Getting Through the Day: Strategies for Adults Hurt As Children [Hardcover]

Nancy J. Napier (Author)

Book Description

Publication Date: June 1993

The author of Recreating Your Self offers survival strategies for adults who were abused--verbally, physically, or sexually--as young children and need help managing those unresolved feelings.

Editorial Reviews

Review

An insightful, compassionate, practical and readable guide for survivors of hurtful childhoods. (Gloria Steinem )

This book provides valuable tools for adults abused as children. The title is too modest. The techniques provided not only help 'get through the day' but also empower the reader to gradually mitigate and eventually overcome the effects of painful past experiences. (Yvonne M. Dolan, author of Resolving Sexual Abuse )

Nancy Napier has added to the healing literature for adult survivors of childhood trauma. . . . In reading this book, I continuously thought of how useful it would be to any of my current patients. (Christine A. Courtois, Ph.D., author of Healing the Incest Wound ) --This text refers to the Paperback edition.

About the Author

Nancy J. Napier is a marriage and family therapist in private practice in New York City. She is a former president of the New York Society for the Study of Multiple Personality and Dissociative Disorders, a board member of the New York Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, and a past board member of the New York Milton H. Erickson Society for Psychotherapy and Hypnosis. She is the author of several books, including Sacred Practices for Conscious Living. --This text refers to the Paperback edition.

Product Details

• Hardcover: 303 pages
• Publisher: W W Norton & Co Inc; 1st edition (June 1993)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0393035182
• ISBN-13: 978-0393035186
• Product Dimensions: 8.2 x 5.9 x 1.3 inches
• Shipping Weight: 1 pounds
• Average Customer Review: 4.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (15 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,658,644 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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31 of 31 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Napier's book has become a security blanket for me!, July 13, 1998

By A Customer

This review is from: Getting Through the Day: Strategies for Adults Hurt as Children (Paperback)

This book is a must-have for anyone who used dissociative strategies to survive physical, emotional, or sexual abuse as a child; their therapists, and support people. Napier does an outstanding job of explaining what it means to be dissociative, and how to cope with it. She also offers advice for multiple personalities.

A particularly useful chapter covers how to find a therapist and what the therapist-client relationship should be.

I have purchased copies for members of my support family as the book does an excellent job of demystifying dissociation and multiplicity.

26 of 27 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Real Help When Day-to-Day Living is a Struggle, January 22, 2003

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E. Myers (Southern CA, United States) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: Getting Through the Day: Strategies for Adults Hurt as Children (Paperback)

Sometimes daily life feels like climbing a hill through molasses. Even those who don't have MPD may have inner children (teenagers, pseudo-adults) who seem to be at war with each other, or extreme emotional reactions left over from childhood. This book has a wealth of strategies for soothing those inner selves in the context of the demands of daily living. If that was all, that would be enough for me to recommend this book, because I don't know of another book on the market that deals with practical strategies for daily life in terms of these inner selves (with suggestions for those who do have MPD). But I also appreciate the empathetic tone of the book. Sometimes that kind of tone, however well-meant, can come off as sappy or condescending, but I felt that here it was warm and sincere. I'd also like to recommend two other books: "How to Love Yourself When You Don't Know How" and "Internal Family Systems Therapy." Both are wonderful books about these inner selves and how they function in us. And while they don't deal with the day-to-day struggles and strategies that this book does, they are also resources for exploring the subpersonality issues that affect so many of us.

30 of 33 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Relief may be found within these pages!, February 25, 2001

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Brenda "Brenda" (Atlanta GA USA) - See all my reviews

This review is from: Getting Through the Day: Strategies for Adults Hurt as Children (Paperback)

Time and time again, I have come back to this book for grounding. For validation. For understanding. For direction...and it never lets me down. It is true that the author of a book can only... really.... take you as far as he/she has gone themselves! This books leads the way to what all other self-help books should aspire too! Absence of ego and a genuine sense and practical advice on how to move from point A to point B! I can not reccomend this book highly enough! Out of all the other books that I have on the subject...... this one... hands down... is the one that sits upon my night-stand! It is invaluable!!!!!