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Product Details

  • Hardcover: 240 pages
  • Publisher: Tarcher (February 14, 2008)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1585425583
  • ISBN-13: 978-1585425587
  • Product Dimensions: 8.3 x 6.2 x 0.9 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 12 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 4.9 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (129 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #2,436,263 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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From Publishers Weekly

A soft-pedaling memoir by journalist Frankel fondly recalls growing up in the Bronx and Queens, N.Y., learning to play poker from her dad and uncles, which would later become her obsession. As a kid Frankel absorbed the numbers-canny ways of her relatives, who doled out gambling advice such as the reference in the title to a ship's sinking, leaving only hats and eyeglasses floating on the surface. With the death of her beloved father, known as the Pencil because he was a CPA, Frankel's big dreams deflated and she largely drifted through school, a first marriage and drug use, before meeting woodworker Steve. She moved to Woodstock, N.Y., and, through friends, began writing celebrity interviews for magazines like Details. An idea for writing a screenplay about a poker player brought her into close contact with her ex-con cousin Keith, who had taught her how to play. From regular Wednesday night poker games with her friend Sal's group of hard-pickled males, where she learned how not to play like a girl, to an all-poker cruise to casinos in Atlantic City, N.J., and L.A., she gravitated to playing online, which enthralled her—and emptied her bank account. As she explains in this frank and unaffected memoir, shame brought her back to her family and closer to her mother. (Feb.)
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Review

“Martha Frankel . . . proves in her intimate, exuberant memoir that even in the face of a gambling addiction, frank self-appraisal and an armload of hugs can sometimes win the day.”
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More About the Author

Martha Frankel has interviewed actors (Leonardo DiCaprio, Naomi Watts), writers (Richard Ford, T.C. Boyle), directors (Spike Lee, Nicolas Roeg), musicians (Branford Marsalis, Mariah Carey), gods (Elizabeth Taylor, Robert De Niro), and supposed monsters (Lee Atwater, Mike Tyson). Her work has appeared in magazines as diverse as The New Yorker, Movieline's Hollywood Life, Cosmopolitan, Japanese Vogue [Vogue Nippon], and the original Details. (http://www.marthafrankel.com)

She is the Executive Director of the Woodstock Writers Festival http://woodstockwriters.com

Her memoir, Hats & Eyeglasses, was lauded in the NY Times and called "intimate and exuberant" by Oprah Magazine. Her next book, Brazilian Sexy: Secrets to Living a Gorgeous and Confident Life, co-written with Janea Padilha, teaches women how to finally be comfortable in their own skin (Perigee/Penguin).

She is a winner of a NYFFA Award in creative nonfiction, was the 1997 Philip Morris Fellow at The MacDowell Colony, a fellow at the Squaw Valley Community of Writers, and the 2003 artist-in-residence at SUNY Ulster. Not bad for a college dropout.

She has been an on-air contributor to VH1's Sexiest Movie Moments, Entertainment Tonight, and Inside Edition.

She is the moderator of the Woodstock Film Festival's Actor's Dialogue. Among the people who have participated in these events are Eydie Falco, Steve Buscemi, Olympia Dukakis, Stanley Tucci, Marcia Gay Hardin, and Aidan Quinn.

Frankel has many new books up her sleeve. A few have started to slip out.

http://marthafrankel.com
http://woodstockwriters.com

Customer Reviews

This book is so fun to read.
daisy Bolle
Martha Frankel's "Hats and Eyeglasses" is a skillful work that explores questions about family, obsession, addiction, and love.
G. Moran
Its a great book, and I can't wait to get hooked on her next one..
Cindy Dasilva

