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Dying: A Guide for Helping and Coping [Hardcover]

Martin Shepard (Author)
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Book Description

June 2000
DYING is a guide to not only dealing with the death of loved ones, but an exploration of facing one's own death. It is a book designed to amplify and challenge one's own perception of both the dying process and death itself, in order to allay fears, help one find a more loving and rewarding experience, and to build a richer spiritual foundation.

It is a practical book that focuses on bringing about honest and open communication between the dying and one's family and friends, a book that ranges from the challenging and painful aspects of bereavement, to the everyday choices of pain alleviation, hospital stays, alternative treatment, financial problems, funerals, and caring at home for the terminally ill.

Throughout the book, Dr. Shepard utilizes not only the perceptions of sages throughout the ages, but his own interviews with both dying patients and their families which are both moving, comforting, and enlightening.


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Anyone facing a terminal prognosisAas helper, friend, relative, patient or health-care professionalA will find useful lessons in psychiatrist Shepard's look at how to deal well with impending death. Patients want to know how others have felt; family members want to know what to do. Some health-care professionals could use advice on what to disclose, and how, and to whom, and when. Most of the volume alternates straightforward adviceAcouched so as to reach a broad audienceAwith brief interviews with patients or their intimates. A law student now recovering from a malignant melanoma recollects his diagnosis and surgery. A 65-year-old contractor with myeloma illustrates how "one can... know the truth and still be optimistic." "Karen," a nurse, describes how she has coped with Hodgkin's diseaseAand how her husband seems to have practiced denial. And a cheery middle-aged nun explains, in fairly ecumenical terms, how she takes care of herself and keeps her outlook bright. Shepard (Fritz) includes an invaluable, if brief, section on the legal, practical and financial aspects of dying and being a survivorAwills, insurance, pensions, planning a funeral. Hospice care deserves and gets its own chapter; so does bereavementA"Deborah" describes the aftermath of her father's suicide; "David" describes his life as a widowed single parent. Boxed quotes and last words from famous and semifamous artists, wits and thinkers (Shakespeare, Browning, F.H. Bradley) adorn every chapterAleading up to a concluding section of meditations penned by Shepard himself: e.g., "None of us will ever get out of this world alive." Several chapters of this admirable book feature line drawings by Shepard's father, who died in 1972, soon after completing them. Large print edition rights sold to Thorndike. (July) FYI: Shepard is the cofounder and copublisher of the Permanent Press.
Copyright 2000 Reed Business Information, Inc.

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Shepard, a psychiatrist, bases this guide on the experiences of his patients and his father. He states the theme early: "Most of us start off at a disadvantage because we regard death as a calamity." Honesty, open communication, and freed emotions, however, can be the foundation of a comfortable and comforting death. Shepard interviews patients and family members alike to elucidate how anxieties, blockages, and dislikes are brought out and either dispersed or accepted. Acknowledging that no one is perfect, Shepard shows that imperfections can be dealt with successfully in most cases. Good relationships are essential. The patient must trust that the physician will answer questions clearly and without sugarcoating. Family members must make the best of the time remaining to the patient. Finally, the dying person must be responsible for attaining personal peace of mind. Shepard also gives practical advice on wills, cremation, and funeral homes. The accompanying line drawings of the sick and dying, done by Shepard's father during his final illness, fit the book perfectly. William Beatty
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Product Details

  • Hardcover: 208 pages
  • Publisher: Permanent Pr Pub Co (June 2000)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1579620698
  • ISBN-13: 978-1579620691
  • Product Dimensions: 8.8 x 5.9 x 0.9 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 15 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 3.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (1 customer review)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #3,885,224 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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3.0 out of 5 stars CLOSE-UP OF THE DYING PROCESS, September 15, 2010
This review is from: Dying: A Guide for Helping and Coping (Hardcover)
Martin Shepard, MD
Dying: A Guide for Helping and Coping

(Sag Harbor, NY: Permanent Press, 2000) 208 pages
(ISBN: 0-933256-92-2; hardcover)
(Library of Congress call number: BF789.D4S48 1999)

A doctor who has cared for many dying patients of all ages
tells of his experiences--and theirs.
Many of the chapters are extensive interviews with dying patients,
who have a whole range of different feelings about dying.
This book offers no brilliant new insights,
but it offers close-up experiences of the deaths of a variety of people.
At the end, there is a chapter exploring death as experienced by
the family members, who continued to live after their loved ones died.
Another opportunity to confront the reality of modern dying.

If you would like to read other books about coping with death,
search the Internet for the following exact phrase:
"Best Books on Terminal Care".

James Leonard Park, author of Your Last Year:
Creating Your Own Advance Directive for Medical Care.
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