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Hardest Times: The Trauma of Long-Term Unemployment, January 11, 2007
I purchased this title as part of an effort to understand what happened to my family when my father was fired and was subsequently unable to replace his job. The book was almost unbearably sad to read, but it rang absolutely true to the way I remember this crisis and its effect on my father and our family, especially the overwhelming sense of shame we all lived with. Mr. Cottle lists his research and statistics in the first chapter, and then he simply tells stories of trauma experienced by the various men he interviewed. The stories haunt you long after you've put the book back on the shelf. They make you wonder how to really help these men and their families. And you're also left with a more compassionate view of the long-term unemployed. They aren't lazy, useless folks to be disposed of, but human beings with souls who have experienced what amounts to a life tragedy. They need our compassion, not our judgment.
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Vividly describes the pain of long term unemployment in adult males. Somewhat outdated with a sexist bend ending depressingly., May 15, 2011
I must say this is not the best choice one could make on how to cope with the impact of long term unemployment particularly if you are a woman. Frankly, it's rather depressing ending with the words "And although the plant and the man continue to stand, everyone recognizes they are moribund. At last there is nothing to do but raze the plant and bury the man."
The book was published in 2001 when unemployment was nowhere near as high as it is today and, therefore, statistics cited are obviously long outdated. The author does not explain until Chapter 9 The Shame of Unemployment that "The purpose of the book has been to make the reader aware of the stories of long-term unemployed men living at a time when the U.S. economy is seen to be flourishing."
In the Preface of this book the author carefully explains "I have focused attention in this volume on stories of men out of work. This focus should not be interpreted, however, as a disinterest in the stories of long-term unemployed women and the profound meanings unemployment has for them as well. If work is a central feature in the development of a man's identity and sense of personal satisfaction, a theme explored later on, then it is for woman as well, but this exploration is reserved for another volume." Oh, really? It has been ten (10) years since this book came out and I for one know of no such subsequent book addressing the heavy impact unemployment has on women. In a way a distinction seems irrelevant. The author speaks many times about men being head of households, main breadwinners, the financial mainstay of the family. These days however many households are headed by single mother breadwinners who shoulder just as heavy (if not heavier) financial burdens as the men the author writes about.
This book is outstanding, however, in depicting how very painful long term unemployment can be "when society rebuffs the very people who have led their lives decently and anonymously, and want only to work in order to earn their living, in all meanings of the word." The author continues in the Epilogue that "The accounts depict what happens to people who forever remain loyal to laws and moral order, and who, when they knew steady employment, complained little about things having to do with life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness."
I particulary liked Chapter 10 The Trauma of Unemployment when the author made a possible connection to the Elisabeth Kubler-Ross classical research on death and dying. In this model the "Kubler-Ross stages of coping mechanisms exhibited by people with terminal illnesses become particularly interesting to review when considering the lives of the long-term unemployed, who, not so incidentally, are labeled terminally unemployed....In the Kulber-Ross' fifth and final coping stage, the terminally ill patient allegedly achieves some form of acceptance. At this juncture, anger and depression recede, if not vanish completely, and one begins to accept one's fate. Acceptance of this sort, and with it the release of anger and depression, hardly guarantees happiness or serenity. In fact, Kubler-Ross was quick to assert that acceptance may be experienced as an absence of feeling."
Although I did not find this book helpful in coping with my own long term unemployment I think it does very accurately describe how painful this state can be. I was looking, however, for a book that would teach me how to cope with such pain. In this I find the book falls short.
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