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Get a Life, Then Get a Man: A Single Woman's Guide

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This book was a fantastic alternative to the usual dating advise books. As a person that normally makes fun of dating books, the title caught my eye automatically. The book gives helpful advise to promote your own self assurance in this world far before trying to rely on a man to get everything for you. I highly recommend this book to woman of any age. I have given it as gifts to graduating teens and business women alike.

While she doesn't reinvent the wheel, Bawden's book is pretty funny and informative. When you take into account that the woman who wrote THE RULES is now getting divorced, this book makes good sense. If you're single, and don't want to be, this is certainly worth a look. It only costs a few bucks, and if you meet one good person because of the advice found here, that's a solid investment. Oh, and men can benefit from some of what's in here, too.

How often do women hear from their mothers and other females when they are going to get married or why don't you have a boyfriend? And what are the reasons for getting a man? In my past and present experience, I have listened to relatives and friends tell me I need a man when I am trying to build a life for myself. A man is no guarantee that your life will be complete. I am in my twenties and living with my family. I don't have a boyfriend and am not in the position of looking for one. It seems to me that the only way to get a life is to get a man instead of being on your own. As women, we need to build our own lives before even allowing a man to enter ours. I am glad that Ms. Bawden has written a book for the single female who is looking for love without having to lose herself.

This is my first time on here reviewing a book and I specifically came on this site today because of this one in particular. Love of self is absolutely necessary before you can expect to love you as a person and this book goes into more depth of details and even includes a wonderful screening process on pages 76-80 where you can check off certain characteristics and make a list of those you desire in a boyfriend/mate. I also used it as a process to see what I see in myself as a woman and had my friends check off the qualities that they see in me and those I need to work on. That is something that Jennifer Bawden recommends you do in order to see what qualities we need to work on as a person in order to contribute to a relationship without being blinded by our faults. I could probably write here all day but I do want to say that I always go back for further reminders that I need to remember because sometimes (not always) we lose a sense of ourselves in our relationships because we have certain expectations....this book shows that you are responsible for the relationship and have a choice....never have expectations and you will always be pleasantly surprised....oh, and dont jump into a serious relationship first without taking it slow. Good Luck!

I must admit, I approached this book with some cynicism - after all, so many of the so-called self-help books on this subject are little more than the lame bleatings of middle-aged soccer moms who've suddenly discovered Prozac.
This tract is different. Laced with sublety of thought and incisive wit, Jennifer Bawden cuts to the heart of what it means to be a modern women with her own hopes, dreams and above all, ambitions. It is a practical and straightforward manifesto on how to not only define what you want, but also on how to get it.
Clearly articulated and incisive, this book is catalyst for any woman to develop courage and desire to truly change her life and I have no hesitation in giving it my unqualified recommendation.

This book is not just about "getting a man". In fact, that is one tiny commodity you can acquire from taking in the information Ms. Bawden speaks of. I don't mean merely reading the book and thinking about the suggestions offered. I'm refering to a project of allowing the words to become saturated in the brain, to become soaked-up like a sponge, and to be utilized in life. This is no "Rules" dating book. This book has integrity and a passion for life. It is truly about changing the way you look at yourself, gaining confidence, and not settling for anything less than what you deserve.

Ms. Bawden is eloquent in her quest to inform us all on life and men. You can't get a man without getting a life first! Quality is key! Who doesn't want to live a life of quality?

This book really reinforces the key to being able to get a man and keep him - getting your own life first. I'm sure I will be able to use alot of the tips in this book. A great read for any single woman.

In this book, Jennifer's advice sheds light on countless dimly lit areas of relationships in general. It's good for both women and men to read because the information helps tremendously in all facets of life for both sexes. To me the book is about attaining and applying a healthy perspective. A must read!

Jennifer Bawden's book is extremely helpful in motivating women to listen to themsleves instead of to cultural programming. It is the foundation I wish I had had earlier in my life to tell me I could really be all I wanted to be and that relationships should be something we co-create...something that is just one component of a fulfilling life. The author's perspective is very healthy and women of all ages should listen up!

Ms. Bawden has really captured the spirit of today's women with her focus on getting a life - establishing personal power, and then translating that to finding and fitting a man in that life. This is real hands on advice, from how to begin to what to do if you find yourself with a man you truly respect and like. I give it two thumbs up, a remarkable book that counteracts some of the other advice books for single women.