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108 of 112 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Essential reading for all on a spiritual quest.
Looking back over the last 5,000 years, it appears to me that all religions have focused on the preservation of their own particular brand of cultural and social ethics under the name of religion and by and large have ignored the more important and universal spiritual ethics that underlie all religions. The same can be said of many New Age courses that have sprung up...
Published on November 16, 1999 by G.Evans

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3.0 out of 5 stars Good Book on Basic Ethics
I went to his gathering in Portland where he shared the contents of this book verbally in a distilled form. Much of the talk was identical to passages in the book. He recommends that the religions have tolerance and respect for each other. He shares an ethic that is fairly modern and shows how much he has changed since his earlier times. The message is very basic,...
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108 of 112 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Essential reading for all on a spiritual quest., November 16, 1999
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G.Evans (South Africa) - See all my reviews
Looking back over the last 5,000 years, it appears to me that all religions have focused on the preservation of their own particular brand of cultural and social ethics under the name of religion and by and large have ignored the more important and universal spiritual ethics that underlie all religions. The same can be said of many New Age courses that have sprung up like mushrooms all over the globe, where the emphasis appears to be more on gaining power and getting what you want out of life as opposed to an inner spiritual evolvement. This has bothered me for some time. However, reading the Dalai Lama's "Ethics for the New Millenium" was like a breath of fresh air and a home coming where I can rest my own inner beliefs which up until now, I have not found an example of in any other author. We teach our children dogma, we teach them ritual, we teach them salvation in one form or another, but do we ever teach them simple spiritual ethics, for example, don't steal. I don't mean the obvious, as in stealing someone else's possessions, I mean theft on a more personal scale, as in stealing somebody's time, somebody's energy by either moaning and bringing them down with our own sorry tales or getting other people to do things for us when we are too lazy to do it for oursleves. Or, in the name of frienship, inviting a whole lot of people to a dinner party, not because they are truly our friends, but because we ourselves are bored or want to look popular. It is to these inner disciplines that the Dalai Lama looks and it is about time too. If more people adopted the principles he advocates in this book, there might just be a chance for peace, both in the microcosm of the family unit and in the macrocosm of the world at large. The void, the emptiness that many societies try to fill with a hamburger, might instead be filled with inner serenity and confidence as opposed to frutration and depression.
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81 of 86 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars His Holiness' most powerful, cogent and compelling work yet, August 4, 1999
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Having read with great interest a lot of the Dalai Lama's other books, I found this one easily the most compelling. The language is simple and direct which has the effect of making some very complex ideas easy to understand. The Dalai Lama emerges as someone with a thorogoing understanding of human nature. But whereas his image is generally of someone who is limitlessly patient and benign, in this book he clearly shows that he has both depth and edge.

The Dalai Lama makes a very clear connection between human happiness and what he calls inner discipline. He also makes clear that it is not really meaningful to speak of compassion except in the context of self-restraint. This shows that Buddhism is much more than the feel-good religion it is sometimes taken for in the west. It also shows that Buddhist ethical thinking is much closer to traditional Judeao-Christian and even Catholic social teaching than one might suppose. In fact when this is taken on board it becomes much easier to understand the Dalai Lama's near insistence that people stick to the religious tradition of their own culture.

One of the most remarkable things about this book is his assertion that each of the major faith traditions are effective means of attaining human happiness. Stranger still for a major religious leader is his statement that, although religion is helpful, it is not actually essential if we are to be happy. What is essential is that we develop what he calls our basic human qualities. The first of these are love and compassion, but he also talks a lot about patience, tolerance, generosity and humility - each of which presuppose a degree of self discipline.

It is tempting to write the Dalai Lama off as an oddity - especially given the way he seems all too ready to cosy up to celebrities. But reading this book, you begin to get the feeling that there really is something going on inside his head. In none of his other books have I been able to detect the intelligence, the cogence and the incisiveness that is so obvious even through the sometimes mangled translations when you see him in the flesh.

As a would-be Catholic I can also say that the Dalai Lama's spiritual teachings are as relevant as any from within my own tradition. Is there any way the Pope could make him a Cardinal!?

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32 of 32 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Practical, Relevant, and Valuable, July 25, 2001

Every single person, and especially those with the power to harm others through their corporate or government roles, should read this book.

The Dalai Lama begins by recognizing that religion is no longer providing an ethical compass for the majority of us, and ends by recommending a world parliament of religions (just as some believe a world parliament of cultures is also needed to represents nations without states).

At it's most fundamental, this easy to read and very practical book is about obeying the Golden Rule--or a variation of the physician's rule, "first do no harm."

This is not a book for mantra lovers. At its most strategic level, the book focuses on the fact that the problems facing nation-states and entire societies cannot be solved in the absence of ethical restraint. Technology and law enforcement can address deviants in the minority, but not a majority that chooses deviance as a routine lifestyle.

