How do you deal with the death of a pet? And how can you explain that death to a child? These end-of-life issues are difficult for all of us to understand and even more so when a child is involved. Goodbye, Jake tackles them head on.
Jake, his grandparents' beloved greyhound, is dying, and Cole is trying to understand what it will be like to say goodbye to him and to have him die. On Saturdays he visits Grammy and Pop but this Saturday is marred because he knows Jake is very sick. Following his usual Saturday activities, Grammy takes him in to visit with Jake, who is lying on his fuzzy, blue bed. She helps him say goodbye to a dog he knows he won't see again. On the following Saturday, Cole is sad that Jake isn't there, but Grammy takes him to visit the Memory Garden, where all her dogs are buried. She explains that every time she has a good memory of a dog she puts a stone on the dog's grave. She invites Cole to think of a good memory he has of Jake and then put a stone on the grave. The next week Cole brings a special stone to put on Jake's grave to honor a special memory. Then Cole can run off with a lighter heart to breakfast on his favorite chocolate-chip waffles.
Schildkraut approaches the issue of a pet's death with sensitivity and warmth. She gets the child involved with the animal, honors the boy's feelings and fears, and then shows him a way to turn his sadness into something positive. The idea of using ritual to help heal after a pet's death is beautifully handled and provides parents with a coping mechanism they can use when they talk with their children about this difficult subject. The soft, watercolor illustrations by Whitney Martin set the perfect tone for the story and add texture to the words. Written for young children, it is a book that will touch adults as well. Goodbye, Jake is an outstanding addition to children's books on death and how to discuss it. I highly recommend it to parents, libraries and anyone facing the trauma of a pet's death. - N. Marano