This book in the early chapters "dares" you almost to do what some of you might feel is somehow too wild to think about, like being the pirate capturing a wench, or the evil enemy commander interrogating an enemy spy, or the teacher "administering an after school lesson" to the naughty schoolgirl or a hundred other erotic scenarios. I loved how the author challenges the reader in Chapter 4 to make a list of all the reasons why they never could do erotic replay and then after doing that, come up with reasons why you CAN do erotic replay. I also liked her comment that when fear comes up it may mean you're getting close to something that may change you.This book after assuring you the reader that yes you can too do erotic replay and do it well also spends a good deal of space discussing communication and negotiation between people doing a replay scene and then goes on to describing ways to pull it off. The book's second section called "The Flesh of Fantasy" delves into this, with chapters on "building your scene," how to effectively "play" your role, last minute details, and then just plain doing it.The book has several appendices too which contain safety information, a "dairy" of a role play scene and plans, suggested music, a resource guide, even a sample negotiation form.Highly enjoyable, this book has changed my mind about doing role play scenarios. I might just yet become a swashbuckling captain or naughty professor in my private play.