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Either You're in or You're in the Way: Two Brothers, Twelve Months, and One Filmmaking Hell-Ride to Keep a Promise to Their Father Paperback – Bargain Price, March 30, 2010
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The hilarious, implausible, and touching story of twin brothers accomplishing the impossible—making a feature film (with a cast and crew with 11 Academy Awards and 26 nominations) with no experience, no money and no contacts.
When identical twin brothers Logan and Noah Miller's homeless father died alone in a jail cell, they vowed, come hell or high water, that their film, Touching Home, would be made as a dedication to their love for him. Either You're in or You're in the Way is the amazing story of how—without a dime to their names nor a single meaningful contact in Hollywood—they managed to write, produce, direct, and act in a feature film alongside four-time Academy Award-nominated actor Ed Harris and fellow nominees Brad Dourif and Robert Forster.
Either You're in or You're in the Way tells of the desperate struggle of two sons fighting to keep a vow to their father, and in so doing, creating a better life for themselves. A modern-day Horatio Alger on steroids, this fast-paced thrill ride of heartbreak and redemption will both captivate and inspire.
Writing with Four Hands by Logan and Noah Miller
When shooting a movie, every faculty is humming at its highest frequency. You don't sleep. It's intoxicating. You're operating on the edge of delirium and grandiose promises of immortality. You think that if you do everything right the gift of the gods is attainable. And then it ends. And there you are each morning. Alone again.
We were left with an emotional hangover after we finished directing Touching Home, a movie about us and our father. Less than a year earlier our father had passed away in jail. On that day, we had made a vow to him that we would make our movie--and we had just realized that commitment. We were supposed to be happy now. But we were miserable. For the last 350 days all our thoughts had been on the mission, the team of people we were working with. Now our thoughts were focused inward and it was a tough place to be.
But the torment wasn’t enough…
So we decided to dive into another long-shot mission: Write a book about our moviemaking hell-ride.
Where would we find the time? After all, we were still making the movie—post-production, editing. We searched for days. And then found it in the sleeping patterns of our editor, Academy Award nominee, Robert Dalva.
You see, Robert is a night man. Not a party man, just a guy that goes to bed late. We are morning men--we go to bed early and rise early, like man before electricity. Robert showed up at our house each day at 11am, where we were cutting picture downstairs. This gave us several hours to write each morning before he showed up.
And we write with four hands, which sometimes takes twice as long.
One man types while the other writes freehand. Then we blend it. We only have one computer so space and time are limited. Logan is the typer and Noah is the handwriter. And it's never pretty. One bro furiously smashing plastic squares, the other furiously carving ink onto paper. Later, the two are brought together in a clash of abusive language, each brother claiming the other is bipolar, illegitimate, the bastard son of an entire city. That their mother sang lullabies to one and terrible songs to the other. That his diaper was rarely changed and it ruined his brain. That he has written absolute tripe. That it belongs in the trash heap of failed street poets. We yell and scream. We throw chairs and hot cups of coffee. Punch holes in the sheetrock… And somehow, before Robert arrived, we had embedded words into the memory of our computer.
Writing the book brought back the excitement, allowed us to relive the boom and noise, the chaos and uncertainty. It unleashed the dopamine gush, washed the drug over the brain, gave us another goal.
We started writing in mid-April 2007 and had an ugly draft by October. We cut through it with a chainsaw and by February 2008 it was prettier and ready to product test. We gave the draft to a few trusted friends, one of them being national bestselling author Tess Uriza Holthe. Tess and the crew liked the manuscript--and they are a very tough bunch. Tess gave the manuscript to her agent. It was an unpleasant week, the mental sauna--the self-inflicted victimization that all writers suffer when waiting to hear what an agent thinks of their work. It gives you the stomach jungle; hot rivers, chimps, and hairy insects howling in your gut. Then Mary Ann called and said that she really liked our manuscript and our temperature left the tropics. She gave us some notes, we went back into the manuscript, smoothed out some things, and then it was ready to send to publishers.
An editor at HarperCollins read our manuscript the morning it was sent out and then tossed it up the ladder to his boss, who took it home that night. The following day HarperCollins made us an offer--and we took it. They were extremely enthusiastic about our book and we were equally enthusiastic about being paid. It had taken us nearly ten years of writing diligently, working one mindless job after another, to finally get a paycheck for mental work. It was time to move on from Top Ramen. Of course, we’ll revisit the noodle delicacy, but out of choice, rather than necessity.
So we signed the contract with HarperCollins and began working with an editor on turning the book into something the entire world would appreciate--another delusion. And now we’re done. For now.
It was our intention to make a movie, not write a book. By accident, we did both.
And now we're here. Wherever that is. Somewhere between obscurity and the rocket ride.
