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Harem Girl: A Harem Girl’s Journal

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The late Edward Said proposed in his theories of "Orientalism" that the Western world views the East through a filter of its own fantasies as a place of ruthless barbarism and luxurious sensuality, rather than as the complex and very human culture it actually is. While Said may at times be accused of oversimplifying his own view of the West, he does touch on some truths: "Exotic Love Secrets of the Orient" would almost certainly garner more sales in an American bookstore than would "Exotic Love Secrets of Topeka, Kansas."

"Harem Girl," complete with an eye-catching cover of an imaginary Arab slave market by Jean-Leon Gerome, gives us an interesting example of Orientalism. It purports to be the diary of one Mariyah/Sapphira, a disenchanted Muslim wife who concocts a plan to spend time in an Arabian slave harem, in which she becomes trapped and falls in love with her master. The story, of course, is first and foremost a way to describe life in the harem as a backdrop to a slave girl fantasy, with an emphasis on its sensual and sexual aspects. These are discussed in great detail, showing us that the author was diligent about her research. The writing is generally good as well, and the clever Forward and use of Arabic letters at the beginnings of the two main sections of the book are nice touches.

I had, however, two difficulties with "Harem Girl." First, because it is a Western sexual fantasy, it simply doesn't match up with actual Arab family behavior, which places a heavy emphasis on having children, and assigns status based on one's success in this regard. Sheik Ali's love of sex but disinterest in fathering a family until late in the book comes across as inauthentic for an Arab man of his time, as does the lack of interest in motherhood among the women of his harem. Other features of the sexual fantasy are also overemphasized: like many heroes in romance novels, Sheik Ali is filthy rich, meaning that Mariyah/Sapphira and the other slave girls get to spend a lot of time bathing and lounging around hoping to be called to the Sheik's bedroom that night for a good dose of that legendary and kinky oriental loving, but have few other duties or responsibilities. This is another misconception that can be seen in the paintings of harem life by Western artists of the 19th century, where attractive, fair-skinned women are shown lounging around nearly naked by the pool. The problem is that it's hard to find such characters interesting.

Which is the second difficulty with this book: it lacks tension. Life in the harem is too easy, lacking the backstabbing and intrigue commonly associated with the institution, and Mariyah/Sapphira's problems are not solved by her but instead by her handsome, rich Sheik. She displays a nice degree of independence and motivation to get herself into Sheik Ali's harem, but none whatsoever once she is there.

We must keep in mind, however, that the emphasis of this book is not anthropological or historical accuracy. It was written as a sexual fantasy for Western culture, and it is interesting in what it shows about that culture. Like all sexual fantasies it is quite specific in its target; it either will hit your button or it won't, much like Ann Rice's "Beauty" trilogy, John Norman's "Gor" series, or Karen Anne Mitchell's "The Usahar." So while I can't recommend "Harem Girl" as traditional literature, it does achieve its purpose as a fantasy. And if you are a fan of Edward Said and his views, I'd read it for that reason alone.

I really liked this book because it is a totally believable story with a superb story line. Too often sheik/harem books are premised on unlikely events such as travel back in time or set on some unbelievable planet somewhere else in the universe. Not this story, however, as felt I was reading a true account of life in an Arabian harem in the early 1900's.

Mariyah the main character starts her adventure as a fourteen years old girl living in Tunisia and ends it in Arabia when she is forty. In the intervening years she is married, enters the harem of an Arab sheik as his slave Sapphira, falls in love and marries again. Therein lies a small but integral part of the plot-only she knows that she is already married to another man-until her deceit is discovered. How and why, as a married woman, she enters the harem of a sheik as a slave is an intriguing and cleverly woven story in itself, and what follows afterwards is both warm and harrowing. Expect to shed a tear or two.

I bought this book as a present for my wife. It was well received-as were the thanks the book inspired!

From the back cover:
HAREM GIRL is, at its heart, an engaging and erotic love story. Sapphira, beautiful and assured, tells in unblushing and sensuous detail of her journey through life, briefly as an innocent young girl in Tunisia, then as one of eleven slave girls in an Arabian sheikh's harem, where her life changes utterly. Shamelessly, she reveals the sheik's secrets of exotic lovemaking.

There is much to learn before she is ready to be "called" to her Master. Eunuchs train and instruct her in every facet of the art of pleasing a man.
..."on one hand, I looked forward to knowing these things, yet on the other, I was aghast at the way I had to show myself and the distasteful things I might have to do. It thoroughly unnerved me to realize that I must know a man in these ways-a man I scarcely knew"...

Her story of life in the harem is compelling and moving, revealing a level of lustful debauchery, submission, and decadence unimaginable today, but completely believable in the era in which it is set. And we feel...we imagine...we could be her, sharing her joy and tears, as intriguing, romantic, and sometimes-wretched events unfold.

But all is not as it first appears. She uncovers chinks in the sheik's cold and indifferent exterior. Hearts are vulnerable-even the strongest succumb-and gently they enter into the warm world of love between a man and a woman...and she steps across a forbidden boundary she had not imagined doing at the start.

