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Eating with the Enemy: How I Waged Peace with North Korea from My BBQ Shack in Hackensack [Hardcover]

Robert Egan , Kurt Pitzer
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April 27, 2010

There was only one chair in the room. Fluorescent tubes on the ceiling hummed with blue light. The woman smiled and explained in a soothing voice that there were some “procedures” they had to go through.

“We’re just going to put you under for a few minutes,” she said. One of the officials told me to turn around..

“Do I have a choice?” I lowered my pants, exposing most of my left butt cheek.  The woman came up from behind me, and I felt a sharp prick as she pushed in the needle and rammed the solution into my muscle. When she finished, I sat down.

“Which agency do you work for? CIA?” asked the other male official.

“I operate independently,” I said. I started to feel good. Very good. I had the urge to laugh, even though nobody had said anything funny. “I’m a lone wolf. And I make burgers for a living. I’m a burger-making lone wolf.”

I must have blacked out for some of it. When I opened my eyes again, the two men were there, but the woman was gone. I wiped my nose, and my hand came away bloody. I suddenly felt so sick and dizzy I thought I’d had a stroke. “What the fuck?

In Pyongyang in 1994, Robert Egan was given Sodium Pentathol, or “truth serum,” by North Korean agents trying to determine his real identity. What was he doing in the world’s most isolated nation---while the U.S. government recoiled at its human-rights record and its quest for dangerous nukes? Why had he befriended one of North Korea’s top envoys to the United Nations? What was Egan after? Fast-paced and often astounding, Eating with the Enemy is the tale of a restless restaurant owner from a mobbed-up New Jersey town who for thirteen years inserted himself into the high-stakes diplomatic battles between the United States and North Korea.

Egan dropped out of high school in working-class Fairfield, New Jersey, in the midseventies and might have followed his father’s path as a roofing contractor. But Bobby had bigger plans for himself, and after a few years wasted on drugs and petty crime, his life took an astonishing turn when his interest in the search for Vietnam-era POWs led to an introduction in the early nineties to North Korean officials desperate to improve relations with the United States. So Egan turned his restaurant, Cubby’s, into his own version of Camp David. Between ball games, fishing trips, and heaping plates of pork ribs, he advised deputy ambassador to the United Nations, Han Song Ryol, and other North Koreans during tumultuous years that saw the death of Kim Il-sung and the rise of Kim Jong-il, false starts toward peace during the Clinton administration, the Bush “Axis of Evil” era, and North Korea’s successful test of a nuclear weapon in 2006. All the while, Egan informed for the FBI, vexed the White House with his meddling, chaperoned the communist nation’s athletes on hilarious adventures, and nearly rescued a captured U.S. Navy vessel---all in the interest of promoting peace.

Egan parses U.S. foreign policy with a mobster’s street smarts, and he challenges the idea that the United States should not have relations with its adversaries. The intense yet unlikely friendship between him and Ambassador Han provides hope for better relations between enemy nations and shows just how far one lone citizen can go when he tries to right the world’s wrongs.

 


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Editorial Reviews

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“An enlightening, and precarious, experiment in the ways opposing cultures can merge and acquiesce.”
       —Kirkus Reviews (Kirkus Reviews )

“In this engaging, off-the-wall memoir, Egan . . . demonstrates the power that individual friendships formed across ‘enemy’ lines can have.”
       —Library Journal (Library Journal )

“A jaunty narrative of one man’s sometimes self-indulgent escapades in the face of government ambivalence.”
       —The New York Times (New York Times )

“Narrator Traber Burns has a down-home style that sounds like he’s sitting on his porch telling us this unique personal story.”
       —AudioFile (AudioFile ) --This text refers to the Audio CD edition.

About the Author

ROBERT EGAN has owned and run Cubby’s, a barbecue restaurant in Hackensack, New Jersey, for the past twenty-five years. He has served as an “unofficial ambassador” for the government of North Korea and is the chairman of a trade group that has worked to improve ties between that country and the United States. 

KURT PITZER is a former commercial fisherman who has reported from some of the world’s most turbulent regions for The Boston Globe, The Sunday Times of London, the Los Angeles Times, and People magazine. He cowrote The Bomb in My Garden with Saddam Hussein’s nuclear mastermind, Mahdi Obeidi, after helping him escape from Baghdad in 2003.


