A vivid and poignant portrait of a daughter's relationship with her father, this funny, heartbreaking, and beautifully written memoir "makes plain that the horror of war doesn't end in the trenches" (Vanity Fair).
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The Trussoni family of Onalaska, Wisconsin, is famous for bar fights and not much else. Daniel is a thug like his brothers, all of whom pride themselves on being tough guys who might just be mobbed up, although there is no proof of that.
Trussoni Thanksgivings were like boxing matches. There was sure to be a rumble on the front lawn of my grandparents' house and a rematch at the tavern down the street... A little blood before dinner was what aperitifs were to other families.
In this atmosphere, Danielle, her sister Kelly, and her brother Matt are trying to raise themselves, or just stay out of the way. After getting a job and some sense of self, Mom takes on a boyfriend and asks Dad to leave. According to Danielle, Dad is pretty broken up about the departure, so she goes to live with him and is treated to a steady round of women callers. The other two children stay with their Mom. Most evenings, Daniel takes Danielle to Roscoe's, the neighborhood tavern, where she sits and watches him get drunk and tell his Vietnam stories. Over and over again. Every so often, he forgets her and she has to make her own way home.
Danielle is endlessly forgiving of this case-hardened vet who is relentlessly mean, paranoid and petty. He is a prototype of the guy who came home and didn't know why he was a survivor. Trussoni has captured the essence of being in bloody battle one day and home the next, and then trying to make sense of it all.
Alternating chapters tell of her father's time in Vietnam, her own journey there, and their messy lives--starting with the divorce and continuing until her adulthood. Family secrets are revealed; Danielle realizes that her mother was not the only person at fault in the breakup of the marriage and that her defense of her father was not always appropriate.
She is finally able to say, after writing him a letter outlining her grievances, "I wanted you to know I was hurt by the way I grew up. ...I wanted you to know how hard I've tried to get through to you, how much work it has been for me." There has never been a daughter more loyal than Danielle Trussoni. --Valerie Ryan --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.
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60 of 65 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
Is it true - from Danielles' Uncle,
This review is from: Falling Through the Earth: A Memoir (Hardcover)
I have read several of the reviews both good and bad shown here; I have also followed some of the critical reviews in the various press encapcilations. Some make me laugh at their lack of real relevance to what a memoir is meant to be in literal construction. Others seem to "hit the nail on the head" as we say in Wisconsin,(both critical and in praise). Still others; like the person who stated they were "so mad they simply could not finish it and they want their money back." Too that person, whats your address? I think I will send you a check for clinical evaluation along with the refund; get a grip for Gods sake, or maybe cut back on the number of cups of coffee you drink.
Like all others I purchased the book from Amazon.com like anyone else. No, she didn't send me a autographed copy embellished with lots of little niceties. I can assure any reader that the memoir is based entirely on fact! Sadly true, my brother, who had been his younger siblings closest mentor and confidant prior to his departure for Viet Nam, returned nothing like that person I loved.Poetic licenses, perhaps in some cases; I was not kept from the army becuase I was gay, but becuase My "Mom" convinced me to join the Seminary (at 17 years old) in concern for the four sons already in Viet Nam. A situation she managed to correct, incidently, through the lobby of her childhood friend who had become a Congessman. While most of my family (her Fathers brothers and sisters)find the book "un-kind" and disturbing; frankly, I find it "mild" in comparison to what she could have added into the "Memoir" but did not for our sakes. I thank her for that but I won't be nearly so protective in my book (which I have been writing for nine years). No, I don't have a book deal and no this is not written to "polish any publishers apple" to get one. Its' merely written to verify the foundation of what Danielle' has written. Honestly, and very sadly, knowing the circumstances of her childhood; without any preponderance of doubt,(now that her Father has died),I find the book very difficult to read without breaking down and sobbing due to its authenticity. She is a young lady I'am very proud to call my Niece and a girl that has worked extremely hard to spare my families feelings while accomplishing her goals. Just a young girl that grew into a woman admiring a man beset with the many "Demons" he could not over come too give her the love she constantly hoped for! Upon his death last month, it appears that longing will never be fullfilled. Thank You! Patrick Trussoni
28 of 28 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars
If you don't like memoirs, don't read the book..simple as that.,
By book.of.the.moment "reviewer" (Maine, USA) - See all my reviews
This review is from: Falling Through the Earth: A Memoir (Hardcover)
I'm not going to go into a lot of detail regarding the plot of this book, because others before me have done that for you. What I'm here to do is clarify. One person wrote in their review that they're upset that the author is "so into herself" and the book wasn't about war. Um, go back to school and learn the meaning of the word "memoir" before you go buying another book and trashing it unjustly. The book IS a memoir. It's the author's perception of her own life. Of COURSE she focuses the book on herself. That's the point. The book is not "chick lit masquerading as a commentation on war" or whatever it was that reviewer called it. It's the story of a girl's life, growing up with a Vietnam Vet for a father. It never promised to be about war specifically.
My opinion? It's beautiful. It's raw and honest and makes the reader compelled to keep reading. I didn't find the narrator unlikable at all. On the contrary, I found her vulnerable and sincere. I think that Danielle Trussoni did a wonderful job with this book, and I'm sorry that others felt the need to post their uninformed reviews. ~Book.of.the.moment
30 of 31 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
A beautifully written memoir by the daughter of a Vietnam Vet,
By Adrift in Suburbia (Connecticut) - See all my reviews
This review is from: Falling Through the Earth: A Memoir (Hardcover)
Danielle Trussoni's beautifully written memoir tells what it was like growing up with a father haunted by the ghosts of the Vietnam war. When she was twelve years old and her parents got divorced, the author moved in with her father across town, while her brother and sister stayed behind. Suffering from post-traumatic stress, her father was barely able to take care of himself, let alone a 12 year old daughter. He spends most of his free time at the local bar, his daughter seated on the stool beside him, telling her about his war exploits, occasionally engaging in brawls.
Part of the strength of this book is its gorgeous prose. Of the women that her father brought home from the bar, the author writes: "They were a special breed, the kind with fire in their eyes and silver caps on their teeth. None were beautiful or solvent." Whether a particular war is just or unjust, the aftereffects are the same: the experience of battle does not go away quickly. This memoir, beautifully written, honestly rendered, shows how war reverberates through the families of the survivors: the failed marriages, scarred children, misdirected lives.
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