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A creative catalyst for remedying an ailing sex life. When Evans was facing a particularly arduous period in her marriage, she knew she needed to do something to reignite her love life. She decided to offer her husband sex on a daily basis for 40 straight days, marking each one off with the drop of a Venetian bead into a mason jar. Thus was born the Forty Beads Method, an approach that “assumes a disparity that often exists between the male and female libidos and offers a way to close the gap.” Evans’ observations about sex and marriage and advice for other couples who want to try this at home are laced with attention-grabbing anecdotes and humor. When she explained her plan to her husband, she writes, he "looked at me as if I were Venus, the Goddess of Love, sailing into the bedroom on a clamshell." But she makes unsubstantiated and sweeping generalizations about men throughout the text, most notably in "Sex: The Deal," in which she writes, “Men love sex and for most of them, it’s their favorite thing in the whole world.” She employs limited scientific evidence to justify her oversimplified views. And while the author invites homosexuals to try this method, she fails to suggest any possible modifications to the heterosexual approach to her program. Also includes guidelines for creating a supportive community of Beaders. For women who need help dealing with the sexual power struggles of their relationship.
Kim Barnouin, Co-Author of The New York Times #1 Bestseller Skinny Bitch
"Forty Beads made me laugh out loud and take notes. Going on 10 years of marriage, I could totally relate to this book. I read it at just the right time, and my husband will be indebted to Carolyn Evans for her wisdom for many years. A must read for all women."
Fiftyisthenewforty.net, May 2011
“With a keen sense of humor entirely devoid of snarky or resentful undertones, Evans makes it crystal clear that the key difference between men and women is that “men have to have sex to feel close, and conversely, a woman has to feel close to her husband to want to have sex with him.” Bingo.”
Carolyn Evans, MSW developed The Forty Beads Method quite by accident, but when it changed her marriage in such an incredible way, she just had to share it with everyone. A singer/songwriter and former therapist, Carolyn writes for Skirt! Magazine and spends time meeting with her fellow “Beaders” as she supports the growing Forty Beads nation.
It's humorous, logical and an easy read.
This book explains that giving your your husband more sex will in turn make him choose to do more housework or help more with the kids or treat you like a queen.
Take it from someone who was genuinely afraid to get started, and now actually looks forward to hearing the "plink!" of a bead in my bead catcher.
I chose the rating because with the pros and cons of both genders being brought up I saw a lot of myself and my wife there. So I figure pass the book to her and see what happens. Read morePublished 1 month ago by John Watson
husband didn't see it as I did but I thought it was a great idea.Published 1 month ago by Marie V Stewart
this book was very insightful and offered a lot of great information! I. I'm very glad I read it. I would definitely recommend it others.Published 2 months ago by Kindle Customer
I'm not much for marriage programs, but this book really did change my marriage in the best way possible.Published 2 months ago by Amazon Customer
WOW what a concept. I went searching for help in our marriage. I think I found it. I just need my wife to read the book too. I hope she feels the same as me once she reads the bookPublished 4 months ago by Dale Simpson
I hoped it would help me find a way to renew our 35 year marriage. Instead it was more about how "all I needed to do was put out on demand for my husband" and he would be a... Read morePublished 6 months ago by jyl gaskin
I gave this to my wife along with book. I told her it was marriage saver. The book explains men in very simple language and points out that physical closeness is important. Read morePublished 7 months ago by Dave