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13 of 13 people found the following review helpful By Abbe Aronson on February 14, 2008
Format: Hardcover
I was fortunate enough to get my hands on a review copy, so I read it before publication...what a treat! Martha Frankel's amazingly real story of addiction highs and lows, mixed in with her spicy, sexy family trials and tribulations was utterly capitavating to me -- I related some of it to my own Jewish family craziness, while some of it was completely foreign to me (I've never played poker in my life.) But in both instances, I loved the honesty, the narrative, the direct voice, the whole thing! I actually read it in one day, so reluctant was I to put it down and when it was over, I longed for more...Hats off to Martha Frankel!!!!
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8 of 8 people found the following review helpful By Meira Blaustein on February 16, 2008
Format: Hardcover
From cover to cover, HATS & EYEGLASSES has got to be one of the most fascinating books I've read in a long long time. At once heartbreaking and entertaining, Martha Frankel's candid tale of growing up to a Jewish family life overflowing with food, gambling, and love, is one that you would not want to miss. Her ultimate downward spiral and eventual personal triumph will hold you captive till the very last page. I truly did laugh and cry, and learned some along the way. At times reminiscent of Damon Runyon, other times of Neil Simon, yet completely her own, Martha Frankel's HATS & EYEGLASSES is the kind of book you can gobble up in one seating, whether you are relaxing somewhere on the beach or sneaking precious private time before work. Read it, its a blast.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful By Sylvia B. Rozzelle on March 17, 2008
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What a fun read! You truly appreciate the author's early family life around the poker and mahjong tables and cherish learning about the people who influenced her life. She brings these family members to the reader in such a kind and loving manner. And, when it comes to the Wednesday night poker games she portrays the players so vividly. Anyone who has played regularly around a poker table will truly get a kick out of these chapters. But, when the author reveals her online poker addiction, the reader feels empathy for the author as she "goes it alone". Whether or not you're a gambler, you'll enjoy this book!

Sylvia Rozzelle
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful By L. Stein on April 30, 2009
Format: Paperback
SPOILER ALERT - SPOILERS BELOW

This was a concise, funny, well-written memoir about one of my own hobbies (poker). I liked Frankel's writing style, down to earth and honest - most of all, it seems that she sees the humor in pretty much everything. The scenes of her parents and their friends are hilarious and touching, real and surreal (the part about Kevin and the balsamic vinegar had me laughing out loud).

When her gambling developed into an addiction to online poker, I was riveted. Then, I was annoyed (but not surprised) by the response of Gambling Anonymous. Finally, I was glad that Frankel still plays poker in her weekly game. Some people, no doubt, can never gamble again, just like alcoholics can never drink again, but Frankel was only addicted to online gambling. I'm glad she can still enjoy the game in real life.

I will never play online poker for money. Never. Well, maybe to get into the WSOP.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful By Nancy E. Nussbaum on August 5, 2009
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You know that feeling when you're getting to the ending of a book that you are just enjoying so much and just wishing that another chapter or two will mysteriously appear? Well, that's how I felt reading Martha Frankel's Hats and Eyeglasses. Growing up in an Italian family is just too similar as growing up in a Jewish family (as my husband often tells me), so I could just relate to ALL of the family stuff. While I am not a poker player nor a card player, I just adored this wonderful book and look forward to Martha's next masterpiece! Buy this book...you will not regret it!
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful By H. J. Rodgville on February 15, 2008
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Hats & Eyeglasses: A Family Love Affair with Gambling A delerious read demonstrating the strength of character Martha Frankel achieves after looking into the mirror. Her humor and desperation combine to rush the reader from page to page. This is one of those rare books that prohibits dropping out and compels you to stay in the pot to the end. There is magic on these pages. I heard the buzz, ordered the book in June and waited 'til yesterday for delivery. This is one of those waits that does not disappoint. What a wonderful family!
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful By John Scott Marricco on April 16, 2009
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Having been given this book as a gift, I may not have chosen to read it on my own. But that is what makes life so wonderful. This book takes you on a journey in addiction, depression, and redemption, but does in a way that is both charming and engrossing. Frankel makes you feel like one of her best friends and she seems like such a cool chick. I'm a slow reader who often rereads many passages, I don't just read a book I have a relationship with it. This book became a great part of my life and I recommend it to anyone.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful By Andrea Hameed on February 14, 2008
Format: Hardcover
I had the opportunity to read this book early on in the game and laughed and cried so much that they both became one emotion. Being the daughter of a jewish gambler and growing up in a similar family experience to Martha, I became so involved that I could not put the book down until I finished. I did not want the book to end as I was having the time of my life reading it. I cannot say enough about how enjoyable the read was. So happy that it is finally out. Can't wait for book two.
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