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Extraordinary Relationships: A New Way of Thinking About Human Interactions [Paperback]

Roberta M. Gilbert , Roberta Gilbert
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December 6, 1992 047134690X 978-0471346906 1
Turn any Relationship into an Extraordinary Relationship "A refreshing alternative to common self-help approaches." --Michael E. Kerr, M.D., Director, Georgetown Family Center, Washington, D.C. and coauthor with Dr. Murray Bowen of Family Evaluation After food, water, and shelter, relationships are the most important factors in determining your quality of life. At work, productivity and efficiency depend on relationships. At home, relationships with your spouse, children, and friends are keys to success and happiness. And among nations, relationships start and stop wars. This invaluable guide shows that only by further developing yourself can you further develop your relationships. Based on the innovative family systems theory pioneered by the late Dr. Murray Bowen, this important and penetrating book offers practical and authoritative family therapy advice that has helped thousands of people throughout the last three decades. It's a blueprint to better relationships that tells how the principles of family systems theory can be used in all arenas of your life, including intimate relationships, friendships, family relationships, single life, workplace relationships, international relationships, and your relationship with yourself. "A perfect and unpretentious primer of family relationships . a relief to read." --Dr. Walter Toman, Professor Emeritus, Erlangen-Nurnberg University, Germany, and author of Family Constellation

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Turn any Relationship into an Extraordinary Relationship "A refreshing alternative to common self-help approaches." —Michael E. Kerr, M.D., Director, Georgetown Family Center, Washington, D.C. and coauthor with Dr. Murray Bowen of Family Evaluation After food, water, and shelter, relationships are the most important factors in determining your quality of life. At work, productivity and efficiency depend on relationships. At home, relationships with your spouse, children, and friends are keys to success and happiness. And among nations, relationships start and stop wars. This invaluable guide shows that only by further developing yourself can you further develop your relationships. Based on the innovative family systems theory pioneered by the late Dr. Murray Bowen, this important and penetrating book offers practical and authoritative family therapy advice that has helped thousands of people throughout the last three decades. It’s a blueprint to better relationships that tells how the principles of family systems theory can be used in all arenas of your life, including intimate relationships, friendships, family relationships, single life, workplace relationships, international relationships, and your relationship with yourself. "A perfect and unpretentious primer of family relationships … a relief to read." —Dr. Walter Toman, Professor Emeritus, Erlangen-Nürnberg University, Germany, and author of Family Constellation

About the Author

Roberta Gilbert, M.D., is a psychiatrist in private practice and on the faculty of the Georgetown Family Center. She is also a consultant to therapists for case supervision at the Arlington Mental Health Center, Arlington, Virginia.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 206 pages
  • Publisher: Wiley; 1 edition (December 6, 1992)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 047134690X
  • ISBN-13: 978-0471346906
  • Product Dimensions: 7.1 x 0.7 x 9 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 9.6 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.2 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (38 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #27,929 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Dr. Gilbert is a psychiatrist whose special interest is Bowen family systems theory and its extensions and applications to individuals, families, and organizations. She is the founding director of the Center for the Study of Human Systems and is on the faculty of the Bowen Center for the Study of the Family (formerly Georgetown Family Center). She is a life fellow of the American Psychiatric Association.

Dr. Gilbert is the author of five books that deal with applying Bowen theory to life. The first book, Extraordinary Relationships, published in 1992 by John Wiley & Sons, grew out of her work with families and individuals. Her second book, Connecting with Our Children, published in 1999 by John Wiley & Sons, is a story of the principles of Bowen family systems theory for parents. Both books have received wide acclaim. Her newest books, The Eight Concepts of Bowen Theory; Extraordinary Leadership: Thinking Systems, Making a Difference; and The Cornerstone Concept: In Leadership, In Life were written as texts for the Extraordinary Leadership Seminar.

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The book enjoys good organization. Israel Galindo  |  7 reviewers made a similar statement
This book gives an explanation of Bowen's family system theory. Dani  |  6 reviewers made a similar statement
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39 of 40 people found the following review helpful
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This book presents in easily understandable form the Bowen family system theory approach to human interaction. This is a "systems" approach to better relationships in which eight carefully researched principles show how groups of individuals, such as a nuclear family, interact and what governs those interactions. Rather than present a few "how to" examples, the author presents the theory and uses examples in the process of explaining the theory. The idea is to teach the principles. By understanding these principles and how individuals interact as a system, people can improve their own lives and better understand how to resolve or avoid problems in families and groups of people by understanding and treating the underlying causes rather than the superficial symptoms. The book is very well written by the author who is a practicing psychiatrist and specialist in family therapy and, in particular, in Bowen family system theory. Highly recommended for parents, leaders in organizations, and those in the helping professions.
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This book was a revelation. Finally an approach which doesn't place blame and encourages individuals to take responsibility for themselves without blaming others. Relationships can only get better if you become your own, whole person first. This theory applies not only to the relationships in ones own family but for all interpersonal relationships. This theory is obviously not well accepted within the psychology/psychiatry community. I wish my therapist had discussed this process.
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37 of 39 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars A first choice June 22, 2000
Format:Paperback
Whenever I'm asked to recommend a book on systems theory, I suggest Gilbert's book. She does an excellent job of accurately covering the theory, but an added bonus is her clear writing style, which makes often difficult concepts easier to digest. The book enjoys good organization. A good first choice for anyone needing an introduction to Bowen Family Systems Theory that focuses on relationships.
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4.0 out of 5 stars Very technical, but good info
I bought this book because I was going to volunteer with a workshop on the topic. Still reading the book. Very intense info. Read more
Published 26 days ago by Deeds-n-VA
4.0 out of 5 stars Recommended by a thrapist
This is a somewhat difficult read but the information is terrific. It has been most helpful to me and I highly reccomend it if you are struggling with depression or anxiety. Read more
Published 2 months ago by Janet L. Landry
5.0 out of 5 stars elegant and useful
Roberta Gilbert succinctly writes about human relationships as systems. Systems through which we are inexorably linked to others and within which she provides a clear framework... Read more
Published 2 months ago by J. P. Brown
4.0 out of 5 stars Excellent Book With Good Insights
Though the book is entirely written from a secular perspective; it is a good observation and summary conclusion approach which is very enlightening on the whole family systems... Read more
Published 2 months ago by E. Dye
5.0 out of 5 stars Extraordinary Relationhips: A new way of thinking about Human...
Gilbert has broken the mold here in terms of capturing the essence of Bowen theory and its application. Read more
Published 4 months ago by Karen Eve Pfotzer
5.0 out of 5 stars great information about the Bowen Family Systems Theory
If you are open to change, learning about and applying this theory to your family and workplace will change your life..
Published 5 months ago by Michelle Walters
4.0 out of 5 stars Works for m
A lot of what this book has to say made sense to me. It has meaning to me and I could follow the advice it provides. Read more
Published 5 months ago by Curtis
4.0 out of 5 stars Loaded with Information
Roberta Gilbert's overview of Murray Bowen's Family Systems Theory is a thorough introduction on how we build individuality through constant interaction. Read more
Published 7 months ago by Carl K.
2.0 out of 5 stars Needs editing
We adopted this reading in our psychology book club and this is the summary of opinions collected so far:
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* The theoretical concepts of this book are interesting... Read more
Published 13 months ago by Makon Fardis
5.0 out of 5 stars This is amazing.
This works. This makes so much sense. So much psychology is based on guessing, intuition and myths. This is science. Read more
Published 23 months ago by E. Kominowski
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