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  • Hardcover: 272 pages
  • Publisher: Jeffers Press (August 26, 2005)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0974577693
  • ISBN-13: 978-0974577692
  • Product Dimensions: 9.1 x 6.3 x 1.2 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.2 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.3 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (15 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,010,360 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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'Susan Jeffers answers the age-old question, "What is love?" No matter the state of your relationship, you will be transformed by what you read.', Deepak Chopra, author of The Book of Secrets .'Susan Jeffers has written another winner', Jack Canfield, author of Chicken Soup for the Soul .'Her special zest, clarity and wisdom make the greatest love seem well within reach', Marianne Williamson, author of A Woman's Worth .'Susan Jeffers brings a rich new dimension to the understanding of what it means to love another person. Her wise insights will be an inspiration to you and a gift to your relationship.', Barbara De Angelis, author of What Women Want Men To Know .'Susan Jeffers, the queen of self-help, shares her secrets for a lasting love', Daily Express .'How to Create a Superb Relationship for Life is a tall order, but Susan Jeffers will coach you through', You --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

About the Author

Susan Jeffers Ph.D. is an internationally renowned author who has helped millions of people overcome their fears and heal the pain in their lives. She is also a public speaker, workshop leader and media personality who specializes in the areas of personal growth and relationships. She lives with her husband in Los Angeles. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

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Susan Jeffers PhD is a world-famous author who has helped millions of people overcome their fears. She is also a workshop leader and media personality who specialises in the areas of personal growth and relationships. She lives with her husband in California. Her website is www.susanjeffers.com

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This is a book that will help any person who has an open mind and heart.
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This book shows us how to improve our relationships by accepting responsibility for our actions and stop being the victim.
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This book have helped me a great deal in relation to my own way of handling everything.
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23 of 23 people found the following review helpful By Marilyn Dalrymple VINE VOICE on September 25, 2005
Format: Hardcover
Among other questions, Susan Jeffers, PhD, answers the age old question, "What Does Real Love Really Look Like?" in her book The Feel the Fear Guide to Lasting Love. Can you answer the question? The answer may not be what you expect, and the answer is well worth reading.

Through examples of couples she interviews, Jeffers shows us how her advice on how to correct love related problems can work. Some of her advice is hard to swallow, however. Jeffers tells us that many of our problems with others whom we love could be solved if we hold up a mirror and take a good hard look at ourselves.

"Now that you are coming to the realization that you are powerful and loving and have nothing to fear," Jeffers, says, "I invite you to use your power and love in a creative and exciting way. And that is to work toward improving your relationship (or finding one) all by yourself," she counsels.

All by myself, I can hear you asking. What about him/her?

There in lies Jeffers' secret to a happy, successful relationship. Spend your energy, time and effort fixing yourself and taking care of yourself, not worrying about what needs to be fixed or what is wrong with your spouse. And that is what makes her advice hard to follow. You may have to be silent, giving, loving and responsible when your mate isn't any of those things.

To help overcome the possible obstacles in following her advice, Jeffers lists and discusses "Love Lessons" that include:

*Expanding your words of love one week at a time.

*Talk beautifully about your mate in the company of others.

*Be who you want your partner to be.

*Make time.

*Become a romantic.

*Appreciate the little things.
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15 of 15 people found the following review helpful By karriela on November 16, 2005
Format: Hardcover
Susan Jeffers has written a great book about love and what good relationships require. I have been going through a really rough patch with my fiance and even questioning our engagement. I was really looking for good advice, a quick fix, but none of the books I read really helped. I found so many of them negative and advocating leaving a tough relationship. I knew that was not what I wanted. When I started reading "The Feel the Fear Guide to Lasting Love" I knew I was on to something different and I learned more than I imagined possible from one book. Susan has managed to take all the complicated, messy things that come out of intimate relationships and explains them in simple and beautiful words. I found myself agreeing with nearly everything the book says. I breathed a sigh of relief when I finished this book because after I read it, I knew I would be OK. I still have a lot to do to make things right, but I know that I can. A great relationship with my fiance, and hopefully a great marriage, begins with my attitude. This book help me in so many ways. I think it can help everyone.
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12 of 12 people found the following review helpful By Ernest Dempsey on March 15, 2006
Format: Hardcover
The subject of a successful love relationship has been tried to banality in innumerable publications. While most of them might be out in the print for making bucks, Susan Jeffers' latest book The Feel the Fear Guide to Lasting Love (Jeffers Press, California, 2005) is one winning endeavor of showing the path to a lasting love life. Jeffers, who has been titled with `the Queen of Self-Help', presents secret lessons of love that make one's person lovable rather than tiring oneself out in finding an ideal mate. It teaches how to be the ideal mate.

The conversational style of Susan Jeffers befriends the reader since the first page. Her openness inspires when she confesses that her meaningful knowledge of love did not come from her university degrees but from her personal experience of marriage, divorce, dating, and remarrying. Thus she discovered the higher purpose of love, becoming a more loving person, and she generously shares it with her readers.

Jeffers makes the important distinction between `selfish love' and `real love'. She peeps into the politics of relationships and redefines power as control over one's own actions and reactions and not as controlling others. Revealing the vitality of communication to the happiness of a relationship, Jeffers speaks about maintaining a happy sex life well into the advance age. Impact of problems related to children and in-laws, money, and betrayal of trust are taken up and cogently resolved in the light of self-purification.

Perhaps the most significant aspect of Susan Jeffers' book is her advice on seeing beyond the stereotyped concept of ideal love that permanently blocks our way to happiness.
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8 of 8 people found the following review helpful By P. Berinstein on November 15, 2005
Format: Hardcover
As always, Susan Jeffers inspires us to pay attention to those aspects of our lives we normally take for granted. It is so easy to forget that our behavior intimately affects how our mate behaves. Hold up the mirror rather than the magnifying glass, and we may begin to realize that much of what we say, do, and radiate is coming back to us. Attempt to change that behavior, and we may indeed get more of what we want.

In this book, Susan Jeffers also reprises one of her favorite themes: "I can handle it." Why do we fear confrontation, abandonment, criticism, etc.? Because we're afraid we'll go to pieces if they happen. Realize that we'll get through whatever it is, even if it takes a while, and the fear of those things subsides. When the fear leaves us, so does our need to control our mate, and the relationship improves.

It's not easy to implement this advice, but if Lasting Love only gets us to stop and ask "Why am I getting so upset when he/she does such-and-such?," we will have made progress.
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