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Free to Be You & Me

Marlo Thomas , Alan Alda , Bill Davis , Fred Wolf  |  NR |  DVD
4.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (104 customer reviews)

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  • Actors: Marlo Thomas, Alan Alda, Harry Belafonte, Mel Brooks, Rita Coolidge
  • Directors: Bill Davis, Fred Wolf, Len Steckler
  • Writers: Alan Uger, Betty Miles, Bruce Hart, Carl Reiner, Carole Hart
  • Format: Multiple Formats, Color, NTSC
  • Language: English
  • Region: Region 1 (U.S. and Canada only. Read more about DVD formats.)
  • Aspect Ratio: 1.33:1
  • Number of discs: 1
  • Rated: NR (Not Rated)
  • Studio: Henstooth Video
  • DVD Release Date: October 19, 2010
  • Run Time: 48 minutes
  • Average Customer Review: 4.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (104 customer reviews)
  • ASIN: B0042DN4TU
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #34,694 in Movies & TV (See Top 100 in Movies & TV)
  • Learn more about "Free to Be You & Me" on IMDb

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Editorial Reviews

Free To Be...You And Me is a journey rich with positive, life-enhancing messages about growth and change. Through a combination of live action, puppetry, and animation, the show promotes positive self-esteem through colorful songs and stories. It explores children's authentic experiences, their dreams and concerns, and their fears and fantasies. Among the highlights are Marlo Thomas and Mel Brooks in Boy Meets Girl; football hero Rosey Grier singing It's All Right to Cry; Michael Jackson and Roberta Flack perform When We Grow Up; and Alan Alda narrates the tale of Atalanta. This enchanted fun-filled voyage of discovery is superb for both children and adults to enjoy together. For the 36th Anniversary Edition, this Emmy and Peabody Award winning special has been remastered from the original ABC-TV master tape. In Color, 45 minutes, Not Rated, Special Features include a new introduction by Marlo Thomas; Deleted Scene: Dustin Hoffman in "How I Crossed The Street"; Photo Gallery and Optional English & Spanish Subtitles. Original Full Screen Format (1.33:1)

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70 of 71 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Sentimental favorite May 14, 2005
When my daughter was born, a relative and I wound up reminiscing about this album and how much we both loved it growing up. Next thing I knew, a copy of the DVD arrived as a gift for my daughter and me. The first time I sat down and watched, it brought back all my memories of being a little girl in the 70's. I could even still sing along with the title song! Right now, my daughter is too young to do much except listen as I sing or play music for her, but I hope she grows up enjoying these songs as much as I did. Yes, the visuals are dated, but I believe the messages of these songs are as pertinent now as they were thirty years ago. Best of all, the songs get their messages across without being "preachy." I think this is a fabulous alternative to much of what's out there for kids today, and dated as some elements may be, "Free to Be You and Me" is still a long, long way from going out of style.
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39 of 39 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Simply Wonderful September 3, 2001
I have been searching for the VHS version of this production for 3 years now. Needless to say, I am beyond excited that it is being re-released on DVD. I was very influenced by this program when I first saw it in the third grade back in 1987. I was just learning how to be a best friend and how to deal with children teasing me for my very long and extremely coarse 'nappy' hair, my 'white' grandmother (she's biracial), and my 'funny' proper accent.
Watching this movie in Mrs. Hammond's 3rd grade class was eye-opening. It taught me that it was okay to cry about things and to talk about how I feel to family, friends, and bullies. I am definitely going to buy this DVD for my 15 month old son and his 1 month old twin sisters so they can enjoy it.
Oh, and the scenes with the baby puppets (a boy and a girl who teach kids about the differences and similarities between girls and boys) are must see--believe me. The scenes are extremely funny--I laugh just thinking about them--and are great for little kids and for dispelling some common social conceptions and misconceptions about gender & gender equality.
This program will re-enforce the lessons my husband and I are trying to teach our kids--epecially since we are a multi-racial family who speaks 3 languages at home and travels between our two homes. DO BUY THIS DVD when it becomes available.
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41 of 43 people found the following review helpful
Format:VHS Tape
I recently became obsessed with this movie. I'd seen it in pre-school and somehow remembered the songs, stories, and humorous skits up through college. And I'm not alone! Others like me are frantically searching for this piece of their childhood, perhaps the only video to REALLY say to kids, "Just be yourself." A football player tells boys it's okay to cry, a fairy-tale tells girls they don't have to get married, and Mel Brooks and Marlo Thomas approach subjects like gender roles and childcare in four skits that can have even grown-ups laughing out loud. Though the song featuring a young Michael Jackson singing "We don't have to change at all" is extremely ironic and more than a little sad, the video is a fun experience overall. The book and soundtrack are also both wonderful tools to have in raising open-minded children, but I must admit that as cheesy as it sounds, it's the movie that really helped shape my life.
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18 of 18 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Great Find August 5, 2005
By dkr
This dvd brings me back to when I was growing up in the 70's. I am happy to share this with my kids. Who can forget the baby puppets in the hospital window trying to figure out if they are boys or girls or Rosie Greer singing "It's Alright to Cry." One of the highlights is the duet by Roberta Flack and a young Michael Jackson singing "You Don't Have to Change at All." I am so happy I am able to have this piece of my childhood to share.
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25 of 27 people found the following review helpful
Format:DVD|Verified Purchase
It's hysterical and pitiful that some of the other 'reviewers' describe this program as though it is some subversive, dangerous, dogmatic propaganda.

