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Hats & Eyeglasses: A Family Love Affair with Gambling [Hardcover]

Martha Frankel (Author)
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February 14, 2008
A gloriously written memoir of growing up in a family of hard- core gamblers-Martha Frankel thought the gambling gene had passed her by, until she found herself addicted to online poker and knee-deep in debt.

Most weekends when Martha Frankel was a kid, her mother had a mah-jongg game going in the kitchen with her girlfriends while their husbands were in the living room playing poker. Once Frankel reached adulthood, however, while her cousins were making their way in the world as bookies and drug dealers, gambling didn't much factor into her life.

In the tradition of Five-Finger Discount by Helene Stapinski and Dry by Augusten Burroughs, Hats & Eyeglasses traces Frankel's love affair with poker. It was a passion that bit her in her mid-forties and remained harmless enough when she stuck to real cards. But everything changed one evening in 1998 in Atlantic City, when Frankel overheard one dealer bemoan the fact that his tips that evening were going to be small what with the meager crowd assembled. Another dealer mentioned that everyone must be playing online-"Why leave the house when you can play in your pajamas?" the dealer said. Why indeed? thought Frankel, who couldn't wait to get back to her computer. The next morning she took a deep breath, typed in her credit card number, and entered the world of online gambling. It was the beginning of what one of her uncles called "hats and eyeglasses," a term used to describe those times when you're losing so bad you're drowning (so all one can see is the poker player's hat and eyeglasses floating on the surface of the water). By turns hilarious and heartbreaking, Hats & Eyeglasses is a tale of passion, addiction-and those times in life when we almost lose our shirt.

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A soft-pedaling memoir by journalist Frankel fondly recalls growing up in the Bronx and Queens, N.Y., learning to play poker from her dad and uncles, which would later become her obsession. As a kid Frankel absorbed the numbers-canny ways of her relatives, who doled out gambling advice such as the reference in the title to a ship's sinking, leaving only hats and eyeglasses floating on the surface. With the death of her beloved father, known as the Pencil because he was a CPA, Frankel's big dreams deflated and she largely drifted through school, a first marriage and drug use, before meeting woodworker Steve. She moved to Woodstock, N.Y., and, through friends, began writing celebrity interviews for magazines like Details. An idea for writing a screenplay about a poker player brought her into close contact with her ex-con cousin Keith, who had taught her how to play. From regular Wednesday night poker games with her friend Sal's group of hard-pickled males, where she learned how not to play like a girl, to an all-poker cruise to casinos in Atlantic City, N.J., and L.A., she gravitated to playing online, which enthralled her—and emptied her bank account. As she explains in this frank and unaffected memoir, shame brought her back to her family and closer to her mother. (Feb.)
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Review

“[This] Honest, funny betting memoir rises to the top... Frankel’s lively storytelling allows her to turn her own crapola into a winner.”
USA Today

"In five minutes you will feel not only as if you have known [Martha] all your life, but as if you still have one of her sweaters."
The New York Times

“Intimate, exuberant”
O, The Oprah Magazine

“Sparse and honest writing”
The Associated Press

“Fast-paced and amazingly funny”
New Orleans Times-Picayune

“[A] frank and unaffected memoir”
Publishers Weekly

“Fearless… powerful, even uplifting and funny.”
The New York Post

"Fun and full of life. I've known Martha Frankel for twenty years and Hats & Eyeglasses was still surprising. A wonderful book."
-Jane Smiley, author of Ten Days in the Hills and A Year at the Races

"A bluntly honest memoir of gambling addiction-harrowing, funny, and compulsively readable, straight through to the end."
-John Berendt, author of Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil and The City of Falling Angels

"Hats & Eyeglasses is a hamische tour de force. With a warm voice and a light touch, Martha Frankel's account of growing up with gambling pays off, big- time. My bet is on her as she both enshrines and kicks her compulsion. Entertaining and enlightening, this is a must for memoir addicts, and a fine debut for the author."
-Laura Shaine Cunningham, author of Sleeping Arrangements and Beautiful Bodies


