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Product Details

  • Paperback: 240 pages
  • Publisher: Sourcebooks Casablanca (October 4, 2011)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1402254490
  • ISBN-13: 978-1402254499
  • Product Dimensions: 7.1 x 5.2 x 0.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 6.4 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.1 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (11 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #794,473 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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If you read it through and still come away in any doubt as to how amazing both Romance Novels and the people of the Romance Community truly are, then I do believe your heart and soul and possibly brain may be made of stone. And, if that is the case, then you are in most desperate need of reading one of the books Sarah uses as examples throughout the book.

Winning, entertaining and highly persuasive... Fans of the romance genre are likely to come away feeling vindicated; newcomers may be inspired to pick up a few new paperbacks with racy covers

A joyous celebration of those novels we all love to read, romances.

If you ever had anyone sneer at you when you say you read romance novels, this is a book you should whip out and start quoting from.

As a reader and a writer, I think this is a must read...

A pleasure to read... It promote[s] the positive elements of romance books.

This little book packs a wallop of laughs, spews smart sarcastic rhetoric with sound advise - add to that creative longings to make us dream, and mullets for years to come.

Ra-ra-romance!

There's a strong argument here that the genre helps readers identify and articulate needs and feelings they already have, as they notice what kinds of books and heroes they gravitate toward.

A humorous yet poignant guide to romance, both the highs and lows... a whole lot of fun that ended way too quickly.

Wendell's book is an irreverent celebration of the romance genre and the women who write it and read it.

A smart, fun exploration of romance novels ... if you know anyone who is dismissive of romance and needs to be convinced of its awesomeness, give him or her this book. I think it could change some minds.

Wendell will make you laugh while reprimanding you and shock the socks right off your feet, all with a smile and a no-nonsense manner.

[Wendell] opens your eyes by connecting romance with everyday life.

Don't you love it when a book reinforces what you already believe?

A delightful read... humorous and entertaining.

I realized how much romance novels have played and continue to play an important role in helping me and my husband with our relationship... funny and thoughtful.

A fun and insightful look at why romance novels are so popular and have been for decades and how readers can benefit from reading them.

A great tribute to romance readers and the genre...

Witty, funny, and utterly entertaining...

Filled with short, amusing topics that are lighthearted, insightful and take a look at how romance books have affected readers.

[Wendell] talks at length about applying the lessons of romance to that real life and enriching it – not to mention, entertaining yourself in the bargain.

Romance novels have come a long way from the "bodice rippers" people scorn when they think of romances. There just might be valuable lessons for everyone in Sarah Wendell's Everything I Know About Love I Learned from Romance Novels.

Make that person who's been harping at you about your romance novels read this book. Maybe they'll get something out of it and start reading them too!

More than just a passionate defense of romance novels, EIKAL is also a witty, racy, humorous read that does not hesitate to make fun of the stereotypes in the romance genre...

A fast paced and enjoyable read. It was nice to see a book that builds woman up not tear them down because of what they read

An entertaining book...

About the Author

Sarah Wendell's day job involves a cloak, and possibly a dagger, but by night she's the cofounder of the influential romance blog SmartBitchesTrashyBooks.com. She lives in Montclair, New Jersey, with her husband and two children.


More About the Author

Sarah Wendell is co-author of the book, Beyond Heaving Bosoms: The Smart Bitches' Guide to Romance Novels, and co-founder of Smart Bitches Trashy Books.com, one of the most popular blogs examining romance fiction. The site specializes in reviewing romance novels, pondering the history and future of the genre in digital form and in print, and bemoaning the enormous prevalence of bodacious pectorals adorning male cover models. Sarah can be found at smartbitchestrashybooks.com, or via Twitter at @smartbitches.

Customer Reviews

I am so grateful that Sarah Wendell wrote this book!
A. P. Quinty
I would recommend this book highly to anyone who is interested as to WHY they read romance novels vs. science fiction or another gendre.
T. Taylor
Sarah uses some great real-life examples to illustrate her points.
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8 of 8 people found the following review helpful By Ellen Olenska on December 2, 2011
Format: Paperback
I've randomly picked up a romance here or there but don't qualify as a strong romance reader, but have read fiction all my life. However, having said that, I LOVED this book, it's witty and on the money on why we love to escape in fiction. The "rules" that Sarah lays out resonated and even being unfamiliar with many of the titles she cites, I could instantly see what she was trying to share. And now I'm buying some of the books she mentioned, she certainly has opened my eyes a bit.