Product Details

  • Hardcover: 400 pages
  • Publisher: St. Martin's Press (April 27, 2010)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0312571305
  • ISBN-13: 978-0312571306
  • Product Dimensions: 9.5 x 6.6 x 1.3 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.3 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (55 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,004,067 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Customer Reviews

Sounds like the set up for a joke, but it's one guy's real story. Zardoz  |  15 reviewers made a similar statement
It's a must read, and I can't wait to go to NJ to eat at Bobby's BBQ Shack... Hermes Marco  |  7 reviewers made a similar statement
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15 of 16 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Fiction pales; an amazing story April 27, 2010
Format:Hardcover
You've heard the expression "truth is stranger than fiction"? Well, it was coined for a page-turner like EATING WITH THE ENEMY. You simply could not make up the true story of Bobby Egan, the quasi-wiseguy New Jersey goomba barbecue shack owner who befriended North Korea's diplomatic mission to the UN and became "our man in Pyongyang" (or theirs in NYC--depending on who you believe). This book is equal parts "The Sopranos," "Catch-22," and Graham Greene. But not even Greene could have invented a senior North Korean diplomat who becomes best friends with a working class Italian American burger cook and starts going with him to Giants games, or deep sea fishing, or deer hunting......not to mention Bobby traveling to North Korea (where he is drugged with sodium pentothal), or arranging dental work for his friend Mr. Han that makes Han the envy of the DPRK, or trying to open a franchise of his bbq shack in Pyongyang, or--most incredibly--eventually consulting w/the North Koreans on their nuclear weapons program. The cat-and-mouse with the FBI and the State Department--who were furious that Egan had achieved a degree of penetration they never could, and repeatedly harassed him even as they relied on him to act as go-between--are priceless as well. But what really gives the book lasting impact is that beneath the surreal black humor is a very moving tale of an extraordinarily unlikely friendship, and of a somewhat damaged but always sympathetic man searching for meaning and purpose in his life. Beautifully captured in Bobby's distinctive voice, EATING WITH THE ENEMY is an unforgettable story and a great read. (Hollywood: take note!)
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8 of 8 people found the following review helpful
Format:Hardcover
Eating with the Enemy offers the most unlikely confluence of mafia wisdom, class warfare, BBQ recipes and a stinging critique of our diplomatic policies. It's a fast-paced and thoroughly enjoyable read.
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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Tasty April 27, 2010
Format:Hardcover
I found the book a delicious blend of funny and serious, all delivered with an edgy, absolutely credible, Wise Guy tone of voice. It's food, geopolitics and a wild trip behind the mystery curtain surrounding North Korea.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
3.0 out of 5 stars Mixed emotions...
This was an interesting book being an outsiders look into international relations. But the author himself admits readily that he was in it for the "juice" or the influence... Read more
Published 4 months ago by Carolpatt
1.0 out of 5 stars Rantings of a Delusional "Uncle Vinny" Wannabe
This "author" keeps stating that he is a regular "Joe", a normal guy from the lower rungs of society. In reality he is nothing but a buffoon. Read more
Published 17 months ago by J. Mangine
4.0 out of 5 stars Food, Politics and People
I love BBQ and have been reading up on North Korea of late, so this title caught my eye. No recipes here though, Bobby Egan is a restaurant owner in Hackensack, NJ but the subject... Read more
Published on April 14, 2011 by cpt matt
5.0 out of 5 stars WOW!
I'm an avid reader of non-fiction. Old history, current events, politics etc. Not often do I come across a book that draws me in and keeps me attentive to the details. Read more
Published on March 4, 2011 by JoeyInArlington
4.0 out of 5 stars a fascinating true story
Eating With The Enemy is one of those rare and unique stories about unusual relationships between unexpected people. Read more
Published on November 1, 2010 by paige mcbride
4.0 out of 5 stars Required Reading to pass along
This book shows the power of people talking with one another. I would like to see our political figures have to read this before entering office. Read more
Published on October 15, 2010 by BG
5.0 out of 5 stars Eye Opening and Important
Eating with the Enemy brings a new perspective to a stale conversation about the dynamic between the US and North Korea. Read more
Published on August 31, 2010 by Erin Elise
5.0 out of 5 stars Simply Amazing!
This Italian American restaurant owner in New Jersey has done something that no one in the government would ever think of doing- make friends with North Korea in order to get... Read more
Published on August 26, 2010 by Jean P.
5.0 out of 5 stars Naive or Open-minded?
An absorbing tale about one person's journey to bring waring nations together. Some people may criticize Bobby Egan and label him naďve. Perhaps Mr. Read more
Published on August 25, 2010 by Think
5.0 out of 5 stars nice book
would like to thank Bobby for this hilarious, true and clear book, they should make a movie about it, coz the story is more than beautiful,
Published on July 29, 2010 by Altekritti
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