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A Family of Choice: A Gay Man's Story of International Adoption

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A heartfelt, powerful, and honest portrayal of the trials and rewards of Paul's story of adoption. You feel for him as a person longing to be a father and rejoice with him when his dream of a family comes true. This is a book that proves that a person's sexuality, religion, or even gender should not be judged but rather their personality, determination, and ability to love their future children. As someone who knows Paul personally, I have seen his love for his two sons and the brilliant and radiant family that they have become. Paul is truly an amazing writer and an amazing father. I'm extraordinarily proud to say that I know Paul and to be a part of his life. He is someone who I can look up to, take advice from, and know that he will support his family and friends unconditionally. This book is Paul's story but it is important for everyone to read and understand what he has to say.

When Paul asked me to read his book, I was truly honored and touched. I had no idea what to expect from the first page of this book, to the very last page and couldn't put it down. Although Paul tells his story as a gay man, this story is really about his quest to be a parent, and the amazing support he received from friends and family, despite the obstacles. My favorite part was when he walked into the Ukraine orphanage and little Paul and Andrew literally chose big Paul. If anyone ever has the opportunity to meet Paul and see his interaction with the boys, you can see firsthand the dedication and unconditional love they have toward each other.

For me, this book is not about Paul's sexuality, but Paul's commitment to being the best parent he can be to little Paul and Andrew. As anyone who is a parent knows, parenthood is the hardest and most gratifying journey of all, with no beginning and no ending. They are lucky to have found each other, and the boys are lucky to have a father that wouldn't give up.

A first hand account of a very special international life adventure in search of Paul and Dom's family. Engaging, a world away, the writer places the reader in the roller coaster of emotion which is foreign adoption. One single minded person does accomplish his goal with the help of a respected dedicated team, moving seemingly immovable objects in Ukraine, a new developing democracy. Seems the former soviet officials have simply changed the name plates on the door of the government adoption offices and remained in place with new titles but hard old tactics. The kindness and caring of Ukraine people comes through clearly. The cultural bridges crossed throughout provided entertaining reading. Nice result!

Relentless Dedication On A Journey Of Love, Passion, And Reality.

This Book Shares Not Only One Mans Dreams. But The Results Of What Is Possible For All Those Who Follow In His Foot Steps.

Paul Sets An Incredible Example In This Book Of What Is Possible

When We Live A Life Of Impeccable Integrity, Pure Passion

And A Loving Heart As Your Guide.

I Have Personally Know Paul For Several Years And What He Has Done For These Children Is Only A Small Part Of What He Shares

With The Universe Through This Book.

His Dedication Is Only Surpassed By His Ability To Love Unconditionally.

This Book Is A Must Read For Any One Wanting To Live There Life More Fully In The Moment.

A Book You Will Not Want to Put Down.

Dale Belvin:

Artistic Landscape Consultant

And Author Of

Have You Ever Wondered

A Spirit Guided Journey

Of

A Life Lived In Service

"A Family of Choice" is not only a must-read for anyone who is thinking about adopting or has already adopted a child, but it is the perfect book for all parents. I laughed, I cried, I couldn't wait to read what happened next. The author has a natural talent for description and I felt like I was right there in the ancient dingy halls of the Ukraine waiting to hear whether or not Paul and Andrew would be able to go home with their new father. Wow! I truly think that this book will help more children find a loving environment in which they can call home. Bravo, Paul Hampsch, for telling your harrowing story and for potentially opening the flood gate to help more orphans from around the world find love and happiness.