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Harold Litten's Best Erotic Fantasies: How to Enjoy and Understand the Sex in Your Head

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Just as Harold Litten's now classic Joy of Solo Sex set the standard for masturbation techniques and attitudes, his current book takes sex fantasies to a new level of honesty, vividness, and pleasure. He studies not just the vanilla day dreams of high schoolers, but the five consistently most popular fantasies among both men and women: sex with a stranger, rape, exhibitionism/voyeurism, homosexual encounters, and sadomasochism. "I come home from work to find my wife nude, sitting on the sofa next to a naked man. I'm enraged and jealous, but she strips me, falls on her knees, and in seconds I find myself responding to her touch in spite of the anger. She whispers, "Now you must watch. "From thousands of submissions by fans around the world, Harold Litten has selected almost 100 of his all-time most potent and stimulating fantasies. They include the bizarre, the blatant, and certainly the deviant. "That's what fantasy is all about," says Litten. "Doing in your imagination what you wouldn't dare do--or even want to do--in reality. Indeed, fantasy can be much more fun than everyday reality." Included are fantasies about exhibitionists, straight men forced into sex with other men, captive men and women, orgies, daring fantasies. Readers learn what such fantasies suggest about their own sexuality and emotional needs. And they learn how to have better, more fulfilling fantasies. Chapter titles include. PartI. Your Fantasies and What they Mean 1. Anything...Any Time...Anywhere 2. Vanilla Dreams 3. My Victim, My Slave 4. Bend Me, Break Me--Don't Forsake Me 5. I'll Show You Mine if You Show Me Yours 6. Homosexual Fantasies Among Straights...7. Gender Benders 8. Kink. Part II. Better Living Through Fantasy 9. Restoring Sex to Partnerships 10. Healing Through Fantasy 11. Enhancing Your Fantasy Life 12. Pornography as Fantasy. Appendix: A Cornuocopia of Fantasies and Bibliography.

While the S & M is well beyond my realm, this book's message of how to approach our sexuality as living beings should be mandatory for all humans. Litten is a master at making the message clear and helping people blow away the fog created by our mixed-up culture. Life would be happier for everyone if they got half of the message Litten is conveying. Please read this book.