Movie Stills from Touching Home (Click to Enlarge)
|Ed Harris (playing our father) at the Papermill Creek Saloon, a rock throw from the "Shed"||Logan working on his abs in the rain--after the fight scene.||The brothers argue on Red Barn Road. There's about seventy people just off-screen.|
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Top Customer Reviews
You could look at this book in two different ways, first as a how to guide on getting a movie made when you have no experience or creditability in Hollywood, or secondly as study on the effects of an alcoholic father and a dysfunctional family life on two brothers.
As a guide, the book illustrates the challenges, hard work, and sleepless nights aspiring moviemakers can expect to face. It also makes you appreciate the effects of luck, both good and bad, on achieving long standing goals.Read more ›
Everyone who has ever had a dream, lost one or achieved theirs, NEEDS to read this book by the Miller Twins. No matter your age, profession or station in life you will find a pearl of wisdom, laugh you're a_ _ off and cry for the experiences of Noah and Logan as they pursued their dream to make the beautiful and inspiring film, "Touching Home" starring 3 academy award nominees, including Ed Harris.
The writing is visceral (young Noah grabbing the goose by it's neck and punching it, living from shack to shed), refreshing, uplifting, magnetic, hard charging Red Bull reading reminiscent of "Fear and loathing in Las Vegas" by Hunter S Thompson with one major twist, the story and characters are ALL real.
As a sales & leasing professional I was attracted by the "Seven thoughts" particularly 2) Surround yourself with gray hair and listen. 3) Never wait for a phone call 5) There are only solutions and 7) Either you're in or you're in the way. REFRESHING advice from kids so young yet so mature.
Cast away your fear, uncertainty and doubt and chase your dreams with every ounce of energy you've got. Noah and Logan can show you how!
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My interest in the story was mostly rooted in my experiences as a filmmaker, and I wanted to see how the brothers got their project off the ground. So in that realm, it was highly motivational for me. However, even if you're not a filmmaker and you need motivation, inspiration and confidence to pursue your own project (creative, business, personal, it doesn't matter), this book will serve you well.
There are really two aspects to this book. The first is the story of how two determined brothers managed to make a movie with no experience, no money, no training, nothing but determination. That aspect is a good story, and might have been interesting enough to get me to read it straight through like I did.
But it's the other aspect that makes this a truly great book: the insight you get into the hearts and minds of two individuals who have a dream and will not let anything stand in their way of achieving it. These guys started with nothing but a friend who gave them names to call, and other names they found in books about the business. They got on the phone, asked for help, followed up every lead and every long trail of referrals until eventually they found every person, skill and resource they needed. They got some of the best actors in the business to be in their movie for the love of acting. They did this with nothing but drive and desire.
If you've had a dream for a long time, you may be a bit miffed that these guys are successful and you are not (yet). Don't waste another second of your life thinking that way-the Miller brothers wouldn't. They're too busy writing scripts, working the phones, and making their next dream a reality.
Five stars for a pure motivational joyride. Now I'm off to track down a copy of the movie. I hope I can get it overnight.
Most Recent Customer Reviews
This was an awesome book, too bad the movie didn't live up to the way it was made out to be in the book...Published on March 21, 2014 by Gabriel Cianchetti
This book and the resulting film are wonderful— I found the Miller Brothers are not only intensely energetic and their work/story inspirational but the best and most effective... Read morePublished on January 30, 2014 by HKrum
Was lucky enough to receive the copy of the book autographed by the film producer. I enjoyed every word and admired the tenacity of the Miller twins. Read morePublished on January 13, 2014 by Laurie B. Kirby
This is an inspiring memoir of sorts about a pair of brothers (the Millers, identical twins) who are trying to fulfill a promise to make a movie about their alcoholic, homeless... Read morePublished on May 13, 2013 by Carol T.
I chose a 5 star rating for this book because I could not put it down, start to finish! These guys are amazing! Read morePublished on April 10, 2013 by Philly Girl
I am writing a story about a my own similarly dysfunctional family dynamics, so on that level, they had me at hello. Read morePublished on July 6, 2011 by angsty
The authors worked very hard and I did learn a little about the film industry, which was something I wanted out of the book. But everything was very jokey or dramatic. Read morePublished on January 15, 2011 by Kathryn W. Finn
The Miller Brothers have put together an unconventional "How To" book for aspiring filmmakers that will not only be informative to newbies, but entertaining to industry vets. Read morePublished on December 27, 2010 by Nelson Aspen
I really wanted to like this book, but I just couldn't get into it. I love movies and stories about how movies are made, but this one just didn't speak to me. Read morePublished on October 5, 2010 by Ask Bjørn Hansen