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Get the Guy: Learn Secrets of the Male Mind to Find the Man You Want and the Love You Deserve Audible – Unabridged

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Audie Award Finalist, Personal Development, 2014

Most dating books tell you what not to do. Here's a book dedicated to telling you what you can do.

In his book, Get the Guy, Matthew Hussey - relationship expert, matchmaker, and star of the reality show Ready for Love - reveals the secrets of the male mind and the fundamentals of dating and mating for a proven, revolutionary approach to help women to find lasting love.

Matthew Hussey has coached thousands of high-powered CEOs, showing them how to develop confidence and build relationships that translate into professional success. Many of Matthew's male clients pressed him for advice on how to apply his winning strategies not to just get the job, but how to get the girl. As his reputation grew, Hussey was approached by more and more women, eager to hear what he had learned about the male perspective on love and romance.

From landing a first date to establishing emotional intimacy, playful flirtation to red-hot bedroom tips, Matthew's insightfulness, irreverence, and warmth makes Get the Guy: Learn Secrets of the Male Mind to Find the Man You Want and the Love You Deserve a one-of-a-kind relationship guide and the handbook for every woman who wants to get the guy she's been waiting for.

©2013 Monument Investment Partners Ltd. (P)2013 HarperCollins Publishers

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  • Listening Length: 7 hours and 59 minutes
  • Program Type: Audiobook
  • Version: Unabridged
  • Publisher: HarperAudio
  • Release Date: April 9, 2013
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  • Language: English
  • ASIN: B00BW8BE3G
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262 of 278 people found the following review helpful By Shell on June 11, 2013
Format: Hardcover Verified Purchase
I'll preface this by saying the few dating/relationship books I've flipped through or read descriptions for often come across as very condescending to women. This is especially true if meant to unveil the "male mind" and give it to us straight - the "ugly truth" type of stuff. They make women feel bad for being women. You come away from just one little paragraph feeling like men essentially don't like women (beyond the physical). We're told we need to be more feminine, but also think like men, less clingy, but not too independent - etc. Here is a book which focuses less on how women need to change their nature, needs, desires, etc, as if we're hopelessly incompatible with men by nature, and instead it focuses on social skills & positive thinking modes for attracting & developing relationships with compatible men we actually like & who are worth OUR time & energy.

None of this is earth-shattering, mind-blowing secrets that will give you some epiphany on love & life. Instead, it reads like common sense, the kind many of us missed the memo on, so that it's not so "common" after all.

This book doesn't insult your intelligence, berate you for being a woman, tell you that you have to compromise your values, or leave with some sick feeling that manipulation of men & dishonesty with your own feelings/needs is the "secret".

The explanations of male thinking is also not "boys will be boys" trash that insists sexist and misogynistic behaviors are simply "biological" for men & have to be tolerated by women.
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115 of 127 people found the following review helpful By Jennifer on November 19, 2013
Format: Kindle Edition
so slap me - I loathe it when people write reviews for something they haven't read. I've seen the author on Youtube- he's pretty damn good. But this book hints of "other important details" that lead to more purchases. And I have to say this - because I wish I'd heard it sooner myself. The "secret" is to be passionate about Your own dreams- be a passionate pursuer of your own life! And learn to love life today! If you meet a man, just hanging out at a bar- what will his interests in life be? Think he's a go-getter? He could be hot- but the odds that he likes what you like are slim! Sure- be open to dating- but let it be something you'll accept, if it's right for you, and if it fits your dreams (all of them- not just the dream of being a wife, mother, etc). And if he is Ever less interested in you- back off. If he comes back, great (you Only want a man who's Equally vested- period! Imagine being married and he's chasing other tail...)- but now, stay on your guard. You (every last one of you) are unique! You don't want to be wanted by Lonely-at-the-Moment man. Love your life. A mature, masculine, Man- wants to pursue a confident, passionate, life loving woman! If he doesn't pursue you- he either isn't interested in what makes you unique (which means you will never have enough in common to make a relationship work), he's not emotionally ready, or he's looking to play the field! Do you want any of those men?... This guy has far More information- and from what I know so far, it's pretty solid- but the core is all above. There are millions of people living unhappily ever after... only a man who appreciates your dreams and is equally vested in the relationship (with the same agenda you have) is going to make you Happier.Read more ›
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90 of 103 people found the following review helpful By Ama Su Nilia on February 16, 2013
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Hussey is a terrific communicator and has the ability to convey meaning while still being fun. Thus, the book is well structured, easy to read, entertaining, and full of great advice regarding flirting, attracting and approaching men, dating and getting a man to commit. He gives plenty of tips and items of advice that work in real life (proven by me!).

Hussey has a great insight into the male dating mind, so he is able to provide women with great advice that resonates with both women and men. Moreover, he treats women with respect and tells us to treat ourselves with self-respect, not to lose our marbles and lower our standards for any man who is not worth of us. The concept of high-value woman is empowering and so very true. Hussey doesn't tell you to play games or fake who you are, but to be true to yourself, have standards, behave like a lady, have a life of your own, and be fun and playful.

The book contains some free bonus links to some of his videos, which are really useful. I am not into any of programs or anything, though, so you don't have to buy anything.

The main down of the book comes when Hussey goes back to his former pick up artist and comes with "lines" to repeat or say. We are not what we say, but how we behave and who we are.

Still, a very good dating book.
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58 of 70 people found the following review helpful By Katie_editor4u on April 22, 2013
Format: Hardcover
So okay, like every sappy woman in America, I got hooked into Ready For Love. There are numerous match-making reality TV shows, which have their value and their ridiculousness, that offer both good and misleading points on dating and finding The One. This is one of those books (or rather, any book on dating, which seems more 'serious' than a laughable and silly reality TV show) that you have to buy in secret or borrow from one of your single girlfriends because if anybody knew you had possession of such a book, that horrid and dreadful high-brow look of, why can't you get a guy, looms like a freaking rain cloud you can't shake.

Woe to the dating life and n-o-t Getting the Guy. I've always found these types of books, occupations, TV shows, etc, as being rather manipulative and encouraging women, as much as men, to show a hyper-idealized IMAGE and strive to be that image. It's a huge business, feeding into the fear and preying on the insecurities of women, and men, alike. I'm not entirely removed from my original hypothesis even after reading this book but I didn't find it a waste of time and even chuckled here and there. Rom-coms and romance novels notwithstanding, dating is about psychology as much as about the superficiality of appearances and the earnest perceptions coming into meeting men and dating in general. What we get in Hussey's book is less about manipulation (and there's still elements of inherent manipulation) but more about interpretation and building confidence through understanding how men work and how they do. It's also about bringing what You've got to the table and taking it or leaving it, for both sides.

Hussey (and what a fantastic name, by the way...
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