Product Details

• Actors: Greg Lauren, Christopher Gartin, Rebecca Creskoff, Edward Hibbert, Allison Mackie
• Format: Closed-captioned, Color, Dolby, DVD, NTSC
• Language: English
• Region: Region 1 (U.S. and Canada only. Read more about DVD formats.)
  
• Aspect Ratio: 1.33:1
• Number of discs: 1
• Rated: Unrated
• Studio: Wolfe Video
• DVD Release Date: October 21, 2003
• Run Time: 87 minutes
• Average Customer Review: 3.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (44 customer reviews)
• ASIN: B0000C23FY
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #169,731 in Movies & TV (See Top 100 in Movies & TV)
• For more information about "Friends & Family" visit the Internet Movie Database (IMDb)

Editorial Reviews

Stephen and Danny are a hip Manhattan gay couple who have it all until a surprise visit from Stephen's parents threatens to blow the boys' big secret. The secret? Not that they're gay but that they are hit men for the mafia! Since Stephen's dad is an FBI agent the boys are frantic to keep him in the dark. They enlist their fellow mobsters to pose as gay waiters at the faux catering pany Stephen "owns" they can host a party for Dad with hilarious plications!Features: Closed CaptionTheatrical TrailerOuttakesCommentaryMore From Wolfe Video Other Information: Running Time 87 MinFormat: DVD MOVIE

Customer Reviews

Most Helpful Customer Reviews

14 of 15 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars A delightful comedy!, June 19, 2004

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Mark Twain "Sam" - See all my reviews

This review is from: Friends and Family [VHS] (VHS Tape)

Friends and Family is a delightful and clever comedy. The plot, and many subplots actually, are a bit far-fetched, but they provides pure escapism, which we all need sometimes. The characters, as unbelievable as they are, come out as totally outrageous, much needed in a comedy of this nature. The story becomes so over the top, it borders on ridiculous, but manages to entertain, while being totally hilarious.

I really enjoyed this film and smiled throughout at the pure absurdity of it all. The cast was good, the acting okay, but the characters were terrific in my mind. Yes, some people might consider these people stereotypes, but the stereotype came about for a reason....these people actually EXIST! The only real problem I had, and for a movie like this it's a big one, is the displays of affection between the two leads. I don't need to see full on gay sex, but it would have been nice to have seen the couple at least share a light kiss or two. The end did have them hold hands, with beautiful dialogue expressing their love for each other, and I would have liked to see more of that throughout, just a couple more times at least. It showed a human side to these killers that we just needed to see more of.

This is a cross between La Cage Aux Follies (The Birdcage), The Sopranos, and Mambo Italiano, but is too Disneyfied for it's own good. Actually, it's one 'gay film' the whole family can enjoy-- no sex, no profanity, and only very mild violence. I'd definitely rate it a PG. This isn't a perfect film, but it's a perfectly enjoyable one. Grade: A-

13 of 14 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars stylish, fun, intelligent, and whimsical, April 12, 2005

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M. FUSCO "yawnmower" (NEW YORK, NY) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: Friends and Family [VHS] (VHS Tape)

There are many fun twists of plot and character in this amiable little comedy.

A young, handsome, successful, cosmopolitan gay couple live in a chic New York townhouse. Stephen (played by seductive, stunningly built Greg Lauren) is horrified when his over-the-top force-of-nature mother announces her arrival from Indiana to celebrate his father's 60th birthday. Stephen and his lover Danny (funny, sweet, sexy, incredibly endearing Christopher Gartin) are still in the closet - not sexually but professionally. They have pretended to be caterers but are really enforcers, protectors, and trusted allies of Don Patrizzi, a mafia godfather.

The boys need help, and everyone joins in to throw a swanky birthday dinner party for Stephen's father. Patrizzi's own sons are more interested in cooking and sewing than the family business, so they plan the affair. The macho mafia `muscle' chip in as high-spirited cater waiters, and adopt very stereotypical gay personae for the evening, with hilarious results. The plot twists and turns, involving the Don's daughter, her bland midwestern fiancé, his surprisingly unconventional parents, and a senator.

In addition to beautiful Greg Lauren and Christopher Gartin to gaze upon wistfully, the film is remarkably replete with extraordinary New York landmarks and interiors for a small independent film. Director Kristen Coury has designed her film in a rich, urbane, airy style which harks back to the great technicolor farces of the 50's.

Stephen and Danny, refreshingly, are not typical movie/TV gays. No Will and Grace. No camp. They are reserved, deferential, and loving. One yearns, at first, for the couple to be more openly affectionate with each other, but when they finally do touch, at the end of their affable story, it is a moment of pure poetry.

7 of 7 people found the following review helpful:

4.0 out of 5 stars frothy foolishness, March 18, 2005

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Brian Watson "brian from studiomomo.com" (New Westminster, BC, Canada) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: Friends and Family [VHS] (VHS Tape)

What I liked best about this film was the matter-of-factness with which everyone dealt with the gay characters. I kept thinking, this is how it should be.
Of course, I don't think anyone, gay or straight, should be working for the mafia, but the comedy that results of the juxtaposition between two of New York's wonderfully eccentric cultures, mafiosi and marys, is wonderful.
The scenes in which goons are taught to be gay, and the results of their tutelage, are hilarious, and when I got a lesson in internal homophobia as a result (from the film's gay tutor), I was very much impressed.
No, this isn't Woody Allen, or even Mel Brooks. The ever increasing number of oddball characters was a little distracting. But it was a very fun way to pass ninety minutes.