Product Details

  • Hardcover: 240 pages
  • Publisher: Tarcher (February 14, 2008)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1585425583
  • ISBN-13: 978-1585425587
  • Product Dimensions: 8.4 x 5.6 x 1 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 12 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 4.9 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (130 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,279,578 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Martha Frankel has interviewed actors (Leonardo DiCaprio, Naomi Watts), writers (Richard Ford, T.C. Boyle), directors (Spike Lee, Nicolas Roeg), musicians (Branford Marsalis, Mariah Carey), gods (Elizabeth Taylor, Robert De Niro), and supposed monsters (Lee Atwater, Mike Tyson). Her work has appeared in magazines as diverse as The New Yorker, Movieline's Hollywood Life, Cosmopolitan, Japanese Vogue [Vogue Nippon], and the original Details. (http://www.marthafrankel.com)

She is the Executive Director of the Woodstock Writers Fest http://woodstockwritersfest.com

She has been an on-air contributor to VH1's Sexiest Movie Moments, Entertainment Tonight, and Inside Edition.

She is co-host of Doug Grunther's the Woodstock Roundtable, a Sunday morning radio talk-show, broadcast on WDST in Woodstock.

She is the moderator of the Woodstock Film Festival's Actor's Dialogue. Among the people who have participated in these events are Steve Buscemi, Olympia Dukakis, Stanley Tucci, Marcia Gay Hardin, and Aidan Quinn.

She is a winner of a NYFFA Award in creative nonfiction, was the 1997 Philip Morris Fellow at The MacDowell Colony, a fellow at the Squaw Valley Community of Writers, and the 2003 artist-in-residence at SUNY Ulster. She is also a college dropout.

Her memoir, Hats & Eyeglasses, was lauded in the NY Times and called "intimate and exuberant" by Oprah Magazine. Her next book, Brazilian Sexy: Secrets to Living a Gorgeous and Confident Life, written with Janea Padilha, teaches women how to finally be comfortable in their own skin (Perigee/Penguin).

Frankel has many new books up her sleeve. A few have started to slip out.

She believes that marketing, branding, and targeting your audience is key to selling your book.

 

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11 of 11 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars could NOT put it down! loved, loved, loved it!!!, February 14, 2008
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I was fortunate enough to get my hands on a review copy, so I read it before publication...what a treat! Martha Frankel's amazingly real story of addiction highs and lows, mixed in with her spicy, sexy family trials and tribulations was utterly capitavating to me -- I related some of it to my own Jewish family craziness, while some of it was completely foreign to me (I've never played poker in my life.) But in both instances, I loved the honesty, the narrative, the direct voice, the whole thing! I actually read it in one day, so reluctant was I to put it down and when it was over, I longed for more...Hats off to Martha Frankel!!!!
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8 of 8 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Hats off!, February 16, 2008
This review is from: Hats & Eyeglasses: A Family Love Affair with Gambling (Hardcover)
From cover to cover, HATS & EYEGLASSES has got to be one of the most fascinating books I've read in a long long time. At once heartbreaking and entertaining, Martha Frankel's candid tale of growing up to a Jewish family life overflowing with food, gambling, and love, is one that you would not want to miss. Her ultimate downward spiral and eventual personal triumph will hold you captive till the very last page. I truly did laugh and cry, and learned some along the way. At times reminiscent of Damon Runyon, other times of Neil Simon, yet completely her own, Martha Frankel's HATS & EYEGLASSES is the kind of book you can gobble up in one seating, whether you are relaxing somewhere on the beach or sneaking precious private time before work. Read it, its a blast.
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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars what a great read!, February 14, 2008
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I got a copy yesterday and have finished it today. I couldn't put it down. It is funny, moving and incredibly interesting. What a look into the experience of online poker addiction! As a non-poker player, I really enjoyed understanding some of the nuances of playing the game itself while reading a very engaging story. Highly recommended.
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This is how I remember things: my mother was in the kitchen with her girlfriends. Read the first page
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