independent and unafraid to make mistakes.

In this practical sensible book, parents will truly understand the dynamics between parents and their children, especially the tendency of children to recruit their parents to do too much for them. The book also counsels that failing—whether it's a test, a course, or a tryout for a team—is a natural part of growing up, and not a sign of parental incompetence.

  • Shows how to resist the pressure to become over involved in your child's life
  • How to retire as a gatekeeper or manager of your child's life, and become a genuine source of support
  • Build trusting relationships with teachers, coaches, camp counselors, and other authority figures—so they can play an effective role in your child's life
  • Understand problems such as ADHD, anxiety, and substance abuse

A guidebook for parenting courageously and responsibly—allowing your kids to be who they are while building structures that keep them safe—Drop the Worry Ball is a must for any parent who wishes to be and do their very best.


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Want a More Resilient and Independent Kid?

What happens when you combine children who expect the best of everything with parents who believe failure is not an option? You get parenting in the age of entitlement, an era of meddlesome managers rather than sympathetic advocates for confident kids.

Drop the Worry Ball offers a much-needed fresh perspective on raising self-motivated children ready to take on the world. Learn how to:

  • Understand parent-child dynamics

  • Resist the pressure to over-parent

  • Help kids worry for themselves

  • Build effective relationships with outside authorities

  • Manage ADHD, anxiety and other special needs

  • Embrace failing as learning, not parental incompetence

"Drop the Worry Ball is full of common-sense strategies for parents worn out from worrying about their kids. One of the smartest parenting books on the shelf. A must-read." — Jennifer Kolari, author of Connected Parenting

About the Author

Alex Russell (PhD, CPsych) is a clinical psychologist and a research affiliate with the Hincks-Dellcrest Institute in Toronto. A popular speaker, he provides assessments and therapy to children and adults, consults to schools and is the father of two teenagers.

Tim Falconer is the author of three non-fiction books, including Drive: A Road Trip through Our Complicated Affair with the Automobile.


Product Details

  • Paperback: 256 pages
  • Publisher: Wiley; 1 edition (May 14, 2012)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1118124944
  • ISBN-13: 978-1118124949
  • Product Dimensions: 5.4 x 0.6 x 8.5 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 12 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (2 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,211,213 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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This book contains really useful information for parents and professionals about dealing with anxiety and hyper kids. I am a therapist who sees a lot of anxious children in my work, and have known for years that the way to help parents with anxious children is to support them to show their kids ways to manage, NOT avoid, anxiety. The authors teach readers to tolerate their own discomfort when dealing with their kids' anxiety. They give specific examples of how to help children of all ages navigate through it successfully, which is the ticket to reduced anxiety. The authors understand that finding ways around anxiety (avoiding noisy places, staying away from the family with the dog, etc.) only reinforces it and makes it stronger and harder to overcome. Their approach is thoughtful - they understand the pressures on children and parents in our culture - but they are steadfast in their correct understanding that children are happiest and most successful when they learn to manage all the ups and downs of growing up.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Good reminder of back to basics December 11, 2012
Format:Kindle Edition|Amazon Verified Purchase
Will apply to any parent raising kids in this generation of entitlement. Reminds people that in order to succeed failure may have to be apart of the process.
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