I loved it, it gave me a whole new appreciation for the genre.
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6 of 6 people found the following review helpful By S. Wright on December 6, 2011
Format: Paperback
I wasn't quite sure what to expect from Everything I Know About Love I Learned from Romance Novels (henceforth known as EIKAL), since I'm not a large nonfiction reader. However, I was pleasantly surprised.

EIKAL is filled with short, amusing topics that are light-hearted, insightful and take a look at how romance books have affected readers. Topics such as: We Know More Than a Few Good Men, We Know What Not to Want, We Know Good Sex and We Know How to Ask for What we Want share reader's and author's real life experiences about each of the topics. These stories are wonderful and it was nice to hear from some of my favorite authors.

The lesson that resonated the most with me, was the one that direct communication and problem solving is essential for a solid relationship foundation. So often in romance novels we watch events unfold where the hero and heroine could have sorted the whole disastrous situation out if that had stopped to communicate with the other person. Another favorite was that romance novels give us a safe place to explore how we want to want to approach life: what kind of relationships we want, what we want out of sex, and how to go about asking for those things.

Overall, if you are a romance fanatic, then this is a book you should add to your reading list. It is very short, much shorter than the 222 pages listed, mainly due to the reiteration of text quotes in block quote boxes. that was probably my only issue with the book and it lost a star for the overuse of them.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful By Zabeth Marsh (book, tv and movie reviewer) on March 4, 2012
Format: Paperback
All good stories involve strong emotion; such as love. For that reason, every author can learn how to put emotion and caring between characters into their novels by reading and learning from romance novels. Sarah Wendell, the well-known co-founder of SmartBitchesTrashyBooks.com, has put down her reasons for why people should stop criticizing the romance genre and start to learn from it in Everything I Know about Love I Learned from Romance Novels. And her points are very compelling.

Romance Lessons from The Wizard of Oz

Wendell brings together popular romance authors and readers of romance to comment on the genre and what it means to them. She is a smart woman! The first reason every writer should pick up a copy of this book is to read Loretta Chase's letter explaining how her rules for romance character traits are illustrated in the classic movie, The Wizard of Oz. Most of us do not think of Oz as a romance story. However Chase shows us that each of the Oz characters has traits that are also found in a classic romance hero. Romance novels do not just jump into love and marriage. The heroine and hero must go through a journey of discovery about themselves, their relationship, and what love means. That is what makes a good romance read. And Oz is in fact a story about a journey of discovery. About leaving what you know to discover something more about yourself and those around you.

Reading Wendell (and Chase), you understand that characters who do not grow during the story are not interesting to read. One dimensional characters do not provide depth in a story.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful By Clio Reads on January 2, 2014
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I love Sarah Wendell's blog (Smart Bitches Trashy Books) and her podcast with Jane Litte of Dear Author (DBSA Podcast), and I really really loved Beyond Heaving Bosoms: The Smart Bitches Guide to Romance Novels, which is both smart and uproariously funny. So, I was very excited when I found a used copy of Everything I Know about Love for pennies, and I liked this book, but didn't love it. I think the problem is that having already followed Wendell's blog and podcast and twitter and read her prior book, I'd heard all of this before, so it didn't feel fresh. Also, this is almost a self-help book (though humorous), which I wasn't really expecting, and which isn't really my cuppa.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful By L. S. Tucker on September 28, 2013
Format: Paperback
This is a great defense of romantic fiction that talks about how the books can help, educate and encourage the readers.

Despite what people who don't read romance books claim, it isn't all about porn and the mighty wang and the magic hoo-hoo. It is about communication. It's learning what to expect in a relationship and how to get it. It is what to be wary of and how to recognize what you don't want.

Romance books can teach you what turns you on and what turns you off. The more erotic books can even help you discover your kinks or whether you don't have any at all.

Readers and writers chime in to give their own opinions and personal experiences. And, as always, Sarah lends her own personal brand of humor to keep things from getting too analytical. If the name is familiar, but you can't place the name, think Smart Bitches, Trashy Books.

I was lucky enough to score this ARC (Advanced Reading Copy) and loved it. I would recommend it to anyone who loves to read romance, hates defending it, but also know that there is more to it than HEA (Happily Ever After). For many readers, it is the journey, not just the destination. A good 4 out of 5.
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