WARNING: This program teaches children to love themselves and respect others and we all know how threatening and subversive those values are! Quick run back to the cave and hide! The sky is falling!!

If you believe little boys playing with dolls is sick and threatens their development, then you won't like this program. If you think it's subservise propaganda to tell little girls it's okay for them to be smart and strong, then you won't like this program either. On the other hand, if you are a nurturing parent and some of your goals include teaching your child to have a sense of self, to respect humanity's differences (gasp!) and to empower (double gasp!) them to reach for the stars, then you'll enjoy sharing this program with your kids.
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32 of 36 people found the following review helpful
3.0 out of 5 stars The album probably carries the message just as well September 6, 2004
Format:DVD|Verified Purchase
I purchased this DVD for my almost-three-year-old through a sentimental haze; I suppose I hadn't seen this on television since 1977 or so. Back in the day, this show was broadcast annually, so I couldn't remember it too well - the puppets in the hospital nursery was about it.

But I certainly still had the songs in my head (my record was played daily) as well as the ideas, and these I wanted to share with my son. So, I bought the book and the CD and the DVD, all to make certain my son knows he is free to be, darn-tootin'.

The DVD, however, has turned out to be somewhat of a letdown. As another reviewer wrote, it is dated. I can't see this show, in 2004, as the most effective vehicle to transport the message to little Sam. As for Mommy, I prefer to sing along with the CD, allowing my son to listen to what he's hearing and not get lost in (or perhaps bored by) what he's seeing on screen.

Somewhere on Amazon I read that the show was developed in response to the success of the record. This reassures me that the content is well-carried without the visuals.

Feel free to profit from my over-enthusiasm - I watched the DVD once after it arrived and probably won't again. And in Sam's book, the Free to Be DVD probably earns 4 stars, but ranks rather at the bottom of his must-see-for-the-43rd-time list.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
5.0 out of 5 stars Five Stars
Great to share with my grandkids the songs their parents loved.
Published 1 month ago by Rebecca Fox
5.0 out of 5 stars I have loved this movie since I was a small child
I have loved this movie since I was a small child. Had to share the joy and fun with my kids.
Published 1 month ago by Shlonda
5.0 out of 5 stars There are some very funny bits. The babies
Get ready to laugh and cry. And think! There are some very funny bits. The babies. Others are there to make you question and wonder. Cry? Read more
Published 1 month ago by Nancy R.
5.0 out of 5 stars She loved it.
While some of it is dated, that just gave me a vehicle to discuss it with my granddaughter. She loved it.
Published 1 month ago by Carol A. Runge
5.0 out of 5 stars My kids (2 and 4 year old girls) love this DVD and so do my husband...
My kids (2 and 4 year old girls) love this DVD and so do my husband and I! It brings back memories from my childhood.
Published 1 month ago by Kimberly Allamby
5.0 out of 5 stars Loved it then, Love it now too!
Honestly, while I loved it as a child, and played the record ad infinitum, I still enjoy it from time to time. The "music" is enjoyable, catchy tune's etc. Read more
Published 2 months ago by amazonian
5.0 out of 5 stars Loved it then and now
Classic from my childhood. I think kids can learn to just "be" with this movie. A bit dated , but the idea of not feeling like you belong is as old as time and this movie... Read more
Published 6 months ago by Kevin Elliott
5.0 out of 5 stars Just like I remembered
I remember this film from when I was a kid. When I found it on Amazon I was thrilled. My kids, ages 4 and 18 months, LOVE it. Read more
Published 8 months ago by Kim
3.0 out of 5 stars Nostalgia and reality
I was in grade school when this came out, and our music teacher had us watch the special in class. I liked it so much that I got the 8 track and played it incessantly for... Read more
Published 8 months ago by Maria Beadnell
5.0 out of 5 stars Remember from years ago.
Raised my daughter when this first came out. She loved it. I got it so my grandchildren could be exposed to it Still resonates today.
Published 8 months ago by Jane
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