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How's Your Family Really Doing? 10 Keys to a Happy Loving Family [Paperback]

Don MacMannis , Debra Manchester MacMannis
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Book Description

August 23, 2011
Weaving together contributions from psychology, systems theory and spirituality, How's Your Family Really Doing? draws from extensive new research to highlight ten essential keys that define successful families.

After completing a fifty-point questionnaire, parents receive feedback about their family's strengths and areas for improvement. Providing practical tools for families in any stage of the life cycle, it is concise, engaging, and designed to capture the interest of working moms and dads who are often too busy to pore through lengthier works.

With How's Your Family Really Doing? you will be able to:
- Learn from research about successful relationships.
- Assess your family with a 50-point self-evaluation.
- Strengthen your skills with dozens of tips and tools.
- Identify and overcome the effects of past influences.


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''Excellent, informative, helpful, and well written. As a psychologist who has seen many children and families in therapy, I was delighted to read How's Your Family Really Doing? It is a wonderful resource that reflects the insights of two skilled and experienced family clinicians.
The book includes not only practical, realistic ideas for enriching one's family life, but also a 50-point self-assessment instrument to examine one's family's strengths and the areas that require improvement. It is written in a readerfriendly manner that will be read and re-read by families and professionals alike. Don and Debra are to be commended for their impressive book.''--Robert Brooks, Ph.D., Psychologist, Faculty of Harvard Medical School, co-author of Raising Resilient Children, and co-author of The Power of Resilience

''The 10 Keys provided in How's Your Family Really Doing? will ensure the answer is, 'Getting better all the time.' These keys, such as Seeing the Positive, Balancing Closeness and Difference, Making Decisions, and Parenting Together, contain subtle insights that will appeal to even the most thoughtful and conscientious parents. Every key is backed up by very specific, practical steps just about everyone can realistically take. A brief quiz at the outset also helps parents identify their priority areas, so if you don't want to read the entire book, you can focus on what is most important to you right now.
Don and Debra have harnessed their extensive clinical experience, their parenting wisdom, and what is obviously a strong sense of family to create a resource that will be of lasting value to parents, prospective parents, grandparents, and clinicians. It is welcoming, warm, and wise.''--Maurice J. Elias, Ph.D. author, Emotionally Intelligent Parenting, Director of Clinical Training, Rutgers University

''Congratulations on an excellent book. The family is one of the mysteries of life--usually we can't live without them and, at times, we can't live with them. How's Your Family Really Doing? is truly a guide to the perplexed. Read it and you and your family will certainly grow together.''--Charles Fishman, M.D. co-author, Structural Family Therapy Techniques (with Salvador Minuchin), author, Intensive Structural Therapy, and Treating Troubled Adolescents

''I loved it. I think your book will make an important contribution to the world of self-help family-focused books. Everyone knows that the family is a unit but most parenting books don't treat it as such. Finally, here is a book that will really make a difference in your life because of its focus on the family." ----Dr. Jordan Paul, co-author, Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By You? and author of Becoming Your Own Hero

