Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot: Not Your Mother's Orgasm Book! (Positively Sexual) [Paperback]

Deborah Sundahl (Author), Bernard Selling (Foreword), Annie Sprinkle (Foreword)

Book Description

Publication Date: March 24, 2003 | Series: Positively Sexual

Like men, women also can ejaculate, enhancing and intensifying their sexual pleasure. In an open, positive style, Deborah Sundahl presents information about female ejaculation including scientific findings, anatomical illustrations, historical accounts, a chapter on how men can help their female partners to ejaculate, and women’s and men’s experiences collected during the past two decades.

Editorial Reviews

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"...get ready for hotter sex with suggestions that will surprise and thrill your partner.... -- Women.com, 2003

"In this excellent book, the foremost expert on female ejaculation offers up every bit of wisdom imaginable.... Highly recommended." -- Good Vibrations, Goodvibes.com, 2003

"This is going to be bigger than The G-Spot ... super informative with the distinctive Sundahl style from On Our Backs." -- Dr. Shannon Bell, author of Fast Feminism

"[She] has done us an enormous service by putting together in one book all that is known about the subject." -- Alice Ladas, Ed.D., author of The G-Spot, from the Foreword

A fabulous book! Great, clear information. Most important book since "The G-Spot." A beautiful piece of work. -- Margo Anand, author of The Art of Sexual Ecstasy

About the Author

Deborah Sundahl has been a leading expert on female sexualtiy for more than 15 years. She is a researcher, writer and sex educator whose articles and interviews have appeard in anthologies, popular sex magazines, radio and televisions shows and documentaries. Through her workshops, best-selling videos, and university lectures she has taught thousands of women the art of G-spot stimulation and female ejaculation.

Deborah was the cofounder and publisher of On Our Backs, a women's erotica magazine voted one of the 10 most influential magazines of the 1980s. In this role, she unveiled women's fantasies, introduced sex toys and roleplaying to a larger audience, and encouraged women's communication of their erotic selves. She is the producer of the best-selling videos How to Female Ejaculate and Tantric Journey: Awaken Your G-Spot.

Product Details

• Paperback: 288 pages
• Publisher: Hunter House; 1 edition (March 24, 2003)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 089793380X
• ISBN-13: 978-0897933803
• Product Dimensions: 9.2 x 6 x 0.6 inches
• Shipping Weight: 13.3 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 4.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (37 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #65,651 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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68 of 71 people found the following review helpful

5.0 out of 5 stars a good companion to the author's video April 16, 2003

By A Customer

Format:Paperback

The best thing about this book is that it's not boring! The author relays intimate encounters from her workshops on female ejaculation but also gives the anatomy lessons, etc. The sidebars--my favorites are, "I Think I Peed!" and "Dealing with the Fear of Peeing"--are really helpful. The tone is just right here, educational yet warm. Good illustrations, the one thing you don't really get in her video, "How to Female Ejaculate: Find Your G-Spot." I like the way these two (video and book) go together. Lots of good resources at the end, too.

38 of 39 people found the following review helpful

5.0 out of 5 stars A very informative book! December 29, 2005

By Tina from Tennessee

Format:Paperback

I had always heard about the "g spot", but did not know that women can actually ejactulate fluid from their bodies. This book was very informative and easy to follow. Believe it or not, I was only in the FIRST chapter and while reading it, I did exactly what the author said to do and BAM, I ejaculated! I was stunned. However, as far as a great unbelievable sensation, I personally find the clitoral orgasm more pleasing. But, I have no regrets of buying this book and learning something about my body that, at the age of 34, I didn't already know. I recommend this book if you're interested in learning about the famous "g spot". It's worth it.

63 of 69 people found the following review helpful

5.0 out of 5 stars Two parts are especially helpful... July 19, 2006

By Charles Runels Md VINE™ VOICE

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First, many women (having never experienced ejaculation) fear that they are about to urinate when they come near ejaculation. So, the woman stops on the path and never experiences ejaculation. This book offers very specific exercises to help a woman distiguish between urination and ejaculation and so learn to boldly move toward some amazing orgasms. Developing just that one knack (distinguishing ejaculation from urination) will be all that some women need in order to experienc ejaculation since they're already coming near ejaculation but changing directions when they come near.

Second, most woman, though they realize they experience diffent types of orgasm, are not skilled in going to any specific type of orgasm. Not that one type is ordained better than another...still, if a woman wants to experience the thrill of ejaculation, it's helpful to know specifics about various types of orgasm and how to acheive them.

Women over 30 years old who stuggle with the frustration of not having orgasm at all should study some of the books which I have reviewed concerning women's hormones and review my website (without adequate levels of testosterone, it's difficult for a woman to have an orgasm).

Men should pay special attention to the section in this book that describes specific very slow movements near the vaginal opening (and not involving the clitoris directly).

I highly recommend this book for both men and women for further exploration of the wonderful variations in sexual response...

and for development of the art and skill of finding the way to those various responses.

42 of 45 people found the following review helpful

5.0 out of 5 stars A whole new world of pleasure! September 7, 2003

By "fltiffany"

Format:Paperback

Deborah Sundahl goes way beyond ordinary guidance. Most women by now are familiar with the G spot, but Sundahl talks about more detailed physiological aspects of sex.
I do not understand why someone would need more explicit instructions -- she gets completely graphic and detailed!
The sex toy section was especially helpful and fun to read.
For women who want to learn more about their own sexuality, this book is essential -- one of the best to come along.

32 of 34 people found the following review helpful

5.0 out of 5 stars A keeper March 25, 2004

By A Customer

Format:Paperback

I've read multiple books in my search for different types of orgasms and learning why I haven't been able to completely let go, even though I really want to. Deborah Sundahl is brilliant and really knows what's going on with women and sexual satisfaction. This is a great guide for learning about the way to release emotions and have wonderful orgasms, and how those are very much linked together. It's also great if you just want to learn how to have G-spot orgasms and ejaculate, even if you don't want to know about the underlying emotions.

15 of 16 people found the following review helpful

5.0 out of 5 stars Amazing... March 1, 2008

By Karen K

Format:Paperback

When I first heard about female ejaculation I was a bit skeptical. Now I am a very satisfied believer. This book covers basic female anatomay and the different types of orgasms a woman experiences. She gives detailed instructions on how to stroke and achieve ejaculation. I wanted to surprise my husband and thought it would take some practice to be able to ejaculate. I was wrong. I followed her instructions and gushed in pure pleasure. I couldn't wait until he got home to show him. Needless to say it was a great night. He loves it when I squirt on him. It makes a great massage fluid.

I would recommend this to anyone wanting to learn how to female ejaculate, or wanting to add a little spice to your love life.

25 of 29 people found the following review helpful

5.0 out of 5 stars GOOD BOOK June 28, 2004

By A Customer

Format:Paperback

In recent years the role of the G-spot in giving a woman intense pleasure has become widely accepted. Equally powerful, but less well known, is the capacity of the G-spot to ejaculate - to swell and release fluid when erotically stimulated. Female Ejaculation and the G-spot is a down-to-earth, supportive guide that enables women to reconnect witht heir bodies and discover their natural ability to ejaculate.

Deborah Sundahl gives us clear instructions, and presents the scientific facts, history and real-life experiences of women and their partners (mostly men - but not always!). She shows that far from being a myth or curiosity, female ejaculation can open the door to new dimensions of emotional and physical release for all women.