Get Your Power Back: Find and Remove the Underlying Conditions That Destroy Love and Sabotage Your Life [Paperback]

Bill Ferguson (Author)

Book Description

Publication Date: January 2008

When a relationship or any other area of life isn’t working, there will always be an underlying condition of resisting or hanging on that is creating the problem. It destroys your ability to see clearly and forces you to act in a way that makes your situation worse.

This condition is created by the automatic, subconscious avoidance of a very specific childhood hurt. It destroys love and sabotages your life. Any area of life that doesn’t work can be traced to this hurt.

Until this hurt is healed and the condition removed, you will be forced to repeat the past. This incredibly profound book walks you through the process of finding and removing these incredibly destructive core issues. The result is more love, more effectiveness, and a much more enjoyable life.

--This text refers to the Kindle Edition edition.

Product Details

• Paperback: 131 pages
• Publisher: Return to the Heart (January 2008)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 1878410415
• ISBN-13: 978-1878410412
• Product Dimensions: 8.4 x 5.5 x 0.5 inches
• Shipping Weight: 9.1 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (2 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #439,034 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

Customer Reviews

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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Childhood hurt can stay forever, November 30, 2008

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SONJA B. MONTGOMERY "Breathe, breathe, breathe" (San Antonio, TX) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: Get Your Power Back: Find and Remove the Underlying Conditions That Destroy Love and Sabotage Your Life (Paperback)

Bill Furguson is simply amazing. He hit the hammer right on the nail with this one. He describes how all our current upset stems from an early childhood hurt, which still tends us to be triggered, apparently by others, recreating the pain and hurt. Feeling unworthy, unloved, like a failure, etc. Bill provides the reader with information, examples, and thought provoking questions. This is an easy read, but I recommend after reading it the first time, to go back and really do the exercises. Start the healing and get past the hurt. I am recommending this book to many of my clients and hope that they will find a new way to view the world.

2 of 2 people found the following review helpful:

4.0 out of 5 stars good Self Help, May 18, 2009

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Bonnie Neely - See all my reviews
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This review is from: Get Your Power Back: Find and Remove the Underlying Conditions That Destroy Love and Sabotage Your Life (Paperback)

Get Your Power Back by Bill Ferguson In this simple to read self-help book the author, who has been featured on "Oprah" tells how you can identify the areas of your life in which you are stuck with the same pattern of feeling hurt or angry and ending up in a situation that makes you feel unloved and unhappy. He stresses that we cause these things ourselves. The solution is to realize that each time we experience these negative feelings is to realize it is striking a nerve from a past experience in which we were hurt. As adults we don't want to remember consciously or face that unresolved hurt so we hide it from ourselves and it continues to rear its ugly head and repeat the hurt and undermine our relationships. If we uncover the hidden hurt from the past and face it, it will be removed forever. This helps us live in control of our lives, experiences, relationships, and feelings. The book tells exactly how to do this. It is a must for everyone who experiences a sabotaged relationship with self or others.