This is the first book I have encountered in my religious reading that actively respects all other religions as well as personal ethical systems apart from religion. In essence, the Dalai Lama calls for each person to restore their spiritual base, either by honoring their chosen religion, or by adopting a personal ethical philosophy that is consistent with the generic teachings of various religions.

At a very personal level, as I read this book I saw clearly how my competitive and confrontational instincts, honed over a half century by a "dog eat dog" culture, have in fact hurt me and hurt others. I was reminded by this book that a Nobel Prize has been awarded to those showing that trust lowers the costs of business transactions--Fukiyama managed to get an entire book out of that one word. Reflecting on this book, and its measured discussion of how each of us simply seeks happiness and avoidance of suffering, caused me to reflect on how often each of us reduces the happiness of others and impose suffering through rudeness, harm by omission (not sharing useful information) and in other more aggressive ways.

On a global scale, and very consistent with other social science works on the complexity and inter-connectedness of the world, the book clearly addresses the urgent need for major world powers to understand that our existing life style and its damage to world resources is both unaffordable and suicidal. This book on ethics applies to Nations and to organizations, not just to individuals. It is a very elegant "dummy's guide to survival in the 21st Century."

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22 of 22 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Looking for some inner peace?, February 9, 2000
I love the way the Dalai Lama writes. "Ethics for a New Millennium" reads beautifully and quite accessibly. I did have to put the book down once in a while though to fully take in the implications of what the Dalai Lama has written. This book is about ethics which the Dalai Lama thinks are important for all humans in our wish and quest to be happy and to avoid suffering. The book is not about magical solutions or about Buddhism (no magic, no mystery, as he puts it). However, a number of Buddhist concepts are explained in the book, because it seems the Dalai Lama cannot find their exact equivalents in Western thought.

In the first chapter, the Dalai Lama critiques Western civilisation in the most lucid and convincing ways. He speaks of the anxiety, uncertainty, and frustration that plague Western people's minds and causes them to suffer mentally and emotionally even though they live in relative comfort and technological advance. To his mind, this gap between outer appearance and inner reality implies confusion regarding morality and what it constitutes.

The Dalai Lama does not dispute the importance of Scientific enquiry but if we were to go to a nuclear physicist, he says, and say: "I am facing a moral dilemma, what should I do?", he or she would suggest we look elsewhere for an answer. Science is unable to tell us how we ought to act in a moral sense.

The Dalai Lama calls for a spiritual revolution. The essence of this spiritual call is acting out of concern for the well-being of others. But it also entails changing ourselves so that we become more readily disposed to do so. Thus, in essence, he calls for compassion, a lot of it. But why? Why should I become compassionate? Because by becoming so, I become more at peace with myself, happier, less prone to suffering. However, it is not easy to become compassionate overnight. So, he recommends a number of ethics that can help us so that we become more readily disposed to show compassion.

The first ethic is Restraint; and to put this quite vividly, I shall use an example he gave: the undisciplined mind is like an elephant! If left to blunder around without control, it will wreak havoc. But the best description was that if we do not restrain our selfish, negative thoughts, we effectively alienate ourselves from ourselves!

The second ethic is Virtue; this is quite simply really. Just give lots of love, be patient and tolerant, forgive, and be humble! That's all. No seriously, there are a couple of tips to help you do that.

The third ethic is Compassion. This is a kind of motivational goal; a higher spiritual state in which compassion arises without any effort, is unconditional, undifferentiated, and universal in scope.

The book extends to beyond these three ethics to societal ethics, and it also contains a chapter on Peace and Disarmament. Also, the early part of the book dwells on the nature of our consciousness.

This is the first book I have read by the Dalai Lama and is probably not going to be the last. If you're searching for some inner peace, I certainly don't think this book would harm it. But try not to read it all in one go!

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37 of 40 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars An extremely important book that should be widely read, February 20, 2000
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Buckeye (Harvard, MA USA) - See all my reviews
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Those familiar with the Dalai Lama's writings will see much that is familiar here. The concept and practice of compassion is presented as the foundation of ethics, and there is a great deal of discussion of how to implement a compassionate (and therefore ethical) lifestyle. However, this book should be very carefully read because there is a lot more to it than that.

It is easy, given the Dalai Lama's easy, conversational style of writing, to miss some very, very important concepts. Nearly every page of this book offers a startling insight - but you have to take your time, slow down, and notice what is being said. It is well worth the time.

One critical point is raised in the book that I wish had been explored in greater detail. The Dalai Lama expresses the opinion that the dominant culture of "unlimited economic growth" is a serious problem for all of us, both on a personal and societal level. Unfortunately, the unlimited economic growth model is something that is rarely, if ever, questioned today. Companies make money, and so do their shareholders, by growing - by selling more cars, more oil, more land, more whatever than they did last quarter. If they don't, the stock price goes down and heads roll. The problems with this economic model are so obvious in terms of the damage it inflicts on the planet and us as its inhabitants - yet we seem unable to even recognize it as a problem.

