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Sam J. Buser, Ph.D., has worked directly with men and men's issue for the past 25 years. He is past-president of the Texas Psychological Association and member of the American Psychological Association's Division 51 Society for the Psychological Study of Men and Masculinity. He is an adjunct faculty member at the University of Houston. Glenn F. Sternes, Ph.D. is an expert in the field of human sexuality and teaches graduate courses on the subject.
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  • Series: Guys-Only Guides
  • Paperback: 349 pages
  • Publisher: Bayou Publishing (January 1, 2008)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1886298327
  • ISBN-13: 978-1886298323
  • Product Dimensions: 6 x 0.8 x 9 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 14.4 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (7 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #709,914 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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I checked this book out of the library and am now buying it after reading a couple of chapters because I want it back on the library shelf to help more chumps like me.

It is written by guys who know divorce and the agonies we go through. It tells us how to act and why and how not to act and why for the benefit of both ourselves and our kids. It says that time is absolutly on our side and helps us to get to that better day with integrity and resilience. It is not watered down pablum. It is strong medicine for our devastated psyches.

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I read the chapters that pertained to my situation (60% of the book) and could relate very well to what the authors where trying to communicate. The book does an excellent job of focusing on what the guy goes through, and how to handle all types of situations the divorced guy will encounter. The authors also do a good job of laying out what the potential "gotchas" are and how to avoid them.

A wide range of subjects are discussed in a chapter format that is organized almost like a reference manual (a good thing for a man). So if you want some insight into dating again, there is a chapter on that. If you would rather explore information on the awkward time when you and your X are not officially divorced yet but co-habitating theres a chapter on that. Its easy to get to what is important to you at the moment in this book, without having to read the whole thing. As a result I have went back to this book several times as my situation matures and my needs have changed.
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There are hundreds of guides to help women get over marriages gone wrong, but what of the not-so-fair sex? "The Guys-Only Guide to Getting Over Divorce: And On With Life, Sex, and Relationships" is a guide aimed at men who, despite the stereotypical image, may have issues at dropping years-long or even decades-long relationships. With advice on starting over, seeking a possible soulmate, and how to avoid making the same mistakes twice, "The Guys-Only Guide to Getting Over Divorce" is something to be strongly considered by any man in need of a little extra push to move on.
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I am a Board Certified Family Law attorney in Tarrant County, TX. I have been in practice 28 years and I have had over a thousand of male clients. There is not one of these clients that would not have befitted from this book. The advice is so good, at least the part that relates to the legal aspects of separation and divorce. The rest of the advice appears to be very good as well, however I am limited in evaluating some of it due to my gender. Actually, a number of the chapters women need to be reading as well.

I would recommend that you purchase this book and read it as early as you come across it, whether or not you think you will actually seek divorce. The beginning chapters of the book, if taken to heart, might actually avoid an unwanted divorce.

Regarding the legal aspects of divorce-The law tells us how to divide "stuff" and allocate debts, how to divide parenting time and parenting decisions. But you know, it doesn't deal with the fact that the major component of divorce is relational . . . and emotional. This book is very good in explaining the emotional aspects and response options into making sound legal decisions.

There is so much information on the legal process and co-parenting that reading this before seeking an attorney will give you a better chance of understanding what result you want in your divorce. (This is not as easy as you might think) It will also assist in selecting an attorney whose goals are better aligned with yours. Buser and Sternes are conversational in imparting the information. (The book is based on Q and A) And, they say so much that I tell my clients. I would be happy if my clients had been exposed to this type of advice before they see me. People pay thousands of dollars for divorce and modification legal services.
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