Unknown to others, Sapphira harbors a dark and troubling past. Years later, when her unlawful secret is uncovered, her calmed life collapses, leaving her exposed to swift and cruel justice. With heartrending bravery, she climbs from the depths of deplorable anguish and gives us a story guaranteed to excite the senses and arouse emotions-in a pleasing way.

If you enjoy sheik/harem slave girl stories you will not be disappointed! However, note the sensible warning on the back cover:-"A book recommended for the mature and broad minded-not for teenage daughters." It is quite erotically explicit in parts, but tastefully written, not pornographic.

I was at first a little concerned about the subject matter and whether the author had fallen into that oh so commom trap of writting pornography as pretense for erotisism. But not in this novel. Saalih has done a masterful job of writing tastefully and titillatingly about what inevitably has very sexy content and context - life in an Arabian harem - and I have no compunction whatsoever in wholeheartedly recommending this book. Read it with someone you want to undress!

This story really got me hooked from the first page. Very enjoyable to read.

Lately, I had read a few erotic books that turned out to be utter trash. I enjoy the erotic stories (even the rounchy ones), but they MUST be well written!

This book was able to be erotic (even without the cheap sexy words) and so well written. The author fully developed the characters, and her psychological reasonings for how character's behaved.

In addition, the author's details really takes the reader right into the story and time setting.
What is extra interesting about this novel is the historical and cultural information that the author generously supplies for the reader. You will walk away with new empathies and understandings for people in this world that you have never known!

This is one of those novels that keeps the reader thinking about the characters when they are not reading- like you are thinking of a friend and wondering how they are doing.

I give this book a SOLID FIVE STARS!

The author went through an amazing amount of research for this fictional book. The story was so well detailed I could not put it down! You go back in a time where there were so many horrific "laws" and witness the changes that come with cultural influences. The erotic details of the harem secrets were both delicious and shocking in a tasteful way. This is NO sex trash novel. It is a story of a girl into womanhood and her search for both love and a life fulfilled. I will definitely read again and recommend!

Harem Girl / 0-595-31300-0

There's nothing wrong with erotica. But erotica shouldn't be labeled and marketed as straight-up literature or real-life memoirs. The book description and author present this as a realistic memoir and some buyers will deeply upset to find that, no, this is just an erotic fantasy novel.

Mariyah El-Abiad is a bored housewife. She's educated, respected, beautiful, and barren. Despite her barrenness, her husband loves her, respects her, caters to her whims as much as possible, but she wants some excitement in her life. She contrives a complicated and incredibly implausible plan to smuggle herself into a harem so that she can enjoy the wonders of being a slave to a potentially cruel and capricious master whom she has never met. After four months of this, she will be smuggled back out, and her husband will never be the wiser - unless he thinks to ask why she ground her teeth smooth, waxed her bikini area, and sustained whip marks on her back for a simple job tutoring a young girl in French (her cover story).

Mariyah El-Abiad is supremely confident that life in the harem will go swimmingly, and she fantasizes about crawling on her hands and knees and pleasuring her master. Fortunately for Mariyah, harem life is exactly like she suspects - the slaves girls all love their master and love to please him and be pleased by him. There is an exotic torture room for disgusting slaves who accidentally pass wind in front of the master or burp at the dinner table, with the added erotic enticement that a slave can be sent there for almost any reason, but Mariyah is safe and confident in the belief that all punishment is gently and lovingly administered. Mariyah, you see, loves her master immediately because he dominates her in a way that her boring husband would not, and he is driven insanely mad with desire for her and her fellow love slaves (but mostly her, because she oh-so-special!) and she loves what he does to her - everything she experiences in her new life is instantly easy, pleasurable, and satisfying.

This novel is nothing other than escapist erotica. Again, there's nothing wrong with that, but this is marketed as a straight-up "historical" memoir as far as I can see, and it simply is not. Everyone lazes around happily all day, waiting for the night entertainment. The master has no interest in fathering children, which is highly unusual for his culture and his age. The women are vapid - droolingly happy to be slaves, always "reaching their pleasure" and never in pain (even the virgin bum girls!) because this is a fantasy, and not a reality. If you want a harem-themed erotica novel, this has length and stamina, with an interlude almost every page, but if you want something with plot and realism, look elsewhere.

~ Ana Mardoll

....the gift of yourself...who knew the intricacies of a chosenlifestyle were so complicated. This was well writtenand thought out - actually believable

I found this story line exciting. It's a great story with a very sultry, sexy bi-line. I could not put this book down... and I found myself seeking out my husband every time I did. The Arabian flavor was superb.... the characters vivid... and the storytelling was rich and wonderful.

This is a book I would read on a cold winter's night for pure entertainment. The premise of joining a harem for 4 months or so is too unbelieveable to even be entertained but as sheer fantasy it works. This insight into how a harem works and lives is very good, all feminists aside, but way too smooth. Only in a book could such as this happen but you know what ? Who cares, it is a well written book, very entertaining and didn't ruffle too many of my independant and feminists feathers. Now a steady diet of erotic,submissive fiction would make me crazy but this was fun and worth the money.

It's a really good book, and it was in perfect condition when I got it.

I could not put this book down, it has everything that makes a good book. It has intrigue, romance, suspense, and it is written so you can picture what is happening.
It is a very sexual book, some parts may even make you blush! hahaahah