Harem Girl: A Harem Girl’s Journal [Paperback]

M. Saalih (Author)

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Harems and harem stories have been through the ages the stuff of fantasies for women and yearnings for men. Saalih unblushingly builds on the fantasy, revealing and sharing her intimate encounters and sensuous thoughts.

Her story arises out of historical fact skilfully overlaid with fiction, and separating one from the other is impossible, and adds to the fascination. How did she acquire this intimate and revealing knowledge? You have to wonder if Saalih ever lived in a harem as the details, for instance, of the preparation and dress of slave girls is exquisite, and were harem girls really required to do the things described! And what about Sheik Ali bin Shareef al-Saalih. Did he really love her in the end.

The story is the memoir of Mariyah El-Abiad, born in Tunisia of French and Arab parents, educated and beautiful. It starts when she is fourteen years old and ends when she is forty. Married at the age of sixteen through an arranged marriage she moves with her husband to Arabia to live with his mother and sisters. Unfortunately, she has a serious shortcoming for a Muslim wife-she is unable to conceive a child. Ostracized and ridiculed as a barren foreigner by her in-laws she seeks and finds relief outside of her new family-in the harem of sheik Ali. By deceit and cunning she enters his harem, supposedly for three months as a French language tutor, but she finds herself trapped there and spends the next 20 years of her life in his service, firstly as the lowly love slave Sapphira, and later as an esteemed member of his household. She finds deep love and fulfillment, but the secrets of her past threaten to end her happiness when they are uncovered and she faces the cruel punishment prescribed for female adulterers under Islamic law.

So well written, and so well imagined, this is historical romance at its best-with a hot and steamy underside. Recommended for mature and broadminded adults-not for teenage daughters-or your mother.

--This text refers to the Kindle Edition edition.

About the Author

A metallurgist by training, a writer by inclination and default. Born in England, Mariyah Saalih travelled extensively in Europe and the Middle East before settling down in North America. A tour of the grand harem in the Alhambra Palace in Grenada inspired the writing of this first full length novel.

Product Details

• Paperback: 336 pages
• Publisher: iUniverse, Inc. (March 15, 2004)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0595313000
• ISBN-13: 978-0595313006
• Product Dimensions: 8.8 x 6 x 1 inches
• Shipping Weight: 1.2 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 3.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (16 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #832,410 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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42 of 46 people found the following review helpful:

4.0 out of 5 stars An Interesting Exercise in Orientalism, September 7, 2004

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Chris O'Malley (New York, NY United States) - See all my reviews

This review is from: Harem Girl: A Harem Girl’s Journal (Paperback)

The late Edward Said proposed in his theories of "Orientalism" that the Western world views the East through a filter of its own fantasies as a place of ruthless barbarism and luxurious sensuality, rather than as the complex and very human culture it actually is. While Said may at times be accused of oversimplifying his own view of the West, he does touch on some truths: "Exotic Love Secrets of the Orient" would almost certainly garner more sales in an American bookstore than would "Exotic Love Secrets of Topeka, Kansas."

"Harem Girl," complete with an eye-catching cover of an imaginary Arab slave market by Jean-Leon Gerome, gives us an interesting example of Orientalism. It purports to be the diary of one Mariyah/Sapphira, a disenchanted Muslim wife who concocts a plan to spend time in an Arabian slave harem, in which she becomes trapped and falls in love with her master. The story, of course, is first and foremost a way to describe life in the harem as a backdrop to a slave girl fantasy, with an emphasis on its sensual and sexual aspects. These are discussed in great detail, showing us that the author was diligent about her research. The writing is generally good as well, and the clever Forward and use of Arabic letters at the beginnings of the two main sections of the book are nice touches.

I had, however, two difficulties with "Harem Girl." First, because it is a Western sexual fantasy, it simply doesn't match up with actual Arab family behavior, which places a heavy emphasis on having children, and assigns status based on one's success in this regard. Sheik Ali's love of sex but disinterest in fathering a family until late in the book comes across as inauthentic for an Arab man of his time, as does the lack of interest in motherhood among the women of his harem. Other features of the sexual fantasy are also overemphasized: like many heroes in romance novels, Sheik Ali is filthy rich, meaning that Mariyah/Sapphira and the other slave girls get to spend a lot of time bathing and lounging around hoping to be called to the Sheik's bedroom that night for a good dose of that legendary and kinky oriental loving, but have few other duties or responsibilities. This is another misconception that can be seen in the paintings of harem life by Western artists of the 19th century, where attractive, fair-skinned women are shown lounging around nearly naked by the pool. The problem is that it's hard to find such characters interesting.

