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Family-By-Choice

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This book was enthralling from the first story of Denny who created his own family by choice, through all of the research and historical background of kinship and what it means to us as humans, up to and including all of the examination of the black culture and their ability to bond and form families without blood ties. I thought this book is a must read for anyone who is trying to cope with today's fragmented society that confounds our need to belong in a connected family. Ms. Ahern and Dr. Bailey obviously compliment each other as co-authors blending Ms. Ahern's dramatic personal stories with Dr. Bailey's reseach that fills in the link from a scientific perspective. The content in this book is ground breaking and it would not suprise me if someone like Oprah or the New York Times picks up this book and gives it very broad and favorable coverage

Here is one of those books that bring up some wonderful points and ideas, yet shy away from some conclusions that the authors either reached and decided not to add to the book or avoid out and out.

This book came out before the debate concerning gay marriage and polyamourous lifestyles were considered news worthy. But many of their conclusions would support those fighting for those causes.

Both authors borrow heavily from their own lives to make their points and both have very open minds. They seem to go out of their way to avoid some controversial material, even though they hint that they have reached some conclusions regaurding marriage, love and even sex.

Overall I highly recommend this book for anyone that seeks a new way of living but be sure to read between the lines and reach your own conclusions.