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An amazing story., April 1, 2008
This review is from: Finding Angela Shelton (Paperback)
Angela is one of the most amazing women I have ever heard of.
If you are looking for a wounded whiny victim, this isn't the book !
Angela is a warrior and an agent of change, abundance and positive existence.
Do not be put off by the fact that the book deals with abuse. Sexual abuse is an epidemic in our culture and it is important that we begin to remove the stigma associated with talking about it. Angela shares her story with truthful simple storytelling that comes straight from the heart. And it has a happy ending !
This book is for you and it is about you. Regardless of who you are.
In a culture that values pain and suffering, Finding Angela Shelton provides an opportunity for transformation and action. Her message is simple and powerful : "Heal yourself and you will heal the world."
Healing yourself begins with reading this book. I guarantee it.
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Necessary, May 25, 2008
This review is from: Finding Angela Shelton (Paperback)
It seems every time I work up the courage to really listen to someone else's story, or to share my own, it wrenches another crack into the shell of that hard kernel of hurt and self-loathing I carry around inside of me. This book helped place another crack without too much angst or tears, because Angela tells her story with openness and honesty.
Angela sets off to film women around the country sharing the name Angela Shelton. She's searching for women's attitudes and outlooks. Not surprisingly, she finds many have been abused. Through her travels and interviews, Angela finds what she was really looking for all along - a sense of belonging and acceptance. A victim of extreme sexual abuse, Angela suffered from low self-esteem. At one point she realizes, "I have a flash of how my whole life, losing my virginity, my relationships, my work, everything has been affected by the beliefs that were set in place when I was little." Sharing others' stories helped her with her own. The more I talk about my own abuse history, or write about it, the healthier I become.
The book is not perfect; for example I wish that it had been written in a more linear manner, and it seemed to drag in places. But it is easily read, especially given the subject matter, and I give it five stars for bravery and fulfilling a need. Angela represents all of us in our search to heal. She comes across as courageous and gritty, and I am thankful that she took on this subject.
With at least one out of four women facing abuse during a lifetime, chances are good that even those not victimized know someone who has been. This is our story, our lives, and the more we talk about it, and normalize it, and recognize it, the faster we can heal, and help prevent future victims.
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Quick Read, April 11, 2008
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This book is a must have for anyone who saw the film "Searching For Angela Shelton." Angela takes the reader behind the scenes on her journey toward healing. She allows us to see what the camera did not show. The book was a quick read and makes a great resource to go along with the film.
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