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Goodbye Good Girl : Letting Go of THE RULES and Taking Back Your Self [Paperback]

Eileen M. Clegg (Author), Susan F. Swartz (Author)
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May 1998
Good Girls aim to please. And they know all the rules--the rules that dictate what's becoming for a woman to be and do and what's unacceptable. Good girls usually also have a pretty accurate sense of exactly how much it costs them to live up to those rules and be just as beautiful and sucessful and supportive and unthreatening as all daughters and wives and mothers and career women are supposed to be.

The women whose stories are told in this book are pioneers who cahllenged the old rules and found the freedom to rediscover themselves. Some has experiences that transformed them and gave them the courage to revise an old self-image or let go of an unrealistic fantasy and just be themselves. Others sought out opportunities for change, and still others were faced with an unexpected crisis that forced them to make a break with their former lives.

Meeting the dozens of women they interviewed for the book confirmed what the authors learned from their own experience; it may be scary to challenge the rules, but the results can be astonishing, inspiring, and well worth the struggle.


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  • Paperback: 208 pages
  • Publisher: New Harbinger Publications (May 1998)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1572241063
  • ISBN-13: 978-1572241060
  • Product Dimensions: 8.9 x 6 x 0.7 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 7.2 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (6 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #2,218,556 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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5.0 out of 5 stars Feminism made fun. Empowerment without the angry overtones., September 6, 1998
This review is from: Goodbye Good Girl : Letting Go of THE RULES and Taking Back Your Self (Paperback)
I loved the title of the book the minute I saw it. I was never a "good girl" in action, but I always felt shameful because of it. This book takes a new look at old roles. Reading it was fun and uplifting. There are plenty of personal stories and I identified with most of them.

This book encourages the reader to break out of old, limiting roles but doesn't lay the blame on you or anyone else for being stuck in those roles in the first place. I read the book in about a week, very easy to read, very friendly style. I recommend it.

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5.0 out of 5 stars Good heavens, what a great book!, January 14, 2002
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GOODBYE GOOD GIRL is a delightful adventure of a book! Wit and humour sometimes are the best way to tackle difficult subjects such as: how to be true to one's self and to the world without becoming entangled in the myriad expectations of other people.

In my book group, most of us had experience with one or another (and sometimes all) of the issues addressed in this book- the drive for perfection, pressure to find the "ideal relationship", body image, balancing work/home, how to take care of ourselves while still being responsive to those who depend on us for their wellbeing and productivity,etc.

The wisdom comes through in these personal stories. These voices put into words what we feel but sometimes cannot articulate. Perhaps, more depth would have been appreciated in some areas but it was useful to have all these issues brought together and defined as the "good girl syndrome". My friends ane I now have a "bad girls bench" where we take "timeouts" so that we can continue to function optimally - believe me, it really helps.

For people who (due to gender, generation or sheer iron will) have never struggled with good girl issues - you may not not need this book but I hope you realize that your grandmothers, mothers and even your daughters may not be so lucky!

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5.0 out of 5 stars *Goodbye Good Girl* serves spunky advice in a readable way., October 9, 1998
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The stories in this book are often familiar, sometimes painfully so, especially to those of us who grew up thinking that being a woman meant always "playing nice." But the women who talked to Swartz and Clegg have given us a way out, and their stories of change both delight and inspire. I especially liked the epigrams which frame each chapter. Do yourself a favor--curl up with this book and then share it with your best friend!
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