Carter sees eight hurdles between you and the relationship you deserve. He deftly analyzes each problem, points out self-destructive nonsolutions, and explains the steps necessary to break the barrier. For example, one hurdle is blaming your partners' shortcomings for the failure of previous relationships. Breaking the pattern involves seeing how you choose particular partners and self-destruct in relationships--going from blame to responsibility. Other hurdles include relationship-history ghosts, living in fantasy, and ineffective behavior patterns. "If we are to experience intimacy, our hearts have to be brave as well as loving," says Carter. Getting to Commitment will help you find that courage. Highly recommended. --Joan Price --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.
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Great book- have recommended to clients and used in my work with 20 something's who are having difficulty committing!Published 9 days ago by A. Bruno
As I was reading I kept thinking, yep, that's me. Yep, I do that. This book has been instrumental to me in making sense why I've been behaving the way I have. There is help!Published 15 days ago by Lisa Tucker
Well written, use as a handbook, can really identify with his experience. Didn't find the examples of couples that helpful, but the book is like going to therapy, recommend!Published 25 days ago by Carol R.
I needed this book 20 years ago! Excellent analysis of commitment issues and relationship anxiety. Must read for anyone looking for love!Published 1 month ago by J. Miele
Another great book by the authors. Practical, personal advice for anyone in the dating world.Published 3 months ago by Art R.
Looooooove this book. Will be a reference for taking my commitment temperature for a while. Much easily-read insight into and advice for the commitment-queasy.Published 4 months ago by Erin
This book is very insightful for me. It gives us explanations and SOLUTIONS, if you are ready to work on it. Read morePublished 4 months ago by Chrystel Turcotte