This book deals with serious problems. It forces us to look at our assumptions and behaviors as individuals and as a society. Yet it does so in a way that is ultimately hopeful - the Dalai Lama is apparently a born optimist. And I would feel a lot more optimistic myself if only there was more than one of him.

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28 of 30 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars My god and Your god are equal, November 11, 1999
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This book has plenty to offer in a material world. The most important is that people have to knock off the my god is better than your god nonsense. If you cant't fathom the edge of the universe it isn't likely you can fathom god. But read this book then read Tears of Blood / A Cry for Tibet by Mary Craig...Then Get your self on line with savetibet.org or call 1-888-tibet now and understand the entire struggle of this david against the most brutal goliath the world has ever known. The best part about the Dalai Lama as David is that he doesn't even use a sling shot only truth and honesty to win his battle.
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16 of 16 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars Ever Suckers, April 14, 2000
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Rather like dancing in a new club to strange music you've always avoided, there is always a bit of shame involved in coming to terms with yourself. And it's almost a cliche that this is what Eastern Philosophy does to us out here in the West.

Nevertheless, within 30 pages, the Dalai Lama has created with precise and accessible language, a framework for understanding those things that seem ever to torment us: the divide between religion and spirituality, the mystery of causation and existence, the quandries of material progress and scientific achievement amid depression, stress and anxiety. You'd hardly believe such things could be negotiated so quickly and effortlessly, but that is a Western sucker's bet, and this genius of a man has done that and so much more.

I hesitate to give any further clues as to what he writes so clearly. Yet I can assure you that upon completing this book you will feel so much more a part of the world of humanity, that you might even be ashamed at your previous distance. That sounds hokey, for sure. But then isn't there always something reassuring about the hokey?

I loved this book. Now I feel like going out and dancing with strangers.

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19 of 20 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Honesty and simplicity to calm the racing mind., June 11, 2001
By A Customer
Don't let the simplicity of this book overshadow the power of its message: "When the driving force of our actions is wholesome, our actions will tend automatically to contribute to others' well-being. They will thus automatically be ethical." With the courage to point out that religion is not a requirement for ethical behavior, the Dalai Dama discusses virtue, compassion, and our spiritual connection to the world. He does so as a simple and honest man without holding himself as holier than anyone else. Describing how humans can make a constructive difference on the planet, he appeals to people to tap their highest potential and to go for their personal goodness, despite the social currents that discourage one from doing so.

This is a book about discovering your ethics rather than just acting out cultural norms. If you appreciate simplicity of style and communication based on real substance, allow me to also recommend "WORKING ON YOURSELF DOESN'T WORK" by Ariel and Shya Kane. In an age of widespread doubt, these two books are refreshing reminders that the principles underlying a fulfilling life are both simple and practical.

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19 of 21 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars An uplifting, intellectual work, January 30, 2000
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ivorynetsuke (Jacksonville, FL USA) - See all my reviews
This is only the second book I have read by His Holiness, the Dalai Lama, and I could not put this one down! While it is recognized that what is being discussed in this book is really nothing new, the Dalai Lama has presented the ideas in such a way as to make them seem new. And yes, while the book does contain a Buddhist flavor despite the attempt to stay away from any particular religious thought, one still should applaud the effort. And that is another item that makes this book so refreshing - the ability to discuss spiritual (not religious) and/or ethical concepts without the narrow-minded approach of My-Way-Is-The-Only-Way.

I think that this presentation is especially important for US culture. We need to get away from the self-centered "Me" way of thinking, and move towards "We." To stop being so selfish and start taking other people into account. You don't need a bible or someone shouting from a pulpit to tell you how to be kind and giving. It's a part of our human nature, and it's a bit of common sense thinking.

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11 of 11 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars The discipline of a practical spirituality, April 3, 2000
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Marianne Knuth (Copenhagen, Denmark) - See all my reviews
The Dalai Lama proposes a spiritual revolution. This I found interesting. I found even more interesting his definition of spiritual: "Thus spiritual practice involves, on the one hand, acting out of concern for others' well-being. On the other, it entails transforming ourselves so that we become more readily disposed to do so."

The Dalai Lama points to a neglect of our "inner dimension" as the fundamental cause of the disharmony of our societies. And so this book, and his call for a spiritual revolution, is a "call for a radical reorientation away from our habitual preoccupation with self. It is a call to turn toward the wider community of beings with whom we are connected, and for conduct which recognises others' interests alongside our own." He is not claiming that all we need to do is to cultivate spiritual values and then these societal problems will automatically disappear. He acknowledges the need for specific solutions to each of our problems, but "when this spiritual dimension is neglected, we have no hope of achieving a lasting solution"

Reading his wisdom and his clarity on matters that I intuit, but can't speak of with such certainty, brought a sense of relief and peace. It is an easy read, in the sense that his language is simple and clear, but it is tough in that he reminds us of the discipline and commitment it takes to develop our character and disposition to act out of concern for others, and make the rest of our life as meaningful as possible.

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