About the Author

Husband and wife for twenty-nine years, Don MacMannis, Ph.D., and Debra Manchester MacMannis, M.S.W., have simultaneously served as directors of the Family Therapy Institute of Santa Barbara. In addition to nationwide lectures on families, they have provided postgraduate training to hundreds of therapists.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 232 pages
  • Publisher: Two Harbors Press (August 23, 2011)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1936401924
  • ISBN-13: 978-1936401925
  • Product Dimensions: 8.4 x 5.5 x 0.7 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 10.4 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (10 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #894,399 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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As both a mother and therapist I find the information both helpful and useful. Rudi  |  5 reviewers made a similar statement
I believe this book will help young parents express their feelings and live with kindness. Gene P. Odell  |  3 reviewers made a similar statement
I definitely recommend it for all parents. Janet Lengsfelder  |  2 reviewers made a similar statement
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5.0 out of 5 stars Defining the New Normal for Family Togetherness September 7, 2011
How's Your Family Really Doing is an information packed little book that delivers tools and resources that are useful to family therapists as well as the layperson reading this book. This is by far the most comprehensive and well researched book I've read that covers the "all you need to know about parenting" in order to raise happy and healthy children. What I especially enjoyed was the emphasis that was placed on ways to keep the couple relationship close and connected as well. I've sometimes thought that with all the focus on attachment based parenting, we've forgotten the importance of a cohesive and connected parental couple. It's the dynamic interaction between great parenting and great couplehood that provides children with the best opportunities for healthy development. That said, the authors are very clear that there are many varieties of "family" in our modern culture, including single parents and same sex couples and that children will do best when the parents are communicating effectively with each other. The authors provide an easy to use assessment tool to assess areas of family life that are working as well as areas that could use some help...and then they go on to help the reader develop ways to improve in each area. This is the book that you will want your 16 year old to read before getting into a serious relationship. This is the book that you will have wished you'd read years ago before making some of the common errors in raising a family. What is especially refreshing about this book is that there is no blame and no mention of "dysfunctional family systems". Instead, the book focuses on the positive, recognizing that we all can use a little help growing a little bit more and that it's never too late for change.... Read more ›
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5.0 out of 5 stars personal and family self help September 7, 2011
By redgirl
I bought the book and I went to a presentation today sponsored by the Santa Barbara chapter of the National Association of Social Workers where presenter and co-author Deb Manchester spoke about this book. In addition and for more information, Deb has a blog and a website. The book i san easy read. At the back of the book there is a list and description of additional references with a sentence or two describing what you will learn for more in depth leaning of that specific area. She and her husband and co-author Don wrote the book and offer free information and down-loads from the book on their site. I will suggest this book to my book clubs and as a tool for religious and Mothers or parent groups. Read it, it is a quick read and you can use the assessment... an easy quiz to decide which parts of the ten "keys" (areas of possible improvement) to work on. Use it with a family member, significant, premarital tool or for your self. You will find that you want all the people you care about to have this book.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Essential Family Book August 31, 2011
Don and Debra have created a"must have" book for anyone wanting to support a healthy family. It is practical, humorous, and wise.
Give this to every family you deeply care about.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Must read for clinicians! February 6, 2012
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I attended a seminar taught by the authors and fell in love with the concepts they were teaching. This is an excellent book for any clinician who works with couples and families. If you are NOT a clinician, you can still incorporate the suggestions and ideas with your family. The authors did extensive research for this book and use evidence based methods. I really like the case examples in each chapter as well as the personal anecdotes they share. This book is highly recommended for anyone who wants to learn more about their family of origin and how they can take proactive steps in improving their family relationships.
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By MADMAN
How many times have you heard, "There ought to be a manual for getting married and starting a family?" This book is as close as you will get. The authors help you to figure out your particular strengths and areas needing attention and then spell out steps to improve how your family functions. How do you learn to listen, accept differences, balance alone and relationship time, and get along--now there's an app for that-- How's Your Family Really Doing?
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5.0 out of 5 stars Actually really fun! November 12, 2011
After reading this book, How's Your Family Really Doing?, we decided to show our grown children the family assessment pages. To our surprise, they were very interested in scoring themselves and our family. It brought up lots of topics to talk about. That family dinner was one of the most memorable because we naturally 'went deeper' together as well as having lots of laughs.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Easy read, informative October 31, 2011
As a maternity nurse, an educator and a psychotherapist I am always looking for user friendly guidebooks for parents. Every parent wants to be the best they can be with the goal of helping their children become productive, loving and happy adults. Debra and Don give a template that if following with commitment and consistency provides the path to this end. They have included research based facts, case studies and personal stories that support this important information. I definitely recommend it for all parents.
Janet Lengsfelder, R.N., MFT
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5.0 out of 5 stars what memories do you want to create? October 20, 2011
From my perspective this book could be subtitled "What Memories Do You Want to Create?" As I approach 90 years, I am most grateful for the kind of memories that are filled with understanding and love. The authors provide the tools for creating just such memories. I bought this book because I have friends whose grandchildren are having some of the same struggles I had in raising kids, - difficulties with communication, feeling understood, having healthy boundaries and setting limits with care and compassion.

Although they covered a lot, I wish the authors had addressed more issues around being a grandparent. It should be required reading for high school students before they form strong relationships that come with inevitable disagreements. I believe this book will help young parents express their feelings and live with kindness. Hopefully, through a search for understanding, they can then create glorious memories for themselves and their families.
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