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Even June Cleaver Would Forget the Juice Box: Cut Yourself Some Slack (and Still Raise Great Kids) in the Age of Extreme Parenting
 
 
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Even June Cleaver Would Forget the Juice Box: Cut Yourself Some Slack (and Still Raise Great Kids) in the Age of Extreme Parenting [Paperback]

Ann L. Dunnewold (Author), Sandi Kahn Shelton (Foreword)
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April 1, 2007

'Perfectionism is the arch enemy of mothers everywhere. Dr. Dunnewold gives us a wise and user-friendly book that helps us to say 'Enough!' to non-productive guilty, worry, and self-doubt--and 'Yes!' to the simple ways we can learn to take better care of ourselves and our kids.'

Harriet Lerner, Ph.D., author of The Dance of Anger and The Mother Dance

'A reality check for parents, loaded with sensible advice and useful mantras, this book shows how jumping off the runaway train of Perfect Parenting is not only better for you, but teaches your child valuable lessons about real people living real lives. We're doing a Perfectly Good Job, and we are not alone!'

Christie Mellor , author of The Three-Martini Playdate and

The Three-Martini Family Vacation

"Finally, a book for mothers that does not blame or judge, but offers insight, guidance, and a healthy dose of compassion."

Andrea J. Buchanan , author of Mother Shock

Your Exit Strategy from the Pressure Cooker of Perfect Parenting

So . . . you missed T-ball tryouts, forgot to buy allergy-free organic snacks for today's playdate, got wait-listed for the top preschool, and now you feel like the worst mother in the world . . . again. Millions of moms are drowning in the pressure cooker of modern momhood and want out of the race. The good news: Your exit strategy has arrived.

If you're feeling overstressed, overtired, or overscheduled, noted psychologist Ann Dunnewold can help you rewrite the rules of motherhood by introducing a new, healthier paradigm--one that replaces the dysfunctional myth of the June Cleaver mom. Dr . Dunnewold will teach you:

  • How to follow your gut, not guilt; rely on your values instead of unrealistic expectations
  • To start connecting instead of competing with other moms
  • How to stop your tendency to 'overperfect,' 'overprotect,' or 'overproduce'
  • The 9 Dirty Secrets of Motherhood and why they're perfectly normal!

Even June Cleaver Would Forget the Juice Box finally gives you the green light and the guidance to cut yourself--and your family--some much-needed slack. Imperfect parents rejoice!


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Psychologist Dunnewold (The Postpartum Survival Guide) is an expert on postpartum depression, but her latest work focuses on the long-range blues that follow when moms engage in "extreme parenting." According to Dunnewold, society's current parenting standards are "preposterous," and the result is mothers (and more than a few dads) who are driven by anxiety and self-blame. Dunnewold argues that many contemporary mothers "over perfect, over protect and over produce," running themselves ragged and judging themselves too harshly. She suggests a new parenting paradigm, in which mothers learn to let go of the quest for perfection and accept being "perfectly good." The author shows mothers how to replace internal monologues of self-criticism with positive mantras (e.g., "There are no perfect mothers") and coaches moms to aim for a realistic balance (somewhere between June and Roseanne). While Dunnewold tends to quote too heavily from other books and mainstream magazine articles, she's at her best when she coins her own conclusions: "June Cleaver never played reasoning games with Wally to increase his problem-solving skills, or arranged playdates for Beaver." With a no-nonsense approach, Dunnewold validates a mother's choice to set her own standards and be "the mother she wants to be," warts and all. (Apr.)
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About the Author

Ann Dunnewold, Ph.D., is a licensed psychologist who specializes in the issues of women and mothers today. She is a nationally recognized expert on postpartum depression and anxiety, and has appeared on the Today Show and in national magazines such as Fit Pregnancy, Parents and Dallas Child. Dr. Dunnewold has appeared as a consultant in two videos produced by Family Experience Productions, both of which air in hospital systems over the Lamaze/Newborn Channel. The author is a mother of two nearly grown daughters and has survived the endless push to perfection in parenting.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 224 pages
  • Publisher: HCI (April 1, 2007)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0757305466
  • ISBN-13: 978-0757305467
  • Product Dimensions: 8.5 x 7 x 0.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 12.8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (10 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #836,035 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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5.0 out of 5 stars You Really Are a Good Mom, May 7, 2007
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Mothers with children of any age need to read Dr. Dunnewold's book. Based on a sensible approach to mothering, she points out the degree to which many moms (and dads) today get caught up in the competitive parenting trap. Calm and comforting in tone, she gives simple, doable suggestions that will help keep parents from being caught up in the competitive parenting Olympics while showing how to remain true to one's own self. She validates moms who bring their own strengths to parenting while acknowledging we all have our own little "nutty" piece as well. Realistic and reassuring with funny anecdotes and excellent advice, this book is a much needed one for moms today.
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6 of 6 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Finally validation! The only resource out there!, July 5, 2007
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FINALLY, a resource to tell moms "HOW to quit worrying"!
It tells you that as a mother, you are already doing a good job. And, further, that the idea of measuring up isn't possible, because the current standard for parenting is not humanly possible. Dunnewold tells us to quit second guessing our decisions and feel comfortable with our choices. We are doing the best we can for our children. Thank you! Ann Dunnewold......we have all needed this resource and it is the only one out there that validates us as women and mothers!
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6 of 6 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars At last! - Not just what to do, but how to do it!, June 29, 2007
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Ann Dunnewold has done it again - with truly useful tools to help eliminate the superficial pressures of parenting and focus on what's really important for both mother (and dad) and child. Raising kids in the artificial world we live in is difficult enough. Thanks, Dr. Dunnewold for guidance in authentic parenting without guilt!
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