Which is the second difficulty with this book: it lacks tension. Life in the harem is too easy, lacking the backstabbing and intrigue commonly associated with the institution, and Mariyah/Sapphira's problems are not solved by her but instead by her handsome, rich Sheik. She displays a nice degree of independence and motivation to get herself into Sheik Ali's harem, but none whatsoever once she is there.

We must keep in mind, however, that the emphasis of this book is not anthropological or historical accuracy. It was written as a sexual fantasy for Western culture, and it is interesting in what it shows about that culture. Like all sexual fantasies it is quite specific in its target; it either will hit your button or it won't, much like Ann Rice's "Beauty" trilogy, John Norman's "Gor" series, or Karen Anne Mitchell's "The Usahar." So while I can't recommend "Harem Girl" as traditional literature, it does achieve its purpose as a fantasy. And if you are a fan of Edward Said and his views, I'd read it for that reason alone.

12 of 13 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars A fascinating sexy story. Both warm and disturbing., July 14, 2004

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Tony Eccles (Oakville, Ontario Canada) - See all my reviews

This review is from: Harem Girl: A Harem Girl’s Journal (Paperback)

I really liked this book because it is a totally believable story with a superb story line. Too often sheik/harem books are premised on unlikely events such as travel back in time or set on some unbelievable planet somewhere else in the universe. Not this story, however, as felt I was reading a true account of life in an Arabian harem in the early 1900's.

Mariyah the main character starts her adventure as a fourteen years old girl living in Tunisia and ends it in Arabia when she is forty. In the intervening years she is married, enters the harem of an Arab sheik as his slave Sapphira, falls in love and marries again. Therein lies a small but integral part of the plot-only she knows that she is already married to another man-until her deceit is discovered. How and why, as a married woman, she enters the harem of a sheik as a slave is an intriguing and cleverly woven story in itself, and what follows afterwards is both warm and harrowing. Expect to shed a tear or two.

I bought this book as a present for my wife. It was well received-as were the thanks the book inspired!

From the back cover:
HAREM GIRL is, at its heart, an engaging and erotic love story. Sapphira, beautiful and assured, tells in unblushing and sensuous detail of her journey through life, briefly as an innocent young girl in Tunisia, then as one of eleven slave girls in an Arabian sheikh's harem, where her life changes utterly. Shamelessly, she reveals the sheik's secrets of exotic lovemaking.

There is much to learn before she is ready to be "called" to her Master. Eunuchs train and instruct her in every facet of the art of pleasing a man.
..."on one hand, I looked forward to knowing these things, yet on the other, I was aghast at the way I had to show myself and the distasteful things I might have to do. It thoroughly unnerved me to realize that I must know a man in these ways-a man I scarcely knew"...

Her story of life in the harem is compelling and moving, revealing a level of lustful debauchery, submission, and decadence unimaginable today, but completely believable in the era in which it is set. And we feel...we imagine...we could be her, sharing her joy and tears, as intriguing, romantic, and sometimes-wretched events unfold.

But all is not as it first appears. She uncovers chinks in the sheik's cold and indifferent exterior. Hearts are vulnerable-even the strongest succumb-and gently they enter into the warm world of love between a man and a woman...and she steps across a forbidden boundary she had not imagined doing at the start.

Unknown to others, Sapphira harbors a dark and troubling past. Years later, when her unlawful secret is uncovered, her calmed life collapses, leaving her exposed to swift and cruel justice. With heartrending bravery, she climbs from the depths of deplorable anguish and gives us a story guaranteed to excite the senses and arouse emotions-in a pleasing way.

If you enjoy sheik/harem slave girl stories you will not be disappointed! However, note the sensible warning on the back cover:-"A book recommended for the mature and broad minded-not for teenage daughters." It is quite erotically explicit in parts, but tastefully written, not pornographic.

8 of 8 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Curl up with this one! A lovely read, December 11, 2005

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Joanne Hemming - See all my reviews

This review is from: Harem Girl: A Harem Girl’s Journal (Paperback)

I was at first a little concerned about the subject matter and whether the author had fallen into that oh so commom trap of writting pornography as pretense for erotisism. But not in this novel. Saalih has done a masterful job of writing tastefully and titillatingly about what inevitably has very sexy content and context - life in an Arabian harem - and I have no compunction whatsoever in wholeheartedly recommending this book. Read it with someone you want to undress!