Emily Post's Etiquette (16th Edition) [Hardcover]

Peggy Post (Author)

Book Description

ISBN-10: 0062700782 | ISBN-13: 978-0062700780 | Publication Date: March 28, 1997 | Edition: 16th Indxd

Emily Post's revolutionary 1922 book jettisoned rigid Victorian rules and viewed manners as adaptable to the times and belonging to people from all walks of life. Despite today's "anything goes" attitude, research and the many questions sent to Peggy Post's columns and to the Post Institute website show that Americans remain interested in the basic courtesies and seek the self-confidence, positive image, and improved relationships that come from dealing respectfully with others. This new edition includes: 20 all-new chapters: Today's Families; Dating, "Netiquette"; The Home Office; Dealing with Rudeness; New Times, New Traditions; Separation and Divorce, and more. 2 all-new sections: Children and Teenagers (raising well-mannered children) and Relationships (from stepfamily harmony to noxious neighbours) New topics: How to have an argument, Instant messaging etiquette, re-gifting, 10 e-mail transgressions, 4 cell phone never-evers, today's 12 rudest behaviours, travel etiquette, same-sex wedding ceremonies...etc Updates on: holiday tipping (who/how much), when thank you notes are optional, new wedding trends, observing/attending others' holy days/ceremonies, and more

Editorial Reviews

Amazon.com Review

In 1922, Emily Post came out with the definitive book on etiquette. To celebrate its 75th anniversary, her great-granddaughter-in-law Peggy Post has updated and revised the opus into an 845-page 16th edition that takes modern conundrums and lifestyles into account. If you're wondering when to put a napkin in your lap and which foods may be eaten with fingers, the information's still there. But situations Emily never dreamed of--matters of e-mail, cellular phones, step parents, fourth weddings, and in-line skating--are considered with the same grace that made Emily the last word on civility in the 1920s.

From Booklist

Peggy Post, Emily Post's great-granddaughter-in-law and the current, high-profile spokesperson for the Emily Post Institute, is celebrating the seventy-fifth anniversary of this modern classic by presenting a thoroughly updated and rigorously detailed new edition. The world was already in flux in 1922, when Emily Post, an unusually independent woman for her times, wrote and published the first incarnation of Etiquette (an instant best-seller), and change, both societal and technological, has remained the defining force of our century. But the importance of being considerate and thoughtful, kind and unselfish, has never been diminished. Indeed, as our population and proximity to one another increases, etiquette becomes even more crucial to daily life. Peggy Post explains, "While the philosophy of etiquette must be everlasting, the practice of manners is ever-changing." Post begins with basic communication skills, then segues to "netiquette," that is, the correct use of call waiting, cellular phones, answering machines, and e-mail. Much-needed guidelines for interaction in the business world, from job interviews to entertaining and travel, are covered with the trademark Post specificity. On to more personal matters, Post offers guidelines for divorce-related protocol, expressing condolences, celebrating holidays, and practicing good sports etiquette. Reflecting our enhanced awareness of cultural diversity, Post also provides useful information about various religious customs. For "civility," see Post. Donna Seaman

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Product Details

• Hardcover: 846 pages
• Publisher: William Morrow; 16th Indxd edition (March 28, 1997)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0062700782
• ISBN-13: 978-0062700780
• Product Dimensions: 9.6 x 7.8 x 2.6 inches
• Shipping Weight: 3.5 pounds
• Average Customer Review: 4.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (28 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #745,295 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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133 of 135 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Don't think you'll need this? Think again., June 14, 1998

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This review is from: Emily Post's Etiquette (16th Edition) (Hardcover)

I have owned a current edition of Emily Post's Etiquette since I was in high school. In fact, I bought the 16th edition so quickly after it came out that I became the owner of a signed first edition and didn't realize it for almost a year. What a comfort to see new subjects addressed! It was high time for this revision. My mother was the first person to impress the importance of manners upon me. At first I thought what most people think - that the situations described in this book don't happen to most people. Once I had attended my first formal dinner, I sure was glad I knew what to do with all those glasses and pieces of silverware...after all, this was something my lower middle-class upbringing had not prepared me for. This is also a great reference for everyday occurrences, such as writing a thank-you note (there IS an art to this) and communicating with your boss. Every home should have one, so at least if an unfamiliar situation does crop up the tools to prepare for it are at your fingertips. If you think no one notices the nuances of behavior, you're wrong.

86 of 87 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars A manual for manners in this modern day and age..., February 24, 2001

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This review is from: Emily Post's Etiquette (16th Edition) (Hardcover)

I find this book to be a valuable tool to help navigate the often-complex world in which we live. It provides guidance in a whole host of areas, from gracious dining to the business world, from protocol for visiting the Pope to dealing with employees in your home. It covers a broad spectrum of situations, and helps to ensure that the right decisions are made, and that behavior is polite and proper.

The book is broken down into the following sections: Formalities; Your Personal Life; Your Professional Life; Communications; Travel & Tipping; Entertaining and Entertainments; Celebrations and Ceremonies; Gifts, Giving, & Thank-Yous; and Weddings. Each section offers tips and suggestions for making relations between you and others go as smoothly as possible. In this fast-paced world, we need manners more than ever, if only to ensure that life remains civilized, and this book helps determine the best way to proceed if you're unsure. All in all a wonderful reference for anyone who ever has to deal with another human being either socially or professionally. Don't hesitate, buy it!

149 of 157 people found the following review helpful:

3.0 out of 5 stars Watered down version of the real thing, October 3, 2000

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This review is from: Emily Post's Etiquette (16th Edition) (Hardcover)

While the 16th edition of Emily Post's etiquette continues to be the foremost authority on etiquette, Peggy Post has let things slide from its original heritage. I was disappointed enough to seek out an older edition ((c)1940) which I found used on the internet for less than the new edition. What's the difference you might ask? Being able to compare the two I can tell you that the most detailed and well explained traditions are cut and pasted from the original edition. The new parts on email, etc. are of little value. For example, don't write emails in CAPS, and don't use other peoples' computers without permission. Peggy Post has also interjected editorials on political correctness here and there which, regardless of one's political views, are out of place here. In discussing a courtesy as simple as a man holding a door for a lady, Peggy Post talks about how terrible it is that men think that women are too weak to hold open their own doors. But have no fear, she concludes after her diatribe, that a man should still hold a door for a lady. That said, for the most part, this is still the best you are going to find in current publication and it continues to be comprehensive and accurate.