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The Gift of a Year: How to Achieve the Most Meaningful, Satisfying, and Pleasurable Year of Your Life

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This book is truly inspiring. I am ordering 3 more books to give as gifts to dear women friends who are all experiencing the same "emptiness" that has invaded my life. I seem to have it all: the degrees, the family, the relative financial security that the above all bring, but I have lost myself somewhere along the way. "Quiet desperation", but not knowing why. I have FOUND my answer by reading this book. It isn't magic, it isn't "hocus-pocus", it is identifying ME in my world, and taking a year to re-discover what makes me tick, what made me dream, what made me ME so many years ago. In the process, I'm already becoming a better mother, wife, friend, "employee" ... A MUST READ! Each woman inside herself has a spark, so many of us have let our other-self and other-roles smother that spark. No more. Give yourself the gift of this book, and then the gift of a year to regain that sparkle.

Mira Kirshenbaum spoke to the suffocating woman inside of me. I know she speaks to all women when she asks, "how does a part of yourself ever turn up missing in the first place?"

This was a gift from my mother for my 25th birthday. As a wife, full-time working mother of a four year old and all around self-inflicted super woman, I had a "sense" that a small part of me (okay a huge part) was slowly drowning in that turbulent sea we call everyday life. I trusted & loved my mother enough that if she felt it was important to give this book to me - than perhaps I better read it. I couldn't have anticipated the amazing transformation my soul would undergo. Through reading this book I was given the tools to find a center again that was in me, rather than outside of myself. I have a renewed anticipation of the wonders my life has to offer me. I have now purchased four copies to give to my closests friends, including my mother. I truly feel that it is that crucial and rewarding for all women to read this book.

If you THINK you need to regain your spirit at the start of this book you'll KNOW you need to by the end.

Be prepared to have a few good crys and to have a weight lifted from your shoulders, namely the world. You really can breathe again and she'll show you how.

I'd give this 5 stars but I haven't finished it yet. What I have read, however, is a powerful statement and justification of taking some time off for yourself and how that can be done regardless of the demands on your time. The biggest obstacle in our way is our reluctance to be selfish - putting ourselves first for a change and realizing that if we don't take care of us, we really can't take proper care of anyone or anything else.

I'm looking forward to choosing the focus of my year and putting it into practice!

I loved this book and have read it over and over again. I think her idea of spending a year doing something you want to do is originally described in her book. What seemed novel to me was the idea of doing something as mundane as just taking a bubble bath every night. Some people might want to climb Mt. Everest, but most people wouldn't. She says some women might just want to rest! The Gift of a Year is just a great book to get you enthused about what you can do with your life in an easy, everyone can do it, sort of way. We need more of these types of books that talk about the possibilities that are out there, not just how to fix yourself. I highly recommend this book.

It's not just that there's nothing new under the sun -- there's nothing new here. I finished reading this yesterday, and today I can't remember one affirmative, original concept from the book. On the other hand, I read Stephen Levine's "A Year to Live" six months ago, and the concepts and images from that book are still crystal-clear in my mind. I'd skip Mira Kirshenbaum and go straight to the heart and soul -- Stephen Levine.

The Gift of a Year has given new meaning to my life. It is suitable for any woman, any age, because who hasn't asked themselves "What do I do next?" Ms. Kirschenbaum guided me to the answer - the one that was exactly right for me and I have no doubt she can do it for anyone at any time in their life. This year, I turned 50, closed a store I had in Michigan for 6 years, saw my son (age 19)go off to college at NYU and was helping my daughter (age 17) prepare for a summer internship in Marine Biology in Eleuthera, Bahamas, followed by a year abroad through FSU in Panama City, Panama. My babies flew the coop and for the first time ever, I had no plans in my life. I searched for all the empty nest syndrome books I could find, but not one of them seemed exactly right for me. I don't have that syndrome. I just didn't know what I wanted to do with the "second half" of my life. I had already had my career writing and editing for newspapers, raised the kids, worked at a bookstore before opening my own and now what? I always liked to create with arts,crafts, etc., but had no time to do it while running a store. Enter The Gift of a Year - approximately two chapters into this gem of a book, I decided...I was going to spend my year creating one thing every day. It might be artwork, an article of clothing, or simply cupcakes! In that instant my attitude changed and I became alive again. I bought a notebook in case I thought or heard of something profound that I wanted to save, I made a new salad recipe from the tomatoes in my backyard and then...I passed the book on to my friend who is in much the same situation. I insisted she take the time to read it, skim it and even offered to have her sit back and I would read it to her...she is that stressed. So, my eternal thanks to Ms. Kirchenbaum for giving me the insight to look forward to the next however many years I have and I now rise with gratitude for the next twenty-four hours I have upon me. Thank you Ms Kirschenbaum!

I stumbled upon this gem at a used book sale. Just reading it made me feel as if a huge burden had been lifted off of my shoulders, and the benefits continue as I implement what I have learned.

Mira Krishenbaum does two incredible things with this book. First, she really articulates how it is that women (this book is directed to women - though I'd love to see the guys get one of their own) can easily find themselves feeling as if they are not really present in their own lives. Even the most fortunate and grateful among us (that would be me) can wind up with that "Is that all there is?" feeling, and wondering how that could be. But even better, she shows you how to get to the solution...your solution is unique as you are, and, and least in my case, was amazingly easy to find. Seriously, within hours I went from feeling like I was sort of plodding through a lot of my life, to knowing exactly how to give myself the energy and passion I was craving.

I love how the author addresses challenges that are very common for women without any "poor us" victim language. This is a down to earth, practical, "Let's get this problem solved" approach that is amazingly powerful.

I am SO grateful to have found this. I've given four copies to friends (so far).

Sometimes it just takes a year to regain one's self. I bought this book for my girlfriend who is taking a year off to "regroup" while just concentrating on HER ! I guess we all need a break. She says this book is wonderful.