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Product Details

  • Paperback: 142 pages
  • Publisher: CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform (October 22, 2010)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1453771840
  • ISBN-13: 978-1453771846
  • Product Dimensions: 6.1 x 8.9 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 8.8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.9 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (14 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #637,880 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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About the Author

Sheri Moskowitz Noga has a Masters Degree in Humanistic and Clinical Psychology and has been in private practice for over 30 years as a psychotherapist working with individuals, children, couples and families. Her therapeutic approach of honesty and compassion has allowed many families to find their way to more peaceful and rewarding relationships.

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This was so much harder as a parent.
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Sheri Noga's book directly confronts the notion that parental focus should be on the immediate gratification of the child in order to keep him or her happy.
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The book offered good advice to parents.
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13 of 13 people found the following review helpful By booksandbliss VINE VOICE on March 7, 2012
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I have read close to 20 childrearing books since becoming a mother but this is the one book that's spoken to me most directly about the struggles I am going through with a strong-willed school aged child. Things that were driving me crazy: talking back, inability to keep on a schedule, constant asking for more, more, more in the way of material gifts...I've had no problem nurturing my child academically, physically, emotionally and athletically...but how to instill a sense of responsibility? consideration for others? accountability? selflessness? respect for others? This was so much harder as a parent.

I had wavered between firm and soft over the years, and I hadn't been 100% consistent in my discipline and follow through. I'm paying for that now, and struggling as to how I can make up for what I had failed to do better in the early years. Noga's many vivid examples of former clients/patients as well as no-holds-bar warnings jolted me into changing my parenting attitude and methods literally overnight.

I should clarify that this is not a how-to book - more of an illustrative book to show the range of out-of-control behaviors and attitudes among kids and teens (and how parents perpetrate and nurture them) and what could happen if parents don't step in soon - but I think the answers are within us already. What the book does is give a huge jolt and wake up call. If you find yourself at times picking up the slack for your child, or looking the other way because you know it'll take too much effort to argue with him, this book reminds you that it is *not* ok to keep letting these incidents pile up, or before you know it your child will be controlling your household and grow into an entitled, emotionally weak and dependent adult.
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3 of 4 people found the following review helpful By Dr. Adam on November 19, 2010
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Have The Guts To Do It Right is a wonderful book for both therapists and parents. The book contains vivid observations that speak to the author's keen observational skills. There is much wisdom in this book. Many parents sincerely feel that they are helping their children by not setting limits on them and trying to be their best friends. Sheri sets them straight in a very direct and honest manner. The book validates the experiences of many therapists working with children, adolescents and young adults growing up in the 21st century, and the author writes in an interesting manner which makes this a difficult book to put down.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful By Trevor Ryals on April 1, 2013
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For a generation of parents that are kissing our kids butts, it's time to pack some knowledge and "old school" tactics that worked for previous parents. Trust me, in a world of iphones, computers, youtube, and that awful pop music culture, this book will help you straighten out your kids before it's too late. Doesn't touch on the divorced Dad side of raising kids, which is what I was looking for, but I can't expect everything.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful By Dr. Ronda on November 21, 2010
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In a direct, straightforward voice, Ms. Noga, makes a solid case for parenting with limits, love, and expectations. Filled with examples from her own clinical practice and sage practical advice, she effectively demonstrates that indulgent parenting often leads to the development of entitled, narcissistic children. Sadly as these narcissistic children age, they struggle with the adult tasks of creating meaningful, empathetic relationships and satisfying, fulfilling work. She recognizes, with compassion, that our current materialistic society makes limit setting difficult. However, a strong advocate for healthy children and families, Ms. Noga is nonetheless clear that parents need to rise to the challenge and teach their children responsibility, gratitude, and respect. Fortunately, for the reader she provides many practical suggestions on exactly how to do that.
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3 of 4 people found the following review helpful By Editor on December 1, 2010
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Those of us who have been around long enough to remember when parents were still authority figures (albeit some were too strict)are confused by the shift in power that is all too prevalent in families currently. All too often, kids run the show. Sheri Noga's book directly confronts the notion that parental focus should be on the immediate gratification of the child in order to keep him or her happy. For those who need permission to do what is right and best for the child, they will get it in big doses here. In a direct and easily understandable style, a reality check is delivered to parents willing to change their own way of parenting. These changes involve providing a gift better than any they could buy-an understanding of the importance of empathy, respect and the patience to wait for (or even earn) what they want.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful By Natalya Ann Tucker on August 27, 2014
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Am going to start giving this to new moms during baby showers. Am the mother of triplets who also taught inner city middle school. The author is full of common sense. Am surprised this book isn't more popular. If all parents in our country read it, we'd have a lot less social problems.
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After 25 years as a family therapist, I was pleased to read a book that helps parents understand "nothing happens in a vacuum" when it comes to parenting. Sheri does a wonderful job in helping parents understand the power we have to influence who are children are(both positively and negatively)by how we respond to them. I think that one of the most loving things we can do as parents is teach our children how the real world works by teaching cause-effect relationships so as to empower them when they walk out the front door every day. Sheri's book does a wonderful and courageous job of helping parents understand this, and in the process become responsible and effective in influencing who their children become. Great stuff...long overdue.
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