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Forgive for Good Paperback – January 21, 2003
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The people I needed to forgive ranged from my father for demanding to know why I "didn't get an A+" on a math exam for which I had ONLY received an A, as well as for not protecting me from the prying eyes of my younger brother as I was maturing into a woman, to the murderer of my roommate as well as his defense attorney the latter worked real hard at (and basically succeeded in) rattling my cage by showing me gruesome crime scene and autopsy photos of my beaten and strangled friend while I testified at the trial.
I can and will explain my reasons for keeping this book and returning the others in two ways.
THE TOUCHY-FEELY REASON
While reading this book (Forgive For Good) I felt understood, hopeful, calm, and, most important, forgiving, whereas when reading the other two books I quickly became bored and frustrated and had to work hard just to get through them.
THE RATIONAL REASONS
Forgive For Good, contrary to what some other customer reviewers have said, accepted right on page one that I had something to forgive and it immediately granted me "personal power" on a silver platter so I could proceed with the forgiving. Conversely, the other books were similar to most psychological self-help books I've read that focus the vast majority of their pages to figuring out whether or not I had really been a victim and just who was to blame for my problems and emphasised the probability that I would need outside help for years to do so.
The first "step" in all three books is having someone validate our pain.Read more ›
My one criticism of this book is that it's too long-winded. A good editor could cut this book down to half its length without losing any substantial content. Less is more.
I was coming out of a long depression, and two and half years of deep therapy for incest, and a whole lifetime of terrible relationships. Most of the work in analysis was done, but I had huge feelings that I couldn't put to rest. Anger. Grief. Fear about about the future.
Fred's methodology is very practical and sensible. It's easy to learn, and easy to do. It's a discipline, so you have to exercise it. But what I found was that, when I had these bad feelings and I went through the discipline, I could not only manage the feelings, but also gain insight and peace of mind.
This is exactly what I'd hoped for, because I knew that all these negative emotions were keeping me from moving on with my life. I highly recommend the book and the online course.
I barely even got to the program steps, and I could feel myself breathing again! Not only do I let go of the big hurts I've been carrying around, but I've discovered little hurts that have been waiting their turn to disrupt my life, and poof... They're gone.
If you're someone with legitimate pain and grievances, and you're looking to move on with your life, or just someone looking to calm down and lower your risk of heart attacks, PLEASE buy this book. Everyone should read this book.
Most Recent Customer Reviews
The book is a useful guide and approach to letting go of pain. While compassionate, it is straight talk. It is an approach to really free yourself. Read morePublished 2 days ago by L. Rockstad
The key messages were repeated over and over again through an unattractive voice.
It also has so many typos. Hopefully this only happens for the electronic version.
This little book helped me work through a grudge I'd been holding for two years. It wasn't just the exercises. Read morePublished 2 months ago by Afi Scruggs
A good place to start- excellent advice for unloading the burden of a grudge-Published 2 months ago by Melinda Cross
Great book! I am really benefiting from reading this book. It gets down to the nitty gritty of the process of forgiveness. It is enlightening while being understandable. Read morePublished 2 months ago by Linda Kawaguchi
Absolutely the best book ever written. Sixty-five years of emotional baggage and pain gone after the first chapter.Published 3 months ago by Neelee Walker