From Publishers Weekly
Thirteen years old and "developmentally disabled," Emily Gold longs to be like other teenagers, but she knows she's "special"--a euphemism she's grown to hate. Realizing that she's maturing (she's proud to be menstruating), Emily resents her parents' protectiveness, especially her father's insistence on regarding her as a little girl. She adores her brother, a lawyer, but feels betrayed by his unexpected marriage. Yet her sister-in-law, Phyllis, eventually charms Emily with her warmth and generosity, and becomes a valuable friend. It's Phyllis who clarifies Emily's notions about sex and reproduction, teaching her about "nice boys and not so nice boys," a crucial lesson for the pretty and eager-to-please girl. Rubin paints her character with contrasting colors: she's naive yet perceptive (she always knows when people are discussing her and what they are likely to be saying), sweet but sometimes temperamental, obedient but occasionally deceptive. Emphasizing what her heroine has in common with the audience while not glossing over her differences, the author provides a meaningful, hopeful glimpse into a rarely visited world. Ages 10-14.
Copyright 1993 Reed Business Information, Inc.
From School Library Journal
Grade 6-9-While at a camp for retarded children, Emily, 13, is devastated when she receives a phone call from her mother saying that her beloved brother, Tom, is getting married the next day. Determined to hate his new wife Phyllis, she is surprised and won over by the young woman's warmth and acceptance of her. So it is only natural that when Phyllis becomes pregnant, Emily is full of curiosity and wants a baby, too. Meanwhile, Emily's father has become unhappy with the fact that his daughter is growing up, and refuses to give her any freedom. Rubin's skill lies in using the simplest vocabulary to allow readers to experience in a most understandable way the complexities faced by the developmentally delayed. When Emily finally refines her ability to judge boys' motives and wins the trust of her parents, readers will feel that it is their victory, too. The emergence of sexuality in children is a difficult topic for most parents, and this book could function as a discussion springboard for parent or support groups. Much less complex than Virginia E. Wolff's Probably Still Nick Swansen (Holt, 1988), it's still a gem of a book for changing perceptions.
Cindy Darling Codell, Clark Middle School, Winchester, KYCopyright 1993 Reed Business Information, Inc.