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Get In Her Mind, Get In Her Bed

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This book is terrible. I'm not saying this because I have my own book to push or because the teachings didn't work for me. I'm saying this because it is a poorly written book with very little useful information. I have some educated friends who never learned to write or speak proper English. The authors of this book are no different. I am patient and understanding with my friends because they are not writers. But the authors of this book are actually selling a product that is a written work. I can't believe someone would sell a book without proofreading it. Absolutely horrible! They should be ashamed of themselves.

The title seemed so promising too. I wish I could steal the title and write my own book that actually told you how to get into a woman's mind and into her bed. But this book is more like a guide to become better-than-average with women without any predictable results. Seriously, here is a quick synopsis: use confident body language, wait for a woman to send "yes" signals to you (I can't believe it either), introduce yourself, build sexual chemistry. That's it.

They mention NLP, but they never actually TEACH anything about NLP other than to mention the three different ways to process information and the general concept of anchoring. I know this sounds accusatory, but it seems like some average guys (the authors) read the back covers of a bunch of books, wrote a few paragraphs each, threw them together in an unorganized fashion, repeated information over and over to make the book longer, added some drinking games and recipes to make it longer, and then printed it without even proofreading. I'm disgusted.

Vary elementary if you a teenager this book will help you ,it had only a small bit of good advice for me .If your older than 25 skip this book.

This is a great book - it sort of speaks right out of my heart. Great insights of the female mind and loaded with practical examples. This book WILL get you far with women if you follow it ( tried by myself ), however there's one thing missing it would help a lot:

Tecniques for us guys to overcome our approach fears, maybe good exercises to boost confidence.

if im being honest i have never really been good at talking to girls. i was kind of scared of them. i have bought several books like this in hopes that i could eventually get a girlfriend. i recently bought this book and i thought it was great. the authors were quite funny and had a good way of explaining and relating the information. i have noticed since reading this book that my confidence has gone up. not just with girls but with everything. on the outside this book appears to be just about getting sex, but it is so much more. i still havent got a girlfriend but i have been out on a few dates which isnt a normal thing for me. i have a date later this week with a girl i asked out from class, something i have never done before. i really like her and hope this works out. thank you nick and taylor for showing me just how easy it is to successfully interact with girls.

The thing I enjoyed most about this book was that it gave a very brief, very basic introduction to topics relating to seduction I am not an expert on, but want to be. I am mostly referring to the section on NLP. While not thorough, the book gives just enough information for the reader to see that studying NLP really can come in handy in social situations.

But what I also found is that the book tries to be all things to all poeple. From NLP to drink recipes. Wow. That covers quite a broad spectrum. While I appreciated the tidbits of info, I found myself wanting to put down this book and go seek out others that were specifically about those topics.

I suppose the main thing that bothered me was the tone of the book. While I did find a lot of the advice helpful, I also felt uncomfortable with the idea of trying to control the women or control the situation. If done wrong, a woman can pick on this and either think you're a jerk or a psycho. There's a fine line between wanting to take charge and wanting to dominate.

A book I found that was better suited for the "nice guy approach" was How to Approach Hot Women, Date Them, & Have Lots of Sex...Without Being an Asshole.

Not to say this book was bad, but it's definitely not the holy grail.

I was a big fan of The Game it was a great read but that's all it was. One mans story of how he went from an AFC to one the best known PUAs. The only problem I had with it, was it taught me very little. It only hit on key subjects, but it really didn't teach me anything, not many examples. This is where this book comes in, it is a step by step guide taking you through all the various aspects, from recognizing body language and flirtatious signals, to approaching and starting conversation, how to get the phone number or properly close. It also includes a section of random tips to make you stand out in any situation. If you liked The Game then get this book, it will answer all the questions The Game leaves you aksing.

Realizing that this book supposedly shows men how they can get laid I was expecting some ridiculous displays of masculinity. The authors did not only not disappoint but went beyond the call of duty in making women appear like meat. Combine that with the authors' juvenile stories, and their inferior writing style throughout the book, and what you get is a piece of writing that is a waste of money and hard drive space on any device. Sorry, I'd pass this one by and look for something in which the authors show a lot more respect for women and have outgrown adolescence.

Harald Weiss

I have read many books on this topic, mostly after reading a few the material tends to repeat itself. Like what women say ''It's not what you said but how you said it.'' In reguards to this particular book, the material is repeated but well worded and simple for the truthseeker out there. Well done.

This book is useful in dealing with women. If you struggle with confidence, then you can learn ways to meet women in this book.

I couldn't believe the title, or that fact that someone would actually write a book about sleeping with women. I found this lying in my brother bedroom as I was putting away his laundry, the cover is quite catchy and caught my eye. I was sickened at the thought that someone could create a "how to guide" on sleeping with women. But my curiosity got the best of me. While I love my brother to death, he was never really one who was good with girls. In fact the only date I remember him ever going on was with one of my girlfriends, whom I had to beg to go out with him. But something has changed in the last couple of weeks. He started dressing better, carrying himself with more confidence. He was no longer staying in his room but going out and meeting new people. Then something incredible happened. He brought home Amy, a cute little thing. They look so good together and I've never seen him happier. I still didn't know what changed him to act this way. I thought maybe drugs, but then I came across this book, and it was clear. While I figured it would be just another book degrading women, treating them like sex objects, I learned, so much about attraction, and the hidden signals women and men give to each other, I found myself laughing saying "Yeah I do this to guys all the time." The stories are entertaining enough where before I knew it I had read the entire book. Something I have never done. This is so much more then just a guide to getting girls in bed, but how to create relationships and establish yourself in all areas of life. I know for my brother it was like night and day, and if this can turn his life